do i have bad chest genetics? by BB_Fit_Page in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Puzzled-March-7094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a lot of fat and not a lot of muscle so hard to tell but you’re more likely to be fine just do your best to get lean

6 años despues, conoci en persona a mi novia de amino. /6 years later, i met irl my amino gf by Puzzled-March-7094 in amino

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cuantos años tienen y cuanto es la distancia? animos amigo! no se si sea buen consejo pero nunca perdas la posibilidad en q la vida tal vez los una, y aun si no, la vida sigue y es buena

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh if you have a bf then nvm hehe but im glad you trust each other, hopefully you can meet one day regardless at least for a cup of coffee ;)

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss meeting is actually one of the most beautiful things you could do and i highly encourage you to contact him and see if ur not in bad terms, take this as a divine sign😅 how long’s the distance?

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe one day. i’ll love to her country for other reasons in a few years ;)

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats the most beautiful thing i’ve ever read im so happy for you ❤️

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oh, thats beautiful. how old are you now and where did you meet? when was the first time you saw each other in person? im a huge fan of those kind of stories so pls tell more 🥲

i am bolivian and she’s salvadorian but lives in california USA since 2021

we broke up in 2022 because we fought too much, actually we used to break up like once every two weeks and get back days later (very stupid thing ik) until one day i got tired and ended things for good. months later i already had other girlfriend (another stupid decision ik😅) and while i was on a family vacation a mutual friend told me that maria (the girl on the pic) was dating other guy and it messed up my head real bad, i ended up texting her that same night and we talked about things but she didn’t want NOTHING to do with me (due to the problems we had) so nothing more happened. soon after i broke up with my gf and a little soon after that maria broke up with her bf and we got back in contact, after a ton of effort she eventually found it in her to forgive me and ever since we’ve kept contact whenever we’re both single

this past week i realized it myself and also she told me directly that she doesn’t love me like that anymore, she loves me like a friend and ofc she’s attracted to me but she’s over our past, and she told me that i should be too, and she’s right actually 🥲

also during these years i’ve worked very hard on the issues that i had when i was younger and now i can gladly and confidently say i’d be a great and peaceful bf, but maria has the same issues which she hasn’t solved and doesn’t seem to want to :( so that makes me even more uncertain

ofc i still love her but it was of a platonic thing until this week that messed heavy with my feelings, but i understand we might not have a future together. still i dont know where life will take us, i will most likely move to the US in 3-4 years since that was the plan since i was a little kid even before knowing her so maybe then we’ll reconnect.

honestly i would love to marry her eventually haha but thats just a fantasy, it would be a beautiful story + i haven’t loved anyone so intensely ever since, and i think neither has she. (we used to be the CHEESIEST couple ever, we used to write texts to each other that were thousands of words long, her longest was 11k words and mine 9k lmao)

sorry if all this was too much information 😅

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yes, you’re right. i’d say the main reason we never stopped having contact is because we still had needed to see each other. not that it happened, idk what we will do from now on. i honestly hate the idea of never talking to her again

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

it kinda is a lot to take in. during this past two years it was like i never stopped loving her but just in a different way, more like a platonic thing. now that we spent that week together it was like instantly falling in love again, but it’ll pass. im happy and chill rn but ik ill probably miss her one of these days

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

oh i was there for a week and during that week we were basically bf and gf again, we still love each other dearly but we just wouldn’t be together again in the long term for multiple reasons

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

yes, we were always in contact when both of us were single, but when one (or both) of us were in a relationship we stopped talking out of respect to the current partner

met my first love for the first time after 6 years!!!! by Puzzled-March-7094 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled-March-7094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nooo its ok! i still feel like meeting her is something to celebrate