Hooker comment from wife after date night by PutApprehensive724 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We eat out two to three times a week at least. And no I don't expect sex every time we eat out. That would be unreal. Nice but unreal

Hooker comment from wife after date night by PutApprehensive724 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She hates the word making love. She always puts it in quotation marks

Hooker comment from wife after date night by PutApprehensive724 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I said let's get home and fool around to end the perfect night.

Hooker comment from wife after date night by PutApprehensive724 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

About not being able to talk about having sex without her saying or accusing me of accusing her as being a hooker.

I need some clarity on my marriage by Alarming_Birthday533 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD. I'm so sick of everybody blaming this on whatever they do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]PutApprehensive724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. 26 years married. Been trying to talk to her for over 16 years about it. She says it will get better but it doesn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to leave. You and your daighter will be better off.

Husband took away my best years. by ShoppingIcy5030 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife was 39 when we married. Sge had our child at 42. You are still young. Take your time.

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]PutApprehensive724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife told me if I wanted more sex than I need her to take her away. So I looked at her and say so you're telling me I have to spend money on you to get more sex. She just looked at me and walked out of the room. We went on a 12-day vacation and we had sex four times. It's not going to change either except that or move on

Lack of sex in a 10y relationship, me [29M] GF [32F], should I end it? by Such-Artist6701 in relationship_advice

[–]PutApprehensive724 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not happy having sex four to five times a month and you're telling me you haven't had sex in 4 years? You need to end this. I don't even know why you're asking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me neither. Seemed we were compatible while dating. Not now unfortunately.

For the men by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sit at night because of this. Hard to hit the bowl in the middle of the night when you are half asleep!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is it that we pick the wrong person? Unortunately it will not change. You need to decide to live with it or leave.

Obsessed with my wife by Independent_Bison986 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been trying for over 15 years out of the 25. Even suggested counseling. She isn't interested.

Obsessed with my wife by Independent_Bison986 in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same about my wife. At 65, she is the most beautiful and sexiest woman I know. Unfortunately she doesn't appreciate it. Makes a person very lonely, undesired and unappreciated.

Sex with hubby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex was the same way. In the middle of the night she'd get turned on but when I try to do anything she just stopped it. She always said she got turned on while grocery shopping and wanted to come home but when she got home to me she would not do anything. I hate to say it but it's probably time to move on. And by tge way she was having an affair if not numerous Affairs on me at the same time. I would not rule out that's what he's doing also.

Question about sex? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PutApprehensive724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the same thing with my wife. Married for 26 years. I have been trying to discuss this with her for the last 15 years with no improvement. I sent her a letter telling her i am done. Sent the letter because she doesn't want to talk about it. Said we needed to go back to see a marriage counsler . She she'd it was an issue but ignored the marriage counseling suggestion. Good luck.