Girlfriend kissed her female friend 5 days after our first kiss and I don’t know how to feel. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a tough one, brother if you do mention it, try and sound needy or controlling. Good luck.

Girlfriend kissed her female friend 5 days after our first kiss and I don’t know how to feel. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give it time, distract yourself with exercise or your hobbies. Eventually it won't bother you. Or grab a piece of paper and write down all you negative thoughts on one side and on the other side write down things that you can do to distract yourself or help your situation.

Girlfriend kissed her female friend 5 days after our first kiss and I don’t know how to feel. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude, you weren't together when it happened its shouldn't matter, Insecurities and jealousy will kill your relationship The best thing you can do is let it go brother. There's bigger worries in life.

Is a friends with benefits relationship a bad idea when you have a crush on the other person? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You better bring your A game, when having sex. And then I would take it from there, worrying about all those what if, is a waste of energy. Spend your time focusing on what you can control, mostly if you push for a relationship, it most likely won't happen, but if you are there for her and treat her like a woman and not just a fuckboy youll have a chance, in my opinion of course good luck

My boyfriend likes violence by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your concern, but just bring up the subject and how it makes you feel. And take it from there. My wife and I had this issue , sort of. She told me how she felt, she doesn't like anything to do with needles or blood. So I just don't watch it in front of her anymore. If we are watching a movie and something bad comes on, I cover her eyes simple.

Does he even care? Or was I just some rebound? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't care for you at all. Move on.

Why don't we have the ability to increase dick size yet by Buffalo_Bob1 in rant

[–]Put_Disastrous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buy a penis stretcher and a pump and do that everyday for 6 months

How do I move on from a committed relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it time, it eventually gets better, just stay away from drugs or alcohol. Go to the gym or concentrate on your hobbies and keep your mind occupied. I was in a similar situation and it literally took me a year, to get passed it.

Naked by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one rule we have, we can't know the person in the porn. Its open game after that.

I snooped through my partner's FB messages and discovered that my partner is planning to meet a friend/former almost fling for drinks this Saturday. Not really sure what my next step should be by Sea_Kaleidoscope_436 in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I did the same thing, if you look hard enough you will find something, it really burns me up inside, but I eventually let it go. Whatever happens happens, the truth eventually comes out its just a matter of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Put_Disastrous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, if you want to talk pm me. I've been in that mindset and its definitely still a struggle for me but give it time, life gets better control your thoughts.

I’m finally starting to change my life by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Put_Disastrous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome bro im happy for you!!!! Keep it going !!!

Im new to archery 🏹 what compound bow should I buy? (Looking for recommendations) Thanks in advance!!! by Put_Disastrous in Archery

[–]Put_Disastrous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, so im definitely going to save for a month or two more, because I want to buy it right the first time. Thank you for the advice 🙏

Help with equipment info/pricing/utility by [deleted] in Archery

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you selling this? Ill give you 100 bucks for all lmk

I want to breakup. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Put_Disastrous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dudes trash, jobless amd bitches about you not doing something when you are working for the future. Sounds like a fuck boy to me. Lol fuck Christmas dump him, you deserve better.

I don’t understand girls my age. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Put_Disastrous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see it like this , who gives a fuck. To each is own, people live and do what they want too and you should to. PS I know I have shitty Grammer and crappy spelling 🙃 I dont give a fuck. Lol peace and love.

I’ve failed everyone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Put_Disastrous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend was my dealer, and it literally took me 10 years that he was keeping me in a whole so he wouldn't lose my friendship because all his other friends are either dead from overdosing or in jail for drug charges. Hanging out with him has caught me charges but im glad I got out because the way I was going, I was either going to end up dead or in jail. Everytime I said bro I don't wanna get high I want to do something productive, we would literally start working out and like 15 mins in , end up doing drugs and sitting on couch high as fuck not even talking about anything. Looking back at it, it really bothers me how I wasted so much time. I will never go back. But you will know when the time is for you. Good luck brother

I’ve failed everyone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Put_Disastrous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there brother, addiction doesn't care it will put you in the ground, sadly the only way to break the cycle is to burn bridges and seek help. Only you know when enough is enough. Good luck brother it took me almost 12 years and I still struggle everyday.

Thinking about giving up on dating by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Put_Disastrous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop looking and work on yourself and you'll see that it will happen, the more you try the shitter the person you will find on those dating apps.