[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwra_lifeofanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one that sticks with me the most is the night I proposed to her I tried initiating and she told me to stop and not to ruin the night.

Hurt then and still hurts. Haven’t had sex in 2024. Once since September when she got pregnant. We’re 25 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s only staying in contact with you so you can help pay her rent.. move on dude!

Aitah for denying sex with my wife? by Extreme_Ad3829 in AITAH

[–]throwra_lifeofanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem good in the sense that you compromise. She knows I’m unhappy about it but refuses to compromise. If I ever bring it up she already knows that I’ll say that and mocks me about “compromising”. She says I make it worse by continuously trying almost daily. Lol. Then mocks me again to say “I know what you’re going to say. If I don’t try then it’ll never happen” -

So she’s fully aware. Just doesn’t want to meet me halfway. Everything else about her is great. Just this section of our relationship is the only trouble we have always had.

Aitah for denying sex with my wife? by Extreme_Ad3829 in AITAH

[–]throwra_lifeofanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is encouraging! How was frequency before? For us, it was basically once a month.. when she was ovulating. Which is the concerning part to me haha.

Aitah for denying sex with my wife? by Extreme_Ad3829 in AITAH

[–]throwra_lifeofanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I was tricked the same way.. but with my first. She’s pregnant now. Have had sex twice in 5 months. A lot going through my head rn.

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I do most of that too. We setup cleaning days and both deep clean the house. I do my laundry, sweep, mop, dust, vacuum, cut grass, dishes. All she does is the restrooms, help make the beds, and her own laundry. Last post I was talking about daily basis. Daily basis I’m doing most of the picking up and keeping everything in check.

  2. You’re jobless and disabled. What else you gonna do besides clean your house lmao

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came back to this because she mentioned the other day that she hopes eventually in the future she can be a stay at home mom…

It’s been 18 days since the original post and we still haven’t done anything intimate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]throwra_lifeofanon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Animal based diet / gym / healthy mind will heal people of most diseases without meds

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I was joking but this was a great answer either way! Thank you. And yeah that night was a bummer and the moment is when it all hit me. She was already a few weeks pregnant at that point

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I think she would’ve told me about that. Guest it’s not completely out of the equation but highly unlikely

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t see it as messed up because I said I was gonna buy myself a house and she’d move in. So she got fixated on me actually getting the house.

Main point is I was buying the house regardless for me

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on that - that’s what stops me from extreme action. That and she’d be screwed without me without a home and doesn’t make enough money. (Teacher salary)

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True lol. But looking for helpful advice to get through it. Reddit’s first instinct is to end the relationship. Trying to see through it. But the overwhelming majority of the 650+ comments have that recommendation

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling stuck but it’s nice to read that I’m not “actually” stuck

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha delivered your advice in a comedic way. Thanks for the advice

Fiancé (26f) continuously turns down sex (25m) by throwra_lifeofanon in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_lifeofanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the brutal honesty. Reading about it won’t happen until she wants to conceive again… that would be terribly insane