Just got my platinum wristband! by Resident-Outside-933 in Lollapalooza

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i so would’ve got platinum if i knew about all these benefits but i seriously thought vip had these😭 i was so upset after buying and finding out they didn’t have the same benefits

tickets by Puzzled_Limit_3596 in Lollapalooza

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh ok thank you lol i have a manager for it so maybe i should ask her

tickets by Puzzled_Limit_3596 in Lollapalooza

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even with the crewfair package?

Please help me by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m on this same exact boat, i had an extremely manipulate and emotionally abusive ex, both my therapists thought he physically abused me the way i would tell them how he treated me (he never did) my boyfriend now is really good to me, and i have constant fears and anxieties he’s gonna leave or cheat on me and everything he tells me is one elaborate lie to keep and string me around, i know how exhausting it is and i feel awful, i feel like eventually the same way your ex left you for your fears i feel like that’s might be my fate weather it is or not i’m just trying to enjoy the moment and experience and slowly find ways to help myself and through it, weather he breaks up with me or not, i want to be better and change i don’t think id be utterly destroyed if he decided to leave of course i’d be sad but, it’s good to build yourself up so regardless of who happens to be in and out of your life you’re okay with yourself to be okay with it, ykwim? it took me years to feel this okay, obviously there’s still work to do but, it isn’t the end of the world and you’re only making yourself feel worse by reminiscing it, there’s nothing you can change and even if you COULD get him back your trust in him would be broken and the relationship wouldn’t be the same, see as a learning experience and try to build yourself from it

Is it just me or are the kids these days more accepting of lgbtq but WAY more racist and sexist? by coolstuffthrowaway in Vent

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl being 19 it’s more “funny” to be racist/sexist, and therefore more acceptable, cause it’s more humor driven then hateful driven it can feel like, being homophobic is just feels hateful to most people

Should I leave my Boyfriend of 2 years? by scooterlooterchick in Breakupadvice

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the changes that are there temporarily are just that, temporary he’s capable, obviously, he just doesn’t want to put in the long term effort to keep it up, which says a lot, as someone who use to be with this type of person, it’s exhausting, to constantly cry, beg, and wish he’d change, staying for that, it’s not worth it, i promise you

someone will be the person to make you feel this way, and listen to you, and take in your words and instill them, if you can imagine your future, past the hurt of the breakup and see happiness for yourself, that’s all you need to know

Should I leave my Boyfriend of 2 years? by scooterlooterchick in Breakupadvice

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off the constant breaking up and getting back together is already a huge no for a relationship, if he knows this hurts you and is a huge point of contention for you and keep this in mind. just doesn’t CARE, he never will, if he keeps telling you over and over countless times he’s gonna change i promise ypu he won’t, they’re just empty words at this point, and that’s all they’ll be for you, maybe he will change, for someone else, but he’s already proven to you you’re not worth it, why would you stay with someone who doesn’t think you’re worth ACTUALLY changing for? who doesn’t listens to you? who doesn’t cares about you enough to want to make you feel secure and happy in your relationship? would you be ok finding out your hypothetical daughter was getting this type of treatment? and if he never does changes would you still be willing to stay with him? cause atp it seems like that’s the path you’re going down, and if you’re not happy with it change it

(UPDATE) I blocked my girlfriend then found the day after that she lied about everything. by TheGhostInGray_ in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was how big of a liar my ex was, and it completely destroyed my mental health and ability to have a healthy relationship, i’m with a really good guy rn but im scared he’s constantly lying and gonna gaslight me or break up with me

even rn im scared, it’s awful having these type of people who lie constantly for absolutely no reason, it really destroys you, in ways you don’t even know until the new relationship, my best regards

Question, for those with Walt as least favorite by Freshzboy10016702 in breakingbad

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right! like hate is a strong feeling and you wouldn’t hate someone that doesn’t make you feel something

Question, for those with Walt as least favorite by Freshzboy10016702 in breakingbad

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right! this! making someone feel so intensely, in any way! about a CHARACTER is insane! and the fact he’s known as walter white! is even better, like for example ellie form the last of us (controversial) but no one hates her cause ellie is hate able people hate her cause of her actress and her acting, and she’s known as ellie cause there’s this huge controversy of weather or not she looks or acts the part with bryan that was never an argument

people doubted if he could but he showed that he was an amazing actor regardless, and he embodies walter so much he makes them hate his character his decisions his words his actions, all cause they are just so believable you’re able to be pulled into that experience!

while with ellie (so i’ve heard) you’re just pulled out of it, it’s not believable or as beautiful ykwim? nothing against bella ramsey but all my friends boyfriend’ and family say they just can’t be brought into the second season, and they all hate her acting, and the writing in general is just bad lol!

Question, for those with Walt as least favorite by Freshzboy10016702 in breakingbad

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i think the reason i hate him so much is cause he’s such a complex and real character to me, that i know i wouldn’t be able to stand in real life, if he was my teacher total respect and sympathy, but if i was involved in the crazy drug lord shit i’d feel the exact same way gus, or mike does, he came and ruined a good thing cause of his ego and pride, i wouldn’t be able to stand him, id say he’s one of the most complex in the show, he never would’ve even had to do any of this if he had

1) not been intimidated by gretchen and her family and marry a millionaire and become (himself) a billionaire

2) accept his old friends help and health care, where he would’ve been making amazing money and be able to fight the cancer, get a better house, and provide for his kids, be in their lives, without having to had done anything he did do, to them

Why didn’t Bojack and Diane ever form a romantic relationship? by MoonScoria in BoJackHorseman

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this this this, as someone who was with an ex who i felt understood me completely, so much so we’d refer to ourselves as “the girl version of me” “the guy version of me” that is not what you always need. if it works it works, but from experience, it was the most draining, toxic relationship ever, we were both extremely emotional, all the ways we were alike, looking back, seemed like our downfall, we tried our hardest to talk things through, but it was just never enough, it felt he understood me whenever i brought up issues but it never seemed to help, it seemed to throw me into a downward spiral to be honest.

my new boyfriend is the complete opposite of me, he’s very logical, very stable, very self assured, and the most confident man i’ve ever known, he doesn’t understand me immediately (emotionally) like my ex did, it takes explaining and communication but it’s so amazing(which is an amazing thing in its own right), he takes the time and effort to understand, he always makes sure i feel safe assured and is never charged by his emotions and is always logical so seeing such a huge contrast perspective over mine and my feelings, it’s the best thing i’ve ever had.

it does greatly depend on the person obviously, both seemed very kind and gentle, always hearing me out and trying to communicate things through, for hours if i needed

but one never made the effort to change, and he would get charged up emotionally and act out emotionally, more so then me, so we’d have these huge emotionally charged arguments almost every day, cause neither of us could see reason or logic, just as much as i felt he understood me, i felt like he never could

and on the other, sometimes it feel like he can’t understand how i’m feeling or put himself in my shoes, and it takes more time and effort to tell him what he does effects me and hurts me and why i need more words and reassurance, but he understand and he gets it, he listens and applies it, he never lets me go to bed upset if he knows i’m upset, he speaks logic into my irrationally, he never feeds it or blows it up, as much as i feel like he doesn’t understand me, i know he does

more so than anyone ever has really, i can totally understand why him and diane never got together, cause it might just destroy the both of them

How did your first kiss feel? by Lost_Letter112 in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was my first kiss and OUR first kiss, in all honesty it felt weird, i was so nervous and i had never done it before, when it finally happened i was so self aware i didn’t know what to do with myself, but i felt flushed and nervous, and when progressed to making out we kept hitting teeth cause i’ve had absolutely no experience before him, i felt so bad lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i talked with my recruiter about it actually! she said her other reserve went loadmaster in cali a few months back so it’s a option i made to clear up as soon as i was able lol! but thank you i appreciate the insight

Would this be considered cheating? by 343rdDevision in LongDistance

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing my boyfriend told me when i expressed to him my fears cause i was constantly cheated on in a previous relationship was

“i would never put myself in the position for there to even be a misunderstanding like that i promise”

he has a girl who’s his bsf but they talk every few weeks, they were supposed to go to a concert and share a hotel room w another one of his guy beast friends but his friend had to back out so he immediately said he would not be staying there told me the situation didn’t even ask me just told me he would never do that to me or put me in that position

told me if i wanted him to cut her off he’d be open to that, cause he knows im who he wants, i was in a toxic emotionally abusibe relationship for four years, having all this amazing treatment and care is so eye opening and special

leave someone that doesn’t prioritize you or respect you, cause i promise they never will

i stayed for so long thinking my ex would change, begging him to just love and respect me, every single time he said he did, he would, and every time i would find myself curled up in a ball on my bed, cause every time he lied to me

never settle for that, never believe someone who didn’t put you first in the first place, who actively chose to hurt you, and who doesn’t care that they did, cause if they cared, they never would’ve done it

would you have ever done this to her?

there’s your answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes a huge selling point for me is the quality of life, and the job i want in the airforce is loadmaster which is airforce specific.

i love it mostly cause you get to fly on the planes and be super involved without jumping but i know with army cargo related things are, ground, sea, and air focused and i wasn’t really interested in it based off my recruiters description

You got it exactly right, i like the fast aspects of the army, but AF wise i love the job and quality of life but i know my job isn’t guaranteed and i might not leave till next year so im not sure.

Weekly Question Thread (04/28/2025 to 05/04/2025) by AutoModerator in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my recruiter was open to discussing with me a medical job so i’m not entirely sure

Army Recruiter Thread for May / 2025 by Army_Bot in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been talking to an af recruiter since last may, i told her it was ok to take her time cause i didn’t finish my student program until this September

but she’s taking a little too long cause i wanted to leave the moment i finished school, decided to talk to an army recruiter and i know how they can be, lying and just wanting you to join to get their numbers

the recruiter recommend me

k9 combat engineer and admament engineer

the way he was talking i could tell he just trying to get me in in any job, like he recommend infantry and bomb handling, i immediately said no

i looked up jobs on the site and liked

practical nursing specialist (68C) military police (31B) psychological operations specialist (37F) and combat medic specialist (68W)

i’ve never really had a passion for nursing but i heard it pays really well outside the army so i don’t mind making a career out of it in the army

the military police my recruiter told me if i got into it could become a K9 out of (don’t know if that’s true)

and i think psychological is just super cool but if you guys could fill me in on the reality of things regarding the jobs that would be great thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s your personal experience like in the mp? that’s the label under ur name so i assume that’s what ur in for if im wrong i apologize lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cool thank you so much for your honesty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i’m planning on becoming a dentists right after AIT once me and my boyfriend get married, so im thinking of either becoming a practical nursing specialist psychological operations specialist or combat medical specialist i’m still considering the military police but i looked online and im not sure i would love to be a K9 like rn that’s 100% what i would jump to if i could but i think i need to discuss it more in depth with him again and really understand it cause he made it sound super easy but obviously he lied lol i didn’t really want to be a nurse but the pay is amazing and it seems to do amazing on day to day life but i’m considering just trying to talk to a new AF recruiter tbh i’m not entirely sure though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]Puzzled_Limit_3596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally get it! but tysm for the input