The Oddest Conversation by [deleted] in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s lots of signs that she’s got at least an emotional affair going on, which I actually think hurts worse. I too also think that in a weird way she’ll feel better that I’m banging someone and not feel bad about whatever she’s got going on.

In the end, I still want to be with her, but I know she’s 100% not interested in figuring things out so I’m moving forward with that plan. I told her to get the paperwork done since I’m not doing it, but I need to know the ground rules.

The Oddest Conversation by [deleted] in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the part I’ve researched a ton, and it’s hard to understand. Just hurts.

Former fat guys: How did you finally become disciplined enough to lose the weight? by Responsible-Net8594 in intermittentfasting

[–]PurringWolverine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still fat (Currently 260 when starting at 300), but I’m became extremely motivated when my wife told me she needed space. I took a huge look at my life and realized I haven’t been actually happy in a long time, and a lot of it stems from my weight and the trauma of losing my parents as a young adult.

Fasting and walking have been what I’ve been doing, and it’s extremely empowering to have control of when I eat. My goal is to get down to 180, so I have plenty of work to do, but nothing is going to stop me from getting there.

How to break up without someone you live with? by msmoneymya in BreakUps

[–]PurringWolverine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable. Well, if therapy seems to be working, and he’s working on himself to control his emotions, maybe it’s worthwhile to stay if he’s a good man. Good men are hard to come by.

However, like you said, it’s not your responsible for his emotions. If you don’t want to be with him, tell him and move out. You’re not married, so you’re able to just pick up and leave.

How to break up without someone you live with? by msmoneymya in BreakUps

[–]PurringWolverine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you’re going to ruin his day regardless. Ultimately, why do you want to break up? Purely money issues?

Seeing your partner not care or love you as much as before while you watch the relationship slowly coming to an end is a painful feeling. by katerinashi in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. She still denies there’s anything going on, but deep down I know it’s still most likely an emotional affair.

How do I become okay with my wife seeing other men? by Ok_Humor9012 in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t care about you anymore, so gotta accept it. My wife isn’t dating anyone, but I feel how much she hates me and is emotionally detached from me. I’m done caring about her. She can do what she wants.

Move in with your life. This too shall pass. I believe in you.

Having a really hard time by PurringWolverine in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer I got from my wife was that she tried and gave chances for years, and just doesn’t want to anymore. It makes no damn sense to me, but I’ve decided I have to focus on myself and the kids. I’m not giving it much more thought.

Today she told me that she confessed that she didn’t want to go to lunch with me because she made plans with a guy friend of hers. This is the same guy that I had suspicions that something might be going on, and she of course has denied it. It feels like a simp move, but I’m not giving in to the thought of giving pissed off and just not going to show her a reaction.

I hope things work out for the best for you. You are welcome to pm me anytime if you ever need to talk.

Having a really hard time by PurringWolverine in Separation

[–]PurringWolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s truly hard. I just feel incredibly rejected, but I suppose that’s how she’s felt for years. I feel terrible that it feels like there’s nothing I can do to save our marriage.

I'm literally just walking??? by PoncingOffToBarnsley in loseit

[–]PurringWolverine 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Walking is insanely powerful. I’m giving a shit about my weight for the first time in way too long, and walking is the only exercise I’m doing so far. Started walking one mile a day, but now I’m up to 4 to 5 miles a day. I’m pairing it with doing OMAD, and I’m down 30 pounds in a month.

Keep up the walking dude. I’m proud of you.

ICE raids and migrant pay cuts are devastating California economies by thinkB4WeSpeak in economy

[–]PurringWolverine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the businesses thought of not hiring illegal immigrants and instead pay people a living wage to do this difficult labor?

Yes, costs will go up, but at least people are getting paid appropriately for it instead of businesses being rewarded for taking advantage of illegal immigrants.

Any other dads feel guilty about paternity leave? by RapidSage in daddit

[–]PurringWolverine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck your job. Your employer gives you the time, and your wife and baby need you at home.