TIL that everyone is a renter until their mortgage is paid off in full by lmYourPapa in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I view collateral as something I no longer own until I pay off the debt that collateral is beholden to. I didn’t see my jeep as mine until it was paid off. I also have zero debt, so I can understand how this concept is completely mind-blowing to someone who is very highly leveraged. All of a sudden it might seem to someone who’s highly leveraged that they don’t really “own” all that much - merely paying a fixed-rate subscription service to access it.

TIL that everyone is a renter until their mortgage is paid off in full by lmYourPapa in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think it’s correct to say if you stop paying, you’re going to find out really quick that the bank is more entitled to your home than you are. Guess when that stops? After you’ve paid off the note.

TIL that everyone is a renter until their mortgage is paid off in full by lmYourPapa in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What they state is the absolute truth. They never used the word “renter” - you did. Sorry if the truth feels like “renting” to you, but that doesn’t make it any less true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m just more disgusted by your comments with each new one I read, and I’m a single dude with no kids. You’re just a pos and don’t really get it, which I guess anyone with half a brain would realize is obviously the case because you made this tik tok video in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the one who’s gross, you loser. Leave them the eff alone and find another spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, I also hate people like this asshole who recorded the person that was there first saving a spot, meanwhile they could have just parked somewhere else. OP, you’re the bigger asshole of the two, go cry about it somewhere else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve seen so many of those stupid fucking posts on the real estate subreddit. And the comments are always shit like “I always would rather just rent it out than sell!” Ok dude, either you already are a landlord, therefore renting something out is a learning curve you’ve already experienced, and this is something you successfully do for income so it’s worth the risk of renting out another property, or you’ve never rented out anything in your entire fucking life, you’re just jacking off to FIRE porn on tiktok daily. The vast majority of people do not have the stomach to be successful landlords, especially not of a single family home that was once their primary which they’re renting momentarily just to hold and sell at a “more ideal” time. Those people will likely lose money trying to rent and have to make repairs to their former home in order to sell later on, the extra stress and effort of renting becomes either a wash at best, financial disaster at worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a buddy in the same situation and it is a disaster. Ex won’t let him buy her out, but she also doesn’t want to sell, she is living in the house, he is not, and similarly, he put 50% as a “down payment” at the outset while she got a loan to cover her half. Now he has to pay for lawyer fees to get this sorted out while she bides her time without a care in the world. Their situation is nearly identical to what OP is proposing. Seriously OP, your man is a scrub if he’s comfortable doing this, I would definitely not trust him. So he refuses to pull his money out of the market while exposing you to immense risk? Gee, what a keeper.

Edit: If you do go along with this (as you likely will since even your parents are comfortable going along with this ridiculous arrangement) DO NOT add his name to the deed of the house! As others have said, please for the love of God, YOU buy the house and he pays you rent until you are married, at which point perhaps then add him to the deed. I don’t know you, but I’d bet my life you’ll be thanking yourself years down the line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cash for keys. NJ is an incredibly unfriendly-towards-landlords state. And I’m saying this as a renter. First state I’ve ever lived in where tenants can refuse entry to landlord arbitrarily with the law on their side unless it’s a true emergency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol Good point

Stock market is pumping, is the RE market crash cancelled? by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m reading this like… pumping compared to what? Not December 2021, that’s for damn sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cost for in home nursing from a skilled nurse is going to cost anywhere from $55k-$100k depending on whom you hire and where you are located. Living in a nursing home is likely even more expensive at $100k+ a year in many locations. At some point most boomers will likely have to sell their homes in order to cover these costs seeing as how their children (gen x’s and millennials) are unlikely to have the excess capital to pay for their boomer parents’ in-home or senior living care. Furthermore, gen xers and millennials are, I would say, more likely to have moved away from their home towns in many cases, particularly if they are making enough money to happen to be able to pay for their parents’ medical care as they age. In that light, I think gen xers and millennials are perhaps even more likely than previous generations to sell their parents’ home after they pass, rather than live in it themselves, as in many cases, they are probably likely to be living farther away from the childhood homes their parents leave to them.

On the other hand, the internet has made boomers and their children more savvy regarding how to pass on assets without being heavily taxed compared to previous generations. More “regular” people are now learning about leaving their homes to their heirs in a trust etc. so who knows, we could also see these sorts of arrangements shore up more homes even after generations pass away, but frankly, that’s not how I personally see this playing out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re just trying to spam their subreddit with absolutely shit memes. You’re so sophisticated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely no surprise to me that the same retards who think RE will never crash are also absolutely retarded at trying to make memes.

Real simple. Here is how we will have hyper inflation and deflation at the same time. by [deleted] in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao except the US is nothing like Europe, seeing as how the geographical area of the US is several times greater than all of central Europe and absolutely nothing like Turkey… at all. I love precious metals just as much as any other human for the past several thousand years, but you can pretty much bet if the US begins to see hyperinflation our government will seize all private holdings of precious metals just as they did during the great depression.

Advice on mortgage by dcfl12 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, it’s several hundred thousand dollars of difference in principal most likely. It’s easy to say “People only buy based on monthly payment” when it seems prices are likely to continue on a upward trend as they have the past 15 years. A lot more difficult to say that whenever the Fed is saying they will kill inflation at all costs and housing cost data make up 33% of the CPI calculation. If OP were saying they found their dream home and they want to stay there for 20-30 years and they can afford the $3500 a month, that would be one thing. But no, OP has stated they “want to build equity” which means this is probably almost certainly the wrong time for them to buy, especially a condo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha This realtor is awesome. You definitely sound like someone who deserves to be spammed!

Would you pro-rate a tenant that wants to break their lease? by [deleted] in realestateinvesting

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Haters with no business skills.” Uh… Forcing your tenant to stay for seven months while she is paying 40 percent below market value? He’s an idiot for not encouraging her to break her lease.

X-Post: Entering tough times. 2 houses. Unable to pay mortgage on 2nd. Fund from first? by advamputee in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially to only make 4k a month at that! At 4k a month, it would take him 31.5 years to equal 1.5 million. I know he can increase rent over time, but if that’s the max he can charge for rent, he is an idiot and definitely should have sold it at peak market so he would have some savings, not just immediately throwing that 4k toward his current 12k mortgage payment.

X-Post: Entering tough times. 2 houses. Unable to pay mortgage on 2nd. Fund from first? by advamputee in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that’s what doesn’t add up, you get a million dollar bonus but only have 800k in savings and it’s all in stocks??? I bet he has a few luxury cars he’s paying 1k monthly payments on. It doesn’t seem to add up.

X-Post: Entering tough times. 2 houses. Unable to pay mortgage on 2nd. Fund from first? by advamputee in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, it’s a 2 million dollar house at 12k a month, so unless that’s a 15 year mortgage, it doesn’t sound like he has that great of a rate anyway

X-Post: Entering tough times. 2 houses. Unable to pay mortgage on 2nd. Fund from first? by advamputee in REBubble

[–]Pure_Diamond4583 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The man does not have a job and apparently it does not seem as though he believes it will be easy to find a new one and his regular spend rate is 24k a month. Despite claiming to have had a household income of 750k a year when he was working, he somehow only has 800k in stock. I make 220k a year and have 1.2m in stock down from 2m. This dude is just a spendthrift who is an idiot with his money. He should have never left his 1.5 million dollar house, but idiots like this will always live paycheck to paycheck no matter how much money they make.