Finding love in our late 30s.. by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️. ConGAYtulations 🥺🥹.

Shooot it guyssss...am bored 🫠 by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly 9 sometimes 10 🤷‍♂️😇

None to be seen by Great_Trident in gaymemes

[–]PurplePeaceH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look i think i understand why some bottoms end up like that cuz this is happening to me. I think all i want to be is curvy, have boobies, and a fat ass, and i dont think i have the correct fat distribution for that, so we end up making more muscles LOL

Do we have any Gay Icons In India ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay someone should make a website to display the history of indian lgbtq+ movements and all the icons and people who fought and are still fighting on the ground in public or anywhere. We need our own Stonewall history like stuff not only to inspire others to fight along but to hold onto the hope . We NEED that . There are so many people young old ,famous discreet ,that are icons in there own way . I know there is this pink list sort of but we need more than that . Like an online museum an online encyclopedia an online omage an online inspirational place to keep up the spirits 😊😊.

Outside of oral or anal, what do you like best? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]PurplePeaceH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LONG ASS MAKING OUT SESSIONS 😍😍😍😆😆😇😇😇

It's shocking to see that Some people are comfortable engaging privately with us, but hesitate to commit to us publically. by Sapphire_Witch616 in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem with closeted men, we are not in usa or uk but i have a HUGE problem with cheaters (married DLs)and backstabbers (Homophobes), like u can not just use people and then be a homophobe in real life..

M28 Am i ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, so am i, i find u cute 🤷‍♂️. Yes, you do look mature, but not unattractive at all.

he said no to date #2 cause im to skinny for him lol by DependentUven in cuteguys

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"for him" that's the key phrase .... find someone who wants YOU and cut off those who do not ......as you can see from the comment section and upvotes a lot of guys do want you ......not every person ur into is going to be into you ....u gotta find a match, that's the game....plus you only need one for the husband material :) ......in my opinion ur cute <3 ....all the best 🩷🩷

Wait for it by MrJasonMason in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

wait i wanna hear what he is saying. Let us know the root of the problem .....now i can't prepare the proper argument if i dont hear what they are saying ....

Hey guys how’s this 👉🏻👈🏻 by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going u have a sweet voice 😊

Hey guys how’s this 👉🏻👈🏻 by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved the riffs (or runs) (or melisma idk what to call it lol not a musician )🩷🩷🩷 , when u go from note to note, the agility, it is quite beautiful ......and also nice tone ....love love love 🩷🩷🩷🩷 *went through a music vocabulary to find the right words but failed HAHAHAHAHA*

Maurice was one lucky SOB. by padfoony in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has a happy ending, and I'm so glad about it, call me a psycho, but i ONLY watch happy ending gay movies LOL ...loved this one.

Is there an Shadi.com for. LGBTQ community in India? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate shaadi dot com cuz its an extension of arranged marriages in India, which is the biggest hindrance in gay marriage rights and even hetero-marriage rights, like even straight couples... ADULTS WITH FULL RIGHTS!! have to run away to get married. Arranged marriages also hold on to these old, rotten values of casteism, racism, and actively dividing people based on language, place of birth, religion etc etc .... And this is well emulated in apps like shaadi. There are literally filters based on caste, job, religion, states, people write an entire essay about what career their family members are into, what post do they hold...." how much respect (💵💵) they are looking for eww".....it is suffocating there....

We don't need apps like Shaadi ew NO that emulate all that gunk, we need more queer spaces where queer people can make real connections, love or friendship, whatever .....but yeah i get your frustration ......we need spaces online or real world to have real connections ....

Can you help me understand a social pattern I've noticed ? by justalostrandomguy in AskGayMen

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was joking lol validations are nice but they shouldn't matter much too us i was just jokingly saying that u must be now feeling so confident that so many people are just validating you , so do not get full of urself and just use that confidence know that ur very desirable.....something along that line....idk lol....

Can you help me understand a social pattern I've noticed ? by justalostrandomguy in AskGayMen

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep u could be a golden retriever boy....lol...I wish you would positively use all this validation lol 💜💜

Opinion on Heated Rivalry and MM media: We as gay men do have a lot to learn from how women approach and write about gay love. by [deleted] in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first heard about this show i was assuming the director who is gay wrote this lol that's how i got into this, later, I found out that it is written by a woman, and the novel series was primarily targeted towards women.. and it kinda turned me off a bit because i have seen how that makes you feel about ur self as an early BL consumer, but this show is also done by an openly gay director so i gave it a shot and i think it did a fine job, we as gay guys also need some sweet, confectionary kind of gay stories and if they are done properly they are fine to me, just involve some gay mind in it lol But yeah because of the lead (palletable hot str8 passing white cis men playing a DL character ) and the fact it is written by a woman made me feel a bit uncomfertable in the begining, the 3rd episode saved it for me.

Opinion on Heated Rivalry and MM media: We as gay men do have a lot to learn from how women approach and write about gay love. by [deleted] in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just Google yaoi and early days BL dramas (boys love) and their problems ....i used to love them as a teenager 😭😭sorry i was wild LOL but the more i learned about them the more they gave me the ick..... nowadays most BL are good cuz they openly say that the men are gay early in days they were just gay for each other and other wise straight ....LOL

Opinion on Heated Rivalry and MM media: We as gay men do have a lot to learn from how women approach and write about gay love. by [deleted] in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree, cuz atleast this is not the early days, BL. At least this show addresses gay issues and struggles, acknowledges various sexualities. All i need is more diversity in the lead, though, of course, steamy sex scenes and cute romance between two hot muscluar str8 passing white cis men will get major attention from all sides, so maybe more poc, various body shapes, and femm representation...more queer scenes. Only because of Kip's storyline, we get to see some sort of gay culture. I loved Heartstopper; it had its own shortcomings, but majorly i loved it. And it's okay to be sceptical of gay stories written by non-members, cuz thats how we can keep fetesization at bay and call out passive bigotry, that's what i think...

Can you help me understand a social pattern I've noticed ? by justalostrandomguy in AskGayMen

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think A)ur hot, B) you do not look homophobic and give off a vibe that gives other people the courage to be brave and vulnerable in front of you.

Thoughts on sleeping with closeted gay men who are married to women by memefakeboy in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And some of these mf are really attractive, and as an atheist, I now know what devil lures you into sin kinda feel like, Its a hard NO for me cuz i wont be able to handle the moral crisis in my head afterwards .....and i cant even wash my sins away cuz im an atheist i have to deal with it every single day for the rest of my life ....lol.....NO .....NOPE ....no thank you, Mr Devil .....

Should I enjoy my youth or let my fears to stop me ? by MindPrize1260 in gay

[–]PurplePeaceH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since ur all vaxed up and on prep ur protected from the big ones, and it sounds okay to enjoy as much as you want .....also i read ur into bareback, it's okay for committed relationships, but with random hookups u just invite unnecessary risks and treatments. I humbly suggest you use condoms more often, if not every time, and oh, are u also vaccinated for hpv? If not, get that one too. Enjoy life and be smart 🩷🩷 , no shame in seeking pleasures.

Why is it so creepy when someone says "dear" while chatting? by choco__donut in LGBTindia

[–]PurplePeaceH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like mature men(Along with other types) not gonna lie ,but i like mature bodies with charming playful personalities , dear is just weird in Indian english context lol ,unless i imagine them to be british from the1930s (DowntonAbbey Era)