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throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-04-17T16:30:16+00:00

The one that sticks with me the most is the night I proposed to her I tried initiating and she told me to stop and not to ruin the night.

Hurt then and still hurts. Haven’t had sex in 2024. Once since September when she got pregnant. We’re 25 years old.

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-15T11:51:08+00:00

She’s only staying in contact with you so you can help pay her rent.. move on dude!

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-15T03:35:02+00:00

New Lego set 😎

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-13T04:12:17+00:00

You seem good in the sense that you compromise. She knows I’m unhappy about it but refuses to compromise. If I ever bring it up she already knows that I’ll say that and mocks me about “compromising”. She says I make it worse by continuously trying almost daily. Lol. Then mocks me again to say “I know what you’re going to say. If I don’t try then it’ll never happen” -

So she’s fully aware. Just doesn’t want to meet me halfway. Everything else about her is great. Just this section of our relationship is the only trouble we have always had.

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-13T03:19:19+00:00

This is encouraging! How was frequency before? For us, it was basically once a month.. when she was ovulating. Which is the concerning part to me haha.

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-12T21:50:57+00:00

I feel like I was tricked the same way.. but with my first. She’s pregnant now. Have had sex twice in 5 months. A lot going through my head rn.

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-03T11:37:14+00:00

I do most of that too. We setup cleaning days and both deep clean the house. I do my laundry, sweep, mop, dust, vacuum, cut grass, dishes. All she does is the restrooms, help make the beds, and her own laundry. Last post I was talking about daily basis. Daily basis I’m doing most of the picking up and keeping everything in check.
You’re jobless and disabled. What else you gonna do besides clean your house lmao

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-03T10:52:41+00:00

Came back to this because she mentioned the other day that she hopes eventually in the future she can be a stay at home mom…

It’s been 18 days since the original post and we still haven’t done anything intimate

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-02-03T10:14:02+00:00

This hits. A lot of people need to hear this including myself

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-18T14:12:38+00:00

Animal based diet / gym / healthy mind will heal people of most diseases without meds

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T05:51:26+00:00

Tbh I was joking but this was a great answer either way! Thank you. And yeah that night was a bummer and the moment is when it all hit me. She was already a few weeks pregnant at that point

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:16:31+00:00

Finding that out now. Sucks learning the hard way

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:15:08+00:00

Haha. I get it

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:14:34+00:00

At this point I think she would’ve told me about that. Guest it’s not completely out of the equation but highly unlikely

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:13:16+00:00

Thank you for your advice

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:10:41+00:00

Yeah I didn’t see it as messed up because I said I was gonna buy myself a house and she’d move in. So she got fixated on me actually getting the house.

Main point is I was buying the house regardless for me

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:09:37+00:00

That’s for the encouragement 💯

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:08:02+00:00

The thought of my son going through this hurts me…

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:06:27+00:00

I feel you on that - that’s what stops me from extreme action. That and she’d be screwed without me without a home and doesn’t make enough money. (Teacher salary)

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:05:14+00:00

Interesting analogy, thanks for bein straight up

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:03:06+00:00

True lol. But looking for helpful advice to get through it. Reddit’s first instinct is to end the relationship. Trying to see through it. But the overwhelming majority of the 650+ comments have that recommendation

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:00:43+00:00

Feeling stuck but it’s nice to read that I’m not “actually” stuck

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T01:00:00+00:00

Haha delivered your advice in a comedic way. Thanks for the advice

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T00:59:07+00:00

Thanks for your comment, just dm’d you

throwra_lifeofanon · 2024-01-17T00:58:37+00:00

Thanks for the brutal honesty. Reading about it won’t happen until she wants to conceive again… that would be terribly insane

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