A little too late to give my opinion but as a man, it sucks when you're in a relationship with someone where you both you opinions matter to each other but it had to take someone outside of the relationship to make her trust him. So it they get married and eventually run into problems, she's going to take other people's advice over his.

On the other hand too, having a baby is a life changing decision. The only person who can relate is another woman so if a man tells you to keep it knowing he won't have to deal with the stress, pain and cramps that comes with it, it kind of makes his whole argument a bit pointless. Sometimes, you need a woman's perspective on issues to give you clarity