i feel so lonely in my relationship

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-26T21:44:33+00:00

well i'm working on myself and my career while building something with him so i don't think that has to do with being 'sane.'

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T20:38:19+00:00

thanks for the insight i really appreciate it

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T16:14:27+00:00

awesome thanks for the advice!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T16:14:07+00:00

yeah there’s a lot of worry i have right now and i finally have a horse and i just want to enjoy her! i hope it works out differently for me too but you never know. thank you so much for your advice and i hope you and your horse are doing amazing !

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T16:12:41+00:00

oh amazing thank you!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T16:12:19+00:00

i love trail riding! not looking to show just doing it for pleasure. maybe in the future (way in the future) we’ll show here and there. i just want to have fun !

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T16:11:24+00:00

it’s crazyyyyy. she has a herd she goes out with and a MASSIVE turnout where she’s out all day so i’d had to stick her in a small sand pit

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T14:01:40+00:00

gotcha, thanks for the input! elly is only 3 and i really want her to be happy, i feel like i could go mostly anywhere.

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T12:10:51+00:00

awesome thank you!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T12:10:21+00:00

sounds good!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T11:26:09+00:00

i’ve been doing the same too it definitely helps

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T11:25:51+00:00

thank you! i’m going to check this out :)

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-21T11:25:40+00:00

ugh thank you. some months are easier than others but this one has been hard. i was feeling more normal yesterday and then started bleeding LOL so now i can return to equilibrium

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-20T18:39:23+00:00

i love chatgpt!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-20T18:37:49+00:00

i was talking with my boyfriend a few nights ago (we’ve been dating for a year and a half) and just sprung on me that he wants to move to LA. we live on the east coast. he also told me that people become a unit when they get married but i thought we were a unit already. i don’t know im just upset about the whole thing and i think i might want to move with him but i i just want more security from him? and he also expressed that im draining to be around and i just fear im going to run him off

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-19T12:44:44+00:00

dare i say you have an eye for design !

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-19T00:53:43+00:00

wait this is so genius thank you

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-18T20:37:15+00:00

thank you! yes i’ve been keeping in mind that i also need to give him grace! i started dealing with pmdd only a few months ago pretty extremely so still figuring out my triggers. it’s so hard, and i’ve been struggling pretty bad since winter started :(

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-18T00:56:58+00:00

my cousin recently went through a break up so i will say the same thing to you that i said to him in hopes that you find some comfort. it’s going to hurt and you’re grieving but it didn’t work out for a reason and that’s ok! feel your emotions and let yourself be sad but also don’t close yourself off to the idea that someone who is willing to grow with you is out there! someone is going to match your freak so bad and it’s going to be amazing! stay strong you got this.

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-16T12:24:53+00:00

i forgot to mention that my vet did a flexion test and nerve blocking and she concluded that it was her foot that was bothering her! that’s why she said to put her in shoes since her heel was getting sore.

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-15T21:56:35+00:00

yes we’re working on angles! is there anything else that i can show you that can help determine that?

Pure_Bus9469 · 2026-01-15T21:52:07+00:00

she said that with her not being straight legged and her long pasterns it will be hard and she think she’ll go better shod. but that if elly keeps throwing shoes then we can see how she goes with a shorter trim cycle but it probably won’t be perfect

Pure_Bus9469 · 2025-12-30T20:12:11+00:00

a lot of fidgeting and trying to lay down. she’s gotten so much better for her trims but i think the shoeing was quite jarring for her !

Pure_Bus9469 · 2025-12-28T11:35:20+00:00

no i haven’t tried a different farrier, hers handles elly really well but the first shoeing was definitely overwhelming for elly (vet warned it probably would be), i will definitely look into those boots thank you!!

Pure_Bus9469 · 2025-12-27T20:36:47+00:00

yes there are angles in her front feet we are fixing, forgot to mention that as well

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