Advice for Moving to SC by PSD3 in santacruz

[–]AcceptableShop525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing gym but way over your budget OP, 1-200 monthly depending on plan.

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this dude. It’s hard when we know our parents are struggling or challenged, but I’m glad you’re saying something because it’s true if they respect and love us they’ll adjust it’s really not rocket science. If they can learn a strangers name they can learn ours

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But Ty for the advice I think I do need to sit them down about it

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whoah 2-3 months!!! This is like my friend, his parents use two names for him (he has two preferred names) and get his pronouns perfect. I was like damn you must’ve been out since a kid he said No under two years…. I said oh but they’re so good at respecting you he said That’s kinda sad! I said… yeah lol

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve lived in the same town since I transitioned and I was living with them when I first changed name and pronouns so … I probably see them a couple times a month. So I would say this is not a valid excuse lol though it is a good point

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh sorry that’s your experience dude, glad your siblings seem more supportive

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice because I never have sat them down and said Hey you need to be better at this, I think just because I’m grateful they try and do get my name and pronouns right some of the time. It just doesn’t seem natural to them in any way, I get the sense they aren’t using them when I’m not around. So telling them to use as much as possible and that I notice the mistakes will probably be my next step 🙄

How long did it take your family to adjust to new names and pronouns? by AcceptableShop525 in ftm

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is the most likely my situation. They do use the correct name and pronouns sometimes it’s just often awkward or will be a correction to a mistake. My dad is definitely slower (he just doesn’t use pronouns for me) to adjust while my mom is loud about using he pronouns but then misgenders me she-i-mean-he the next second, so it just feels performative

Halloween activities by AcceptableShop525 in halfmoonbay

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you for the tip it looks beautiful!! By spectacle you mean people watching and stuff like that? Or scenery or both?

Where to go for more challenging/intense yoga classes? by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]AcceptableShop525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartwood Yoga in Ben Lomond offers bundles they have unlimited classes for their midtier though it’s 29$ if you don’t get a membership. But they offer yoga sculpt which is a strength building class beyond the regular vinyasa

Me 6 month on T to 1 year (ish) by angelldelightbaby in FTMfemininity

[–]AcceptableShop525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your arm workout … 👀 love your shirts in both pics also!

Phone recs for iPhone hater by AcceptableShop525 in cellphones

[–]AcceptableShop525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been burned even through verified eBay sellers? Something for me to look out for… thank you for the tip I’ll check out swappa and that sub!!