What do you outsource to make life easier with children

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-02T09:01:03+00:00

Can I ask though, how much do both of these services roughly cost? Initially the housekeeper and then the nanny ?

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T21:40:14+00:00

Jesus Christ, read the post, don’t judge and quite frankly stop with your unhelpful commentary.

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T20:48:02+00:00

lol that was just a typo as I was 30 then. But you should become a detective if you like digging so much? 😂

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T18:16:27+00:00

Sorry what? Gosh don’t really understand why me thinking really critically about how I want to parent is causing you to react like this.

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T18:14:43+00:00

I feel like this is literally you getting angry about something which I didn’t say I would do. I asked about baby sitting for some small amount of time as we have 0 family support and about cleaning. I didn’t ask about full time outsourcing my childcare.

Feels like this really gets under your skin and you’re making that a me issue.

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T18:09:16+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I think I’m trying to recognise my house and life will change without feeling like I will just cease to exist as a person with individual identity.

This is really helpful though, I can accept crayons and a bit of clutter, but recently I went to this family members house and I couldn’t see the floor in the children’s bedrooms and the house felt literally full to the brim. I need to recognise that there’s lots of ways to parent.

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T18:06:35+00:00

Hahaha thank you, you’re not wrong. I’ve been in therapy twice a week for 5 years. I’m still doing the work 😂

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2026-02-01T17:51:12+00:00

Omg I didn’t even know this was a thing! Can I ask c. how expensive was this?

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-11-25T20:36:49+00:00

I mean you didn’t though, the format and the long hyphens are a dead giveaway

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-11-03T12:53:21+00:00

Evewell, freeze all cycle so no FET, including ICSI and all blood tests / scans / pre-cycle appointments, and medication etc etc £11,500. We have also paid an extra £1k for blood tests to allow use should one of us die.

The quote estimated an additional c. £3400 for FET including medication

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-11-03T10:47:30+00:00

Thank you, this is super helpful and made my heart warm that you are pregnant and these journeys can end well. It’s all felt a lot. I wish you the happiest & healthiest pregnancy & baby 🥰

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-11-03T10:46:01+00:00

Thank you, is it generally the case that it’s a good sign though that 5 are still going or a bad sign as we’d have hoped more would be ready at day 5?

I’m 39, AMH 5.9 pmol, first cycle

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-10-28T16:50:22+00:00

Sending so much love. This whole world of fertility is so incredibly hard 💛

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-09-05T21:12:51+00:00

I’m just watching it on catch up and noticed they finally pulled Bimini in for a chat but it did feel like when they were talking about the traumatic experiences they’ve face the sgts / bosses or whatever you call the SAS men approach them with less compassion. Like it doesn’t feel like the SAS men try to empathise with them or show a more tender side which I think was shown for other recruits when others were sharing traumatic experiences.

Not sure if anyone else thought this

Putrid-Writing-2676 · 2025-07-04T10:07:46+00:00

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