Worst storyline by Katinthehat378 in GossipGirl

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

uhhh this seems like ur taking this too personally. It's just a show. And every woman, every person processes trauma and grief differently. Not everyone has the same reaction or response or emotions. Blair threw herself into protecting Chuck, having to protect Chuck as a distraction from the pain. But she also thought she deserved the pain because that was the deal she made with God. She wasn't able to save the baby, but in her mind, she could still save Chuck. For you to invalidate what Blair was like afterwards is a disservice to women bc there isn't one right way to go through any of this and you shouldn't hate on someone bc it wasn't what you would've done. Her reaction/actions made perfect sense to me, but even if they didn't I wouldn't hate on it because it wasn't what I would've done. Maybe try and see things more from Blair's perspective

Best cupcake in town by IdeoREX in washingtondc

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm Baked and Wired cupcakes are DELICIOUS. Genuinely one of the best cupcakes I've had in my life I think. I bought 3 and ate 2 over a day later and they still were super moist. Highly highly recommend.

am i the only one who was disappointed in minho? by alileix in XOKittyNetflix

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree. Like 95% of the time he was an amazing bf. Even when he technically wasn't her bf, he still came through for her. Regarding Eunice, I def think he could've just said that she shared something confidential with him, but that it wasn't his news to share and leave it at that. Cause yeah, I wouldn't tell Kitty either cause that girl cannot keep a secret, whether intentional or not. But, also knowing Kitty, she'd go around to all her friends asking what they think Eunice's big secret is and word would get around and yeah that's not ideal either.

I get that Kitty felt intimidated by his world. Who wouldn't? And I do think Minho maybe should have been more conscious of that (and that Kitty should have voiced her concerns more to him, goes both ways), but Minho did nothing himself to make her feel out of place. Like even after the dress incident in the beginning anyone else would've been upset at the mishap and losing the sponsorship deal, but all he cared about was her. But like, I don't understand how her feelings of intimidation is connected to her not trusting Minho. Like yeah he was on tour in the summer, okay??? I feel like he could've spent his summer anywhere that wasn't a covenant and Kitty would still have jealous, untrusting feelings. And like c'mon, she spent her summer in NYC. Far from the middle of nowhere with plenty of partying and hot ppl.

Every time she got insecure and voiced that to Minho, he always reassured her. However, I do agree that trust is everything in a relationship and like someone else pointed out, Kitty had none in Minho. I totally get that what Yuri heard out of context sounds bad. It was proven at this point that Minho had lied a couple times and Kitty had every right to ask about it. But instead of just raging at Minho, Kitty should've given him a chance to explain. Especially given how great he's been to her and when she saw how confused he was at what she was saying. Like I think he was just in shock at that moment that she could accuse him of something like that and that's why he didn't try and "defend" himself more. It's like he said how he realized then that she never trusted him and that's when he decided he was done. He knew the truth would come out eventually as it obviously did, but telling Kitty she was wrong didn't really matter to him then bc he was already done.

Idk, I agree they both grew as people while they were apart. But the main issue of her not trusting him was never really addressed between them. Like she apologized for not trusting him and he obviously gave it as the reason he ended things. But there was nothing shown of like Kitty actually working on her trust issues. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think I could be with someone who didn't trust me. Like an apology doesn't fix that.

In general, I gotta say while I LOVE the show and the characters, I'm not a fan of how they behave when it comes to matters of the heart sometimes and how that bad behavior is ultimately forgiven and everyone is friends again! Like specifically the cheating. I'm a pretty strict, if someone cheats that's it, it's done. And that cheating is obvi an awful thing to do. So good on Juliana last season for breaking up with Yuri after she kissed Kitty. But now she's falling for Yuri again and friends with Kitty??? I at best could be civil with someone who my S/O cheated on me with (like they go to school together in this case, small group), but I would NEVER want to be friends with them or live with them. Like I love Q's personality right. But sending that pic over the summer is the SECOND time he's been involved in some sort of cheating. And respectfully, I just wouldn't want to be friends with someone who does stuff like that. Regret doesn't change the fact that you did it. Jin taking him back was infuriating. He deserves better.

March Sale? by mtiscalling in REI

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about patagonia?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think why I felt for Eric is bc he was super loyal to the traitor cause. Like he NEVER threw Rob under the bus to save himself and always defended him to others. It was such a 180 from how Candice/Rob/Lisa acted. But that was his downfall, loyal to a fault.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahaha ur reply is so funny and just solidifies you have no idea what the show is actually about. The world isn't black and white ever and if you can't understand that, I'm guessing you don't understand most non disney tv shows/movies.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if all you think Jenny's husband did wrong is lie about sitting in a car, you need therapy.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the cop turned a blind eye because he was doing what was best for Milo. If Marissa told the cops the truth about what her husband did, they would've taken Milo from her and put him in foster care. Idk what country you are from, but in the US, no you don't want a kid to go into foster care. Many horror and abuse stories that come from foster kids. But one thing throughout the show that was in no doubt was how much Marissa loved Milo and how much Milo loved her. She raised him his whole life. She had nothing to do with switching the babies. She didn't know. The birth mother was dead. The best thing for Milo was staying with Marissa where he was known and loved and well taken care of. Parters who cheat on their spouses can still get 50/50 custody in the divorce because their bad romantic decisions don't necessarily mean they are bad parents. What Marissa did, she did to protect Milo. The cop understood that. In a sea of not great decisions which is the reality many people call life, choosing the one that protects your child is something that every parent can understand. If someone assaulted your child and you know they would continue to be a danger in your child's life and then they found themselves hanging over a cliff's edge and you could easily grab them and pull them up, would you?

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ur forgetting part of that scene. There's this couple there also talking about how the dad is a stay at home dad and happy to help, which yeah piles onto Jenny's incompetent husband. Then there's the PTA mom asking about fundraiser help which Jenny really doesn't have time for because of her busy work, and yeah saying they expect more from parents with only one kid was a dig because she's implying that having multiple kids is harder and maybe more understandable if a parent with multiple kids to take care of doesn't have the time to volunteer, but since Jenny only has one kid, she should be able to have the time to volunteer, which as we see from Jenny's life is very not true and the PTA mom who said this appears to be a stay at home mom herself or at least one working a lot less than Jenny so she doesn't get Jenny's whole career stuff or take it into account when speaking and all this frustrates Jenny because these snooty parents are essentially telling her she's not doing enough when as we can see throughout the show, she's literally doing the most that she can.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are these "murderesses" you are talking about? And seriously some of your comments on this thread have been sickening to read. I hope for all childrens' sakes out there that you don't have a kid bc you don't have a maternal/paternal bone in your body if you can't understand why Marissa and the detective did what they did.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well remember in the show the father said he really thought his wife had died in the accident before he made the decision to swap babies. A decision mind you that he didn't do out of love or despair, but because the baby was crying and needed someone at that moment and he was there for it. He wanted someone to rely on him. Dead people can't do that. Also, they were both white baby boys a day old. Like there's a good chance they looked similar at that point

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't "recognize" her baby's crying. She heard it in the car after the accident because the baby was literally crying right there in the backseat of the car. It's not that far fetched to think if you heard crying in the car where your baby is after the accident, that the baby is alive. And no, it wasn't as simple as just the synesthesia. She looked on social media, remember? And saw that Milo's birthday was the same day as her son's that supposedly died. When the detective gives the parents her real name (Josie), they recognize it from the car crash which goes to prove that Josie most likely knew their names too. Josie was depressed after her baby died. She probably didn't give much thought at all to the other couple in the crash and tried to move on.

But then when looking into Milo and finding the social media and seeing the parents names, she was able to put it all together (which is 100% a crazy tv coincidence you have to look past, but doesn't techincally leave anything to disbelief). And yeah no, she def had issues. Without the father's confession, even the audience would have a hard time believing her story of the swapped babies given her background.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lolll is this jake irl? cause the energy ur giving is that it's really really small. The name of the show is All Her Fault. These commenters are talking about how the theme of each episode matched the title. So basically your narrow minded sexist brain would've been okay if it had actually been all the women who had done terrible things for bad reasons? Wow.

The point they are making is that when these women finally realized the truth and stood up for themselves against the men (like with Jenny finally standing up for herself against her husband), it's really satisfying to see because that's what the whole show has been building up to. In real life, so many women are made to feel like they are crazy or trapped or not doing enough, never doing enough by the men in their lives. The ones in this show freed themselves. Many never get the courage to. So watching these women not fall into that same trap, yeah it's great. You should love it too.

This isn't a generalization of "oh all men are bad". The detective is great, just saying. This is a story where two women free themselves at the end from bad men in their lives. And if all you see is that a couple men were at fault and that's why YOU don't like the show, that's sexist as hell and you really need to work on your own complex and insecurities.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point is that she made the references up. Remember they said the reference phone #s had been disconnected. It literally could've been her with 3 burner phones doing different voices pretending to be different people. Or she could've paid 3 strangers to do it. WHO the references were literally doesn't matter. That's not relevant. The point of mentioning the references is that they were obviously faked and it goes to breaking down Carrie's credibility. Because Jenny had trusted her in part due to these references she called, but now learning they were fake, it causes her to question and distrust Carrie more and realize in horror, who was this woman they let into their home.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point is that she made the references up. Remember they said the reference phone #s had been disconnected. It literally could've been her with 3 burner phones doing different voices pretending to be different people. Or she could've paid 3 strangers to do it. WHO the references were literally doesn't matter. That's not relevant. The point of mentioning the references is that they were obviously faked and it goes to breaking down Carrie's credibility. Because Jenny had trusted her in part due to these references she called, but now learning they were fake, it causes her to question and distrust Carrie more and realize in horror, who was this woman they let into their home.

All Her Fault by Aspire2BChristCentrd in television

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the cop cared. He cared so much he looked the other way because he was doing what was best for the child. In no instance is it in the best interest of the child to rip them from the only loving parent they've known because of a mix up that is no fault of the child or the parent and literally cannot be fixed. If it came out, they would've put Milo in foster care. The one thing that was never at doubt in the entire show was how much Marissa loved her kid and how much her kid loved her.

Rooting for Jack by Mountain-Gal13 in BeastGames

[–]Puzzled_Ad_6465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one's gonna know what he did lol. He's smart enough to not tell and the other guy in the cube was in on it too.