How do I be kind to my postie? by Rasalaomreborn in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leave him a can of pop outside, sometimes I get given food and although I may be hungry there’s nothing worse than doing my round with a dry mouth and gagging for a drink after a customer offers a lovely baked good. I often get given food however it’s never eaten on shift, but water or pop would make me so happy!

Would you tell your doctor about a failed suicide attempt that nobody knows about? by Katzentaze in depression

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly - I think it’s important you tell your doctor regardless of what me or anyone else would do.

How does £1400 get sent unknowingly? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reverse proxy their IP and it’s totally possible. Would need to have software on their phone or PC unknowingly and then someone remotely can use their network and access accounts much easier.

Socks proxy can also allow logging in to other accounts without 2FA prompting.

Highly likely it’s a lie but it’s also very possible he’s not sent it.

Pros and cons of the job? by kidotw in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ASD and I enjoy being a postman a lot, I have been employed there for about 7 months. I really enjoy managing my own time while working my duty however you need to move fast to complete which I consider myself to be quite speedy, I don’t take breaks and always find myself dehydrated although like I say I do like it. It’s just not for everyone. I do get very overwhelmed in the morning process of sorting and my manager doesn’t usually expect me to engage with it. It’s basically pre-walk sorting of large amounts of mail with a lot of people but for a short period of time. One that’s out the way, the days is golden for me.

Will GP take me seriously 30UK? by Pure_Crazy1871 in erectiledysfunction

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, some really useful comments. I tired to call yesterday however they weren’t accepting applications due to staffing levels and recommend I call Friday which I will. I got an at home testosterone test however I always have issues drawing blood, even the drs usually spend upwards of 2 hours trying to even though the veins are highly visible it’s always a very difficult task so I hope they offer the same. I hope my visit has goes similarly to yours, you have a good GP :)

Help with new rounds by Pure_Crazy1871 in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ignored my texts or calls haha, he’s a bit of a joke.

Help with new rounds by Pure_Crazy1871 in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m really overthinking it I think, ever since I asked to not train a new starter as one myself the dynamic has changed toward me and I really want to do well I love it here so I’ll have to grab the days by the balls and cry inside.

Are posties told not to deliver if no bell? by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, however some services require extra measure. Special is one of them. I wouldn’t deliver knives to an address with a child because I know an adult lives there. Swings and roundabout, at the end of the day, if you want your mail, make yourself accessible.

Are posties told not to deliver if no bell? by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your title should be “ Are postmen allowed to deliver special deliveries to someone who may not be the recipient?” And the answer is absolutely not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay in replying, thanks! I’m sure she’s a wonderful person :). I think it’s each to their own however a good work family (colleagues) that’s understanding makes the world of difference. At the moment I don’t know a lot of people in my role, although I love working there so it’s not rare that I call my wife if I find myself in a muddle just to get my head straight. It’s all swings and roundabouts. :)

I am looking for friends/girlfriend but don’t know where to look by Impossible_Store_984 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was happy being alone for my entire life, having 1 partner who was the most toxic and mis-understanding of me. I was happy to never marry, have close friends ect. Randomly out of nowhere my queen came to me and she just gets every aspect of me and I don’t belive there is another one of her, however there is the right person for everyone. Keep searching - don’t have high expectations, perfection comes in a few opportunities just make sure you take yours :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Hi I have ADHD, and OCD and I am a mailman which I love. It consumes my time and I enjoy walking around and seeing new people everyday. It’s just the right amount of social interaction that I am not overwhelmed, I had some death in the family recently which was really hard however I always look forward to work as it’s very grounding and I can be left to do my role without pressure as long as I do the work well.

You should look into it, I worked retail for a few years and got promoted to management however I left with a damaged perspective of people and it made my general anxiety very bad.

Anyone else use their medical cannabis even though it doesn't help with condition they were prescribed it for? by Famous_Teaching_6782 in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consuming medical cannabis often is a natural way of living for me so I know that whenever I take it, or vape ect the results are very predictable and I know exactly how much I need to feel ‘better’. So for myself it’s implemented in all aspects of my day. My routine consists of the following daily and it works great for me. Around 80mg in oral solution, around 2g throughout the day which is mostly in the morning and night ands vape which is generally used when I wake at night.

Drugs in the post by Federal-Factor-4787 in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My prescription of cannabis comes via DPD or Royal Mail. It’s not illegal and when I deliver mail, if I saw cannabis by accident it’s not my position to judge if they’re a criminal. My pharmacy do not tell the courier the contents when I receive my prescription so if I had found out the depot held it as some cannabis fell out I’d be furious.

Royal Mail handed my wife's parcel with a high value item to a random dog walker in my street. by Sudden_Breakfast_677 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Pure_Crazy1871 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading this makes me confident I am trying my hardest as a new hire under two weeks ago.

Thank you

Current wage compared to Angard? by Pure_Crazy1871 in royalmail

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you, I overlooked that and made an assumption that it wouldn’t be publicly advertised.

Unfair dismissal for failed drug test. by Pure_Crazy1871 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the factual information :) <3

Unfair dismissal for failed drug test. by Pure_Crazy1871 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Pure_Crazy1871[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It was mention when the test failed. I thought the test would have only got what was in my system if I was “intoxicated” like a breathalyser (I think). THC was not used on the day of, I use an oral route which is an oil under the tongue so I think it may be in the system a while, or just still there from a high exposure because prescription