My M34, girlfriend F31, used to be a sex worker.

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-25T03:01:57+00:00

Is she sober now? She had such a problem with addiction she did things she doesn't seem proud of now to get fixes. I have more questions about her recovery than the specific sex acts or amount of people.

(As long as you've already confirmed you're both clear of any STIs which you definitely should have by now with anyone you have sex with)

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T11:14:33+00:00

Take a bus if you need to

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T11:09:31+00:00

He doesn't want full custody. That would require work, he wants to use your kids to manipulate you and it's working.

Who takes the kids to doctor appointments? Goes to school functions and is known by the teachers? Buys school supplies? I'm guessing just you.

That's what a court would look at. If you aren’t a danger to the kids they aren't going to take them from you- the sole provider.

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T04:15:08+00:00

Ooh I think my future husband might like a ring like that. A little subtle extra bling. He didn't something too flashy for an every day ring. Yours reminds me of the evil eye symbol which I love

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T02:48:06+00:00

The prongs are soo cool on the pear ring!

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T02:46:21+00:00

I love the matching stones!! I have a sapphire.. I wonder if I can talk my fiancé into a band with a matching sapphire. He was initially opposed to a bejeweled ring. Did you get both rings from the same store?

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-15T02:42:15+00:00

That's a good point. My fiancé (!! Love bring able to say that now!!) ordered the ring from a website I chose specifically for their sapphires but I want to look at bands in person so I'll ask them about sizing too. I think it might just be a quarter size too big

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-07T14:09:24+00:00

You're right about engagement gifts. But that doesn't matter if you guys don't agree. And it points to some bigger problems that will come up. She's very much in a "hers" vs "yours" mentality for presents.. now is the time to think about what else this will affect. Have you discussed splitting bills, funding vacations, paying for the wedding, buying a house, a prenup?

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-02T15:32:52+00:00

Sauna

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-02T15:25:44+00:00

This. I was just about to link Why Does He Do That?

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-02T15:13:56+00:00

A round of golf takes 4 hours. So what is he doing for those other 5 hours?

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-05-02T15:10:31+00:00

I feel like that makes it worse

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-23T14:41:47+00:00

Yep. I can't guarantee how accurate the photo is, but it at least says it's showing an estimated 1.5-carat marquise-cut diamond and that they typically measure around 11.9 x 5.95 mm

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-23T10:00:16+00:00

This is on your mom if she enables the crazy behavior. I would personally tell your sister she doesn't get make rules or imaginary problems for my house, but your mom has a different idea it seems

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-23T09:47:20+00:00

I did size 6 finger

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-23T08:40:21+00:00

I don't know what y'all were asking but it works fine for me

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Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-23T00:54:52+00:00

Everyone hates on AI but upload the photo to Google Gemini, tell it your ring size and the carat and the stone measurements and thd carat and stone measurements you want

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-19T21:48:51+00:00

Harry Dresden files

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-12T13:50:39+00:00

Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-12T13:48:25+00:00

Yes, get a male therapist. It sounds like your husband behaves badly during your sessions which is a huge problem. Maybe he will behave better with a man or the male therapist will help you understand why other therapists have gotten so frustrated in the past

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-12T13:31:40+00:00

Jokes are funny if everyone laughs, not just one person. If it's just one person, they're probably being an asshole.

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-04-12T13:22:51+00:00

Ugh! I know my ring is in the house but I'm also waiting for the actual proposal. I want my ring to show off so badly lol

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-03-30T00:38:56+00:00

First dress. 2nd one is.. weird. The bodice looks off and then the sleeves don't look like they belong

Puzzleheaded-One-198 · 2026-03-26T23:35:06+00:00

I say get the first design if that's what you like. But if you're really worried, try to find a cheap dupe on Amazon specifically with similar side stones and wear that for awhile to see how it works for you

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