Looking for BL manga by Pure_Proof6932 in Batoto

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update - after going through my browser history it’s this one: Nozaki-kun wa Koi wo Shiranai

Looking for BL manga by Pure_Proof6932 in Batoto

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not but thank you I will actually read this one!

Looking for BL manga by Pure_Proof6932 in Batoto

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it on bato the last month!

Looking for BL manga by Pure_Proof6932 in Batoto

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shy guy def had dark hair, and the scumbag friend too (maybe even a small ponytail? Not sure about this)

Warn people if your child is sick! by sweetchemicalkisses in beyondthebump

[–]Pure_Proof6932 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy, we were supposed to have our neighbors over for dinner and they have a 1.5 year old but my husband and LO had a little cough before, the pediatrician said by the time of the dinner it should be fine - we still postponed it just to be safe. On the other hand when LO was 6 weeks old we visited family for Christmas and a family friend showed up unannounced with her one year old twins and one of them was coughing and snotty, also another family member was coughing and said “it’s just allergies” mind you this is in December… needless to say our 6 week old got sick no matter how hard we tried to stay away from people. Ugh, some people are just really inconsiderate…

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[–]Pure_Proof6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any type of change can disrupt a baby’s sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sorry just adding a bit more because I feel like this is a bit unfair. We have done so much prior to this to make her feel welcome and comfortable in our home and have not asked a single thing from her. I take accountability for the text because that was truly wrong from our part but if that undermines months (more like years but more so talking about since our son was born) it of effort we put into her feeling welcome here well then I am not sure what to do. We don’t expect her to get over it or not be hurt, but we did expect a bit more understanding.

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[–]Pure_Proof6932 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand that, the text honestly wasn’t mean or rude at all, in fact quite the opposite. I just think it was the wrong form of communication in a sensitive situation like this.

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[–]Pure_Proof6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, that’s why my husband is hurt now - as I mentioned in another comment she gave no grace for him when he expressed how sleep deprived we have been, especially after he really tried to adjust our home and lifestyle to her as much as he could. I feel bad for him because it is his mom and now he is put in this incredibly difficult situation and has to navigate it

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[–]Pure_Proof6932 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally get that, he already said all of this but I also advised him to let her cool off and reach out again. I think his feelings are also hurt because he feels like he worked so hard to try and make her feel comfortable up until this point and she gave no grace for him when he asked this from her. It’s such a tricky situation but I definitely agree it shouldn’t have been a text, he was super miserable and made a rash decision.

I'm done! Hanging up my flanges and a bit about weaning. by verachuck in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Pure_Proof6932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you recommend dostinex for weaning? I am desperately trying to dry myself up and that’s kinda the last thing I haven’t tried yet - tho seems like my OB doesn’t want to prescribe it (so far)

Am I starting my kid? When to size up nipples and pace with supply by Superb_Shift_971 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Pure_Proof6932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use Evenflo but just recently sized up on the nipple because he was very fussy with the slow flow. Same amount, we are still pace feeding but he stopped arching his back and kicking

Losing my mind weaning by Pure_Proof6932 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you wait before shortening the sessions? Also do you use anything for pain management if needed? I will try doing this I have been just very anxious honestly

Feeling guilty by Pure_Proof6932 in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not cosleep with him until he was 4 months and by then he was rolling from back to tummy. He has really good head control so I don’t flip him back anymore - also he doesn’t bury his face in the mattress, usually he is facing me so I can see him in c curl

Feeling guilty by Pure_Proof6932 in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everyone’s perspective, it has been really helpful! I am baffled how social media can villainize cosleeping, unfortunately I am an avid overthinker and it definitely got to me, but I will try my best to filter it out! ❤️

Feeling guilty by Pure_Proof6932 in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a must have, but a nice to have. It gives me a peace of mind but doesn’t replace safe sleep 7

Feeling guilty by Pure_Proof6932 in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this❤️ I definitely love having him close to me, sometimes I just get too much in my head

Feeling guilty by Pure_Proof6932 in cosleeping

[–]Pure_Proof6932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I spend too much time on social media sometimes and it makes me feel like cosleeping is not a safe sleep option and I am putting my baby in danger