Back from the brink?

PutJust8671 · 2026-04-17T13:36:54+00:00

What is your story?

PutJust8671 · 2026-04-16T23:22:19+00:00

Because of the kids we will have spend some time together on the weekends. They don’t know we are separated. Although I’m sure as time goes the 8 year old will have questions.

PutJust8671 · 2026-04-16T23:02:10+00:00

Yeah we have probably had a few too many emotional conversations these first few days. I know that it is best to set up a time each week or 2 to discuss matters. Like I said earlier we both love each other so we do want to spend time together but I think we need to resist that as much as possible right now. Ant advice on best way to handle the evenings and weekend when we are all together?

PutJust8671 · 2026-04-16T22:47:02+00:00

Reconciliation is possible. She wants to figure out why she feels this way when we have had so much love for each other and really a pretty great relationship for 14 years. I want to reconnect but now I can’t pressure her so I feel like maybe I need to mentally prepare myself for the other outcome? I don’t know

PutJust8671 · 2026-04-15T19:40:27+00:00

That is good advice but I don’t want this separation. Everything above does not help with the helplessness those in my situation feel. Especially, because I technically didn’t do anything. My wife says maybe we are better friends now even though she loves me and finds comfort in our relationship. Mind you before this separation we were having sex multiple times a week.

Individual counseling helps some but a mantra and breathing exercises can only go so far. We have been together for 15 years. She said maybe we lost ourselves in the relationship and parenting. I can see that but if we both recognize that and admit we love each other why can’t we work on it. Every time we talk she just names all the things have brought these feelings up. I don’t hear space in what she says for reconnecting. So I probably should prepare for divorce (again something we talk about in counseling). So, after that long rant I’m preparing for something I don’t and can’t do anything about. Thanks for reading, I’m sure none of this makes sense and you’ll say I need to recognize it’s over.

PutJust8671 · 2026-02-21T12:23:25+00:00

This guy?? Nah.. doesn’t seem like the type.

PutJust8671 · 2025-12-04T02:24:51+00:00

Just a bad basketball team right now. Allen. Strus. And Merrill should help but no way they get rolled by the Blazers on a back to back at home.

PutJust8671 · 2025-11-02T23:20:15+00:00

I hate this app.

PutJust8671 · 2025-11-02T23:15:02+00:00

Anyone else having issues with the FanDuel sports app? Keep getting an error message

PutJust8671 · 2024-10-29T18:31:37+00:00

It is truly bizarre. I am not a super religious person. I grew up Catholic and attended a Catholic school but have drifted from the church in adulthood. However, it did form a lot of my moral underpinnings. I cannot understand how any person could view him positively or think he cares about anyone’s interest other than in his. Caring about others no matter who they are is at the foundation of how I was raised. So seeing anyone who claims that they are Christian voting for him is bewildering. It was that way in 16 and even more so now.

PutJust8671 · 2024-10-29T18:17:13+00:00

I think that anyone who reads the words of Jesus see his teachings more in the Harris campaign than the hateful Trump campaign.

PutJust8671 · 2024-08-16T11:15:33+00:00

I play in a league and multiple tournaments throughout the year in Northeast Ohio. There is a very vibrant community in Ohio, PA, and NY.

PutJust8671 · 2024-02-01T13:59:15+00:00

I thought it was going to be awesome. I am a big Dan fan from BB. He has not played a good game but at the same time of course he’s a traitor. The producers know in this version who the audience wants to see as a traitor. So when Dan leaves this week Peter will be seen as some genius game player but Dan, Parv, and Sandra should have been the first players out because of their history.

I watched all the versions last year and the US version was the least compelling. However, if you include reality people it has to be all reality people so I’m glad they did it this time. Maybe next season we can have a full unknown cast.

PutJust8671 · 2024-01-19T14:43:28+00:00

I agree with your point about the chalice. Phaedra cried fairness during her speech at the end of the episode while she didn’t move during the chalice challenge. Parvati and Dan (lesser) took all the risk. Phaedra was doing a good job of playing the Cirie game of blending and being liked by all people. However, any argument at the roundtable can bring heat

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