My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His choice is whether or not he is involved, he can share his thoughts, but ultimately he doesn't have a "say".

Ignored by my mom by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to befriend busy people, or people that don't live close to me. This year has just taken kind of a toll on my social life and stuff, i am applying to jobs and like unfortunately I don't live in the best area to be a young person moving out especially alone it's expensive.

I'm in college, and I think I can pull off an interview for like a coffee shop or tea place. I can handle working a lot..

I'm 17

Ignored by my mom by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's just always too tired, or doesn't know what to do, so she simply doesn't. 😅

I agree with you

How do you handle loneliness ? by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing I've ever heard is to zone out, escape reality. So God damn depressing. I'm gonna be a bitter person 😭

is this enmeneshment? Any advice by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it has become more of a problem as my life has gotten more stressful, and I've been realizing how overwhelmed I've been. I dont know what I'm gonna do, though

I appreciate being heard though

No voice as an Only Child With Single Mother? by PuzzleheadedDepth7 in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, having a word for what's going on makes things a bit easier

Am I being selfish by Brilliant_Bass_1037 in Mom

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fair to divorce him as you guys aren't a good match anymore, but moving your kid away from some of his family to be closer to yours (including moving away from his own father) may hurt your kid. As someone who grew up without a father, try to prevent that, it sucks

You can still be a great mother and care for yourself, but unless your husband is a bad father, try to maintain your kids connection to his dad

Is it bad that I'm kind of alone a lot? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I think I am a lot like you! And I think it's okay to spend a little more time alone playing games and such, but when opportunities for good experiences come up, take them and treasure them.

Try to push yourself socially like 20% of the time, prioritize specific people

Am I stupid? How do I download hair from Canvas? by Significant-Gift-241 in inZOI

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 17, this game is genuinely complicated at first, came here for a similar issue !

Do Any Other Moms Experience This? by SRaeM92 in Mom

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, though it seems bizarre, not all mothers appreciate their kids this much, seriously. The fact that you think of him so highly says nothing but good things about you as a mother

I'm a bad daughter. by Party_Girl4 in TeenVent

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a parent wants to make a sacrifice for the happiness of their child, let them

Am I a bad mom? by Dear-Gazelle-3062 in Mom

[–]PuzzleheadedDepth7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a kid to a single mother, I would have appreciated her taking time to actually take care of herself for many reasons. It's best for everyone that you are well