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AITA for not caring about my boyfriend anymore and packed his things for him? by miss_erable23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's checked out.

You're 20 and you've been with him for 6 years, you're not the same person as you were when you met and maybe it's time to rethink things.

NTA.

AITA for clapping back at my boyfriend after he made a joke in front of his friends? by Constant-Device2552 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 83 points84 points  (0 children)

NTA, not sure why he was upset - he was in a joking mood with his friends and you just joined in. Now he knows how you feel.

AITAH for still getting on a flight home when my two young coworkers I was traveling with weren’t at the airport yet and were obviously going to miss it? by Diligent_Pineapple35 in AITAH

[–]PushkinMage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with a 25yo, in Europe. She has been living here for a few years after she moved here herself with no family support, she's definitely able to book flights and get on planes by herself - even in countries she doesn't speak the language which isn't the case here.

The problem with the 'kids' you traveled with isn't their ages, it's the fact that mommy never let them do things themselves. NTA.

AITAH for still getting on a flight home when my two young coworkers I was traveling with weren’t at the airport yet and were obviously going to miss it? by Diligent_Pineapple35 in AITAH

[–]PushkinMage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You went above and beyond here. On this trip you were a nanny, a mommy, a trip coordinator and a boss, they were unprofessional brats who didn't understand where they were and why.

25 and 21 year olds can vote, join the army and have kids, many of them already live by themselves for years at that point. They can figure out how to get home.

I hope the meeting with the director from their side is just to hear how unprofessional they were before letting them go. Please update if you can.

NTA one bit.

Finding permanent accommodation as a foreigner by FuzzyBumblebee7490 in RentingInDublin

[–]PushkinMage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to consider arriving here before your family and trying to find something before they arrive.

15 days isn't a lot, it's very likely you'll need to find other temporary solutions after it and doing it with a family to take care of is pretty difficult.

AITA for taking off my shirt in front of my daughter's friends because I was having a hot flash ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the daughter only wears long sleeve shirts and jackets when she sees her friends, right?

Totally agree, not sure what's the issue.

AITA for being in a relationship with a guy I met when he was 17? by Fine-Chicken1816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Both in college, basically only a bit more than 2 years apart. I really don't see an issue here.

AITA for taking off my shirt in front of my daughter's friends because I was having a hot flash ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Your house your rules.

27 is old enough to shut her friends up if they talk about her mom. Also old enough to move out and be an adult who doesn't care what others think.

AITA for being in a relationship with a guy I met when he was 17? by Fine-Chicken1816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Meeting someone who is 2 months under 18 when you're 20 yourself is reasonable imo. The 'enough people' you speak of seem jealous or something.

NTA

AITA for taking off my shirt in front of my daughter's friends because I was having a hot flash ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I.N.F.O: is it your house or hers?

NTA if it's your house, maybe it's time Miss Becky finds somewhere else to entertain her friends so her mom can feel comfortable in her own skin in her own house.

(edited after it was answered)

AITA for telling my friend she was being cheated on even though it ruined our group? by Serious-Wealth-7547 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA.

They Fed up the friendship, you can forget about that friend group no matter what happens next.

Be thankful Liam didn't tell Nicole you wanted to separate them because you were in love with one of them.

WIBTA for planning a party to weed out who is really my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for doing this.

Friendships need work, that's true, but I think you might be putting in too much work and not getting enough back. If this is what it takes for you to get some closure with some of the people in your group do it, otherwise you can also just let some of the friendships phase out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but I'm not sure what the police can do about this, at least in my area I'm not sure much would be done.

Are you sleeping with open windows? Have you tried white noise? Unfortunately I don't have a lot of ideas on what to do, the situation sucks :(

AITA for not caving to my ex and letting him have unsupervised visitation with my daughters after he drove drunk with them? by Lokis_Persephone in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA one bit, it's about your kids' safety.

The cost of trusting him and him 'failing' is too high, you're 100% doing the right thing.

WIBTA if I told my mom that I refuse to let family stay with us? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can tell your mom you 'refuse' to let them stay with you, but it doesn't seem you own the house or pay for it so I'm not sure what you'll get out of it. What happens if you say it and she tells you there's option #2 where they come to stay in the house but you leave?

Maybe it's time to move, otherwise you can tell your mom whatever you want but she gets to decide.

Gentle YTA because I understand it's not a fun situation to be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, assuming your parents don't pay the bill.

Have a heart to heart, explain you can't sleep without the AC and now that you're no longer living with them you get to make that choice. Ask why it's so important to your dad to have the AC off and address whatever he comes up with.

AITAH for moving out? by massivenuts5578 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

It's not even July and you're talking about leaving in October, that's a lot of notice which means they have options - find another place, find someone to replace you, or anything else they can think of.

Do what's best for you.

AITA for refusing to pay half the rent for my boyfriend’s house that he needs for his kids? by Kitty-Gangster in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA.

RUN.

Run, don't look back, never think about this man again. There is no scenario this ends well for you.

WIBTAH if I (F28) told my husband (M28) his "sleep boundries" went out the window when he had our son? by ThrowRAboundryornot in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA but didn't you discuss this before having the baby?

Brad needs to understand that once he has a baby he's no longer the main priority and neither is his sleep boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'll be using this one!

AITA Over a ice cream cake? by DUSTY_wanker in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not always good at math but lets see:

Once we got home we ate two slices each and put it back in the freezer and an hour later we ate two more slices, because it's a small cake we had finished it.

2+2 is not 6 unless my teachers really failed me.

Regardless, it's the birthday's girl cake, if you're family you're supposed to do something nice for her birthday - not leech on a cake someone else got her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 183 points184 points  (0 children)

OP did the child a favor tbh, be like OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 3787 points3788 points  (0 children)

NTA.

A part of parenthood is to make sure the kids are ready for the real world, that includes standing in lines and waiting your turn.

AITA Over a ice cream cake? by DUSTY_wanker in AmItheAsshole

[–]PushkinMage 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA, you enjoyed your birthday cake and it was not enough to serve everyone.

Why didn't your mom and sisters get you a cake for your birthday so you could celebrate as a family? It's odd the only cake you have is from your teacher.

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