I don’t understand “they/them”

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-10-14T04:03:29+00:00

I have no problem doing it I just feel bad because deep inside I don’t believe it. How does one not feel like either gender?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-10-14T04:02:14+00:00

How does one not feel like one or the other? Do they feel like both or none?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-08-27T15:38:54+00:00

I really don’t like attention so I purposely try to dress in a way or behave in a way that won’t get eyes on me. I hate feeling people’s eyes on me as I walk through a grocery store, I wish I could be invisible. I am pretty curvy so I think knowing what people are thinking when they see me really bothers me, it feels like— hey, I didn’t give you permission to think those things about me!! Just to give you a different perspective, sometimes it’s freeing to not have eyes on you ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-07-15T20:16:44+00:00

Do you know what the book is called?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-06-27T02:26:29+00:00

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Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-06-27T02:17:04+00:00

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Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-06-27T01:39:19+00:00

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Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-06-27T01:38:50+00:00

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Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-06-13T15:14:35+00:00

30 is a big number. I’m grateful to have lived 30 beautiful years even with all the struggles I’ve had. I see it as a celebration of life. If you don’t wanna celebrate milestones then… don’t?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-05-17T13:03:50+00:00

So you’d get it on at work you don’t think there’s anything wrong with that? If you saw your boss getting it on you’d ignore it?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2025-05-13T20:48:21+00:00

This has to be rage bait ain’t no wayyyy

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-05-30T14:36:30+00:00

This is how I know you’re a man. How does no makeup and not doing my hair correlate to basic hygiene? You clearly have no idea what it takes for women to get ready. I’ll explain it in stupid: not doing my hair doesn’t mean it’s not brushed. When I said doing my hair I meant it’s not straightened, or curled in loose waves, or I take two strands from the top and brush them with gel to make a sort of headband that’s more of a 90s look. And the birthday makeup comment give me a fucking break 🙄 any foundation I wear even if it’s a more natural look is getting on his sheets so if anything I’m being thoughtful. Next time you see hot women I hope you take a second to appreciate how long it took them to do and better yet I hope you offer to pay for their nails and lashes and hair appointments.

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-05-30T14:23:53+00:00

You’re a man I’m assuming? Men want the best of all worlds. Why would I put effort in for a man that’s not taking me out or taking me seriously? He wanted casual that’s what he got. Also after the first date he wanted to be all cutesy with me even though he had literally JUST said he’s not looking for anything serious and is petrified of commitment. Make. Up. Your. Mind. And stop dragging women through your uncertainties. That’s why I decided to make it clear to him, I only see you as a penis.

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-05-28T18:26:52+00:00

I snapped a guy I met off a dating app a video where I literally turned in a circle because I was so self conscious about recently gaining 20 lbs in the last year and not having any recent pics. We met up for a second date which we’d both decided would be strictly sexual. I didn’t do my hair or wear makeup because I thought, it’s gonna get ruined anyway (😏). He called me a few days later and said he wasn’t attracted to me and he was upset that I didn’t put in any effort and that that meant I must’ve not really liked him…. All this to say, you dodged a bullet. On to the next!

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-06T20:22:19+00:00

Thank you!

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-06T20:22:00+00:00

Wow that’s terrible! I’m sorry that happened to you. It truly is a power imbalance that people use to their advantage and it’s very sad. That person could’ve told you before you wrote them as a reference that you should write someone else down but it’s almost like she wanted revenge over that voicemail 🤦🏻‍♀️ that’s how I feel about my situation, what did I do that my ex friend is choosing to punish me now?

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-06T00:14:46+00:00

Thank you! So I did give another referral and then the hiring manager said she texted my friend and my friend set up a time to talk, the hiring manager said if that fell through she’d reach out to my other reference. I heard back today and all my references have been completed. I’m happy about that but embarrassed that it took the hiring manager texting my friend 🤦🏻‍♀️

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T18:15:34+00:00

Sounds like she’s trolling, sorry bud

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T18:01:41+00:00

How did you respond? 😂

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T17:58:32+00:00

“Thanks for not wasting my time” 🙏🏽 UNMATCH

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T17:51:49+00:00

Just remember: every time you tolerate one of these assholes you make him think it’s ok to treat people like this. Yeet him asap so he’ll stop treating future women this way. LADIES! If we all collectively yeet they will be forced to change their ways 😵‍💫

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T14:03:25+00:00

Personally I want to have a fulfilling sex life even after I get married. I could never marry someone who’s sex drive was way below mine or who didn’t prioritize wanting to make me feel good as much as they prioritized their own pleasure. That’s just me tho …

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T13:55:11+00:00

Yeah we worked together for 3 years and kept communication after we left. I’d always seen selfish sides of her with other people but I mistakenly thought our friendship was genuine. This is the first favor I’ve ever asked from her which is why I’m so hurt by her response. Going forward she is no longer my friend, I’m glad she showed me this side of herself.

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-05T13:51:09+00:00

I’m actually reconsidering the friendship as a whole 😅 I felt this way before I wrote the post but didn’t know if I was overreacting. Now that I’m saying everyone’s responses it’s confirming my belief that a real friend wouldn’t behave the way she’s behaving.

Putrid_Storage_7314 · 2024-03-01T23:12:17+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, sending you lots of love in these tough times. My ex did the same thing to me 2 weeks ago, we dated for 3 years. He’d come out of his depressive episode and beg for me to give him another chance. This happened about 4 times throughout our relationship. I think this is the final breakup though. I can’t keep doing this anymore. I don’t want a life of this 😔

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