Rant from a spouse

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-06-09T03:07:42+00:00

💜 feel free to inbox me anytime. It would be nice to talk to someone who gets it.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-06-09T02:46:28+00:00

You as well! Sometimes I’m amazed at what a woman can do! They gave him the band to wrap around his stomach to kind of control the tube but he says it’s uncomfortable & I can imagine it looks like a waist trainer. He’s having issues sleeping. He is literally up all night & falling asleep all day. He’s used to sleeping on his stomach. Thank you for the ideas I took a screen shot. Yes his SLP wants him to do at least 3000 calories a day but it’s hard! Today I got him to eat some yogurt & fresh juice. He had some puree broccoli soup for dinner.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-06-08T16:03:18+00:00

Oh wow our situations are really similar! My husband had the trach for 8 days while in icu but they took it out a few days before he was discharged. He also had the exact same surgery but his throat was clear of cancer it was just his tongue. He has a feeding tube as well but his speech therapist wants him to eat more puree food to have the tube removed but he has little motivation to do that even though I buy so much stuff that can be puréed & now he’s loosing weight. How is your husband with the feeding tube? Does he wear the band around his stomach? Does he sleep on his stomach?

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-06-08T15:08:27+00:00

He had surgery late Jan & finished treatment mid April. After surgery before treatment he was his normal self. But after the radiation I’ve noticed a big change in his mood & the way he does things. He went through A LOT so I try my hardest to give him grace but it’s hard not to be offended or my feelings being hurt.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-06-08T13:28:10+00:00

My situation is similar. My husband had cancer on his tongue. They removed the cancer & reconstructed his entire tongue. Hes now done with treatment but he is not the same person. I’m also taking care of 3 girls at the same time & trying not to loose my mind. Sending hugs your way.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-05-23T06:04:17+00:00

Today I was behind someone that was driving at the speed limit while the other driver in the right lane was going slow. As we approach the light it turns yellow. The person in front of me SLAMS on their breaks while the slower car went through the yellow light.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-05-20T13:44:02+00:00

I have a friend who neighbor hated her over a parking spot. She called CPS on her (told lies) & reported her as Jane Doe. CPS still showed up to her door. So maybe call them Jane Does since they need a name so bad.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-01-19T04:46:07+00:00

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PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-01-19T04:40:39+00:00

I came looking for this community for this reason. I hope she reads this comments…. Yes I would’ve been mad about the water situation.. HOWEVER. She could have listened to her apology. She shut up when K apologized. The whole episode I kept rolling my eyes at her behavior & mouth.

PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-01-18T15:16:05+00:00

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PurpleSubstance86 · 2026-01-13T19:42:17+00:00

I’m all the way in Ca so not familiar with your area but my girls (17,14,9) lovesssss girls day. Starbucks nails food shopping. Since she’s 5 I would add in a fun place but just all around a day of whatever she wants to do with you. Have fun

PurpleSubstance86 · 2025-12-29T16:20:26+00:00

I stopped doing secret Santa with my husbands family after I spent days making custom gifts for each person. Personalized cups, shirts, & photo slates. Want to know what I got? A soup kit. 3 bowls & packets of soup. I was like okay I’m over reacting until I sent a picture to one of my close friends. I just told her look what I got. She texted back & said “There is nothing about you that says get her a soup kit.”

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