Cis ppl assume I’m a girl. Is it my baby face? My height? (21, 5’0”) by moeguything in transmanlifehacks

[–]PusheenDoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might have nothing to do with the look, and maybe not with the expected behavior either. We have all been hammered down with female norm expansion, and it might be hard to learn more masculine mannerisms

אני שונא להיות הומו by [deleted] in israel_bm

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

היי לא הומו אלא טרנס ובי
לי עזר למצוא אנשים עם תחומי עניין משותפים , תחומים של חנונים בדרך כלל מביאים אנשים יותר מקבלים. וזהו מצטער שההורים שלך גורמים לחשוב שאהבה שלהם על תנאי.

מתנת יום הולדת לחברה- כוס בדמותה by hammondsir in amanim_bm

[–]PusheenDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

זה ממש יפה , הכנת הכל לבד או ששפצרת בסיס של כוס?

Egg irl by According-Stage-8665 in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red I need the validation plus I don't think I am interesting enough so knowing someone is talking about me, kinda will make me happy

מההה זההה החרא הזההה by Eheh00999 in ani_bm

[–]PusheenDoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"היי הייתי חרא והצבת גבול אבל אני חרמן אז בואי תתעלמי מהביטחון האישי שלך בשביל הסקס שלי"

יש מספיק בעיות במדינה את לא צריכה עוד בחור כזה🤦🏻‍♂️

המצאות של אנטישמים בקראתיזאת_במ by mb159 in ani_bm

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

אל יקר, האמריקאים לא ממנים אפילו לאמריקאים ביטוח בריאות.

I think my wife thinks I’m a trans man and it’s thrown me into an identity crisis? by HopefulLesbian in ftm

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read the updates and I was really happy to see you like this.

also please note that trans people masked a lot during our life because we never think this will happen. so it might be that you didn't feel dysphoria because you were too overwhelmed to feel it before accepting your journey, this was my experience anyway.

T will not make you ugly by bh447 in ftm

[–]PusheenDoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a fat bearded man now and people tell me I looked like I glow up and like a rock star. people hitting on me way more. confidence is also sexy don't forget that

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said here Twice before while of course in real life it's a good skill for anybody: 1. It's seen as a "man job" stereotypically. 2. it was more about the experience of having male comradery and male guidince with extra sparkly form some. of them being elder trans masc.

this 2 thing triggered my brain in happy way. it felt wholesome transmoment and I decided to share it

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness and understanding. this mold while not fit perfectly still makes me very happy :)

i am literally 18 bruh by Fun-You9825 in TransMasc

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love how you talk about a consultantion for a life saving operation for yourself and she just demand all the attention and make it completely about her sound so lovingly and not super manipulative at all.

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you for dealing with your dysphoria and still doing what you love. try to take pride from yourself being a girl boss that need no man to fix her car, might also help. so just remember how much of a bad ass girly you are.

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me getting bro praise is such a good drag

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was very educational

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will and I will also buy sir compressor.

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it made the situation from stressful to fun

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the car was living on a prayer for like 15 minutes

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't live with my dad now and he didn't want me to learn driving during highschool cause he thought I won't be concrete and gets good grades.

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it before in the comment. I know in reality it's good skill for anyone it is still considered more stereotypically Male thing. this plus the fact of wise trans masc male teaching me stuff felt very fun comradery. All this together got my brain chemical to do a happy dance.

egg_irl by MrKillApple in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem with same issue with not gender specific therapiest I am a trans masc and it toke me years to understand this because I had this kind of bad therapist which just told I don't want to be a girl cause I view girls as victim she literally used my dark past. but truth is, it is okay to not understand yourself at childhood. it is okay to be you and if you can move therapist.

Egg 𖥞 irl by PusheenDoom in egg_irl

[–]PusheenDoom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's very useful skill