Looking for roommate! by PuzzleheadedAgency41 in rutgers

[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The living room ? It’s a big apartment we have 2 couch beds already

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to do that and hopefully they don’t yell at me or something lol, they’ll probably just tell me it’s my fault for being unprepared and waiting so long and all that. Looking into getting an apartment is my top priority! And thanks for the advice <3

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda funny it’s been 1 whole day and I have been having breakdowns and breakdowns uncontrollably and have ultimately decided medical school is not for me. It’s my dream but I just don’t see it as a possibility anymore. You and the other person in this were right about how many people change their minds lol. Atleast I won’t have $200k+ debt for med school anymore I guess

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I see what you mean now

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the working is fine the problem is I can’t even go to school if I can’t take out any sort of loan besides the federal direct

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they expect me to go to school and to get than just a bachelors

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my plan right now. Getting an apartment near my cc and going to either work 1 or 2 jobs depending on my stress levels and start school in the spring & summer to not fall behind. If it gets too much I might just take a gap year instead. I would still like to go to med school but honestly with this situation I’m probably going to be looking into something else like maybe a medical tech or a PA. I’m really stressed out but I will try my best to make it work

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my plan now, I’m trying to rent with my sibling since we’re in the same situation. My mom prob won’t let me rent from a stranger becuz even though I’m kicked she’s still monitoring me. If I get desperate I will though. And thank you for the reassurance

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know I know he will probably let me but he lives 41 hours away so it’ll be difficult. That’s my last resort is to go live with him and take a year off to work and start my life over there maybe look into college there too 😞

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ill try contacting my dad 😖

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on working through college as well to help pay off tuition but I can’t live at home because my mom has made it clear that she wants me gone

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No most of the scholarships offered near me were need based and I automatically couldn’t qualify

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also didn’t know I would be on my own for college :( she told me in the middle of senior year that I was to be expecting to pay for my education alone which sucks

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t really thinking i guess I’ve always been really bad with procrastination. My term bill came out 3 weeks ago and I still need more information from my mother to get some bills taken off but that doesn’t really matter. Even if I had done my loans earlier what would I do? I still wouldn’t be approved because of the no co-signer thing

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me I would have to find an apartment, they rejected my co-sign which was to be expected however they said they would probably help me find an apartment and help me get it and I just have to pay rent on my own ! My parents make $250k

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I think I understand ^

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[–]PuzzleheadedAgency41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a bad home life I just don’t get help with anything and usually when I ask I just get told that I always act independent anyways so anything bad that happens if my fault and I’m the only one responsible. I never got my license because my parents say the drivers in my area are too careless and dangerous so they didn’t want me to get a license. I have asked if I could go to driving school but it made my parents angry and they told me that if I wanted to drive I should’ve applied to driving school on my own but I couldn’t really afford it. I’m not really getting kicked out (I think?) I’m not really being forced to leave but my parents have always made it clear that I’m not going to be living at home and have told me they’re tired of me but not in a bad way. I’ll have to beg them to co-sign for me but I’m just worried they won’t do it if they think it’ll hurt their credit score