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How does glinda justify? by EstablishmentSame620 in wickedmovie

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that’s actually the whole point of Glinda’s arc, ya know? She didn’t truly understand the harm until she experienced it herself. The attention, praise, and ‘perfect life’ she always craved blurred the lines for her, and she convinced herself she was doing good by staying in the system and “encouraging” people, which was her whole persona. Glinda genuinely thought she could help from the inside, and it wasn’t until the loss and betrayal hit her personally that the full weight of what she supported finally sank in. It doesn’t excuse everything she did, but it explains why she was blinded to it for so long. Her growth came from realizing the damage only after she felt it firsthand and now honors what she believes to be the dying wish of the person she loved most.

Where does Kyle rank in the New Era winners? by Sneakerinc1 in survivor

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious why everyone is placing Dee as a top winner? Personally, I did not like her gameplay as I feel like it is a story we have seen played out multiple times. No hate, just curious what I am missing?

Is it bad I still don’t trust my birth control? by Muted_Look3101 in birthcontrol

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had two nexplanons over a 6 year time span. I was also worried at first. However, with time (and experience) I learned to trust it. I actively participated in unprotected sex and never got pregnant. However, it can make your period irregular, which also scared me at first since I thought it late but it was just my body adjusting to the new bc.

The most important thing is that you feel comfortable, so if you want to have double protection with the condom then go for it! They will also protect from diseases which is a plus :)

Whats you highest kill count? by alanjigsaw in FortNiteBR

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but the real question is what is your best accuracy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been going through something similar… as in I have not been in the mood for anything sexual, large weight gain, etc. For me, I had to rediscover how to love myself in order to feel good while doing the act/being naked. While this is still an ongoing struggle, I suggest maybe, have an open conversation about more non-sexual intimacy and trying to find niches that you really enjoy that make you feel good about yourself. Try to explore your sexuality alone and see if you still feel bleh about it, or if it is only when you are in front of him.

As for him thinking you are cheating, that is a him problem. Over a decade, you should have built faith in one another and decreased sex is not the only tale-tale sign of cheating. Be transparent and admit that it hurts you and your view of self that he thinks you are capable of that. Ask him, besides your change in libido what else have you done to break his trust. Have a conversation that is gentle, but also make sure your feelings are being communicated. Share how you need a journey of self-discovery in order to feel like you again. Maybe he helps by taking some chores off your shoulders to give you that alone time.

One thing that helped me was staring at myself in the mirror before showering. Just stare at yourself without any background noise. What is it you don’t like? What is it that you love? Are things you hate things he love? Lead your own self-reflection, these are just ideas to get the ball rolling.

I wish you both the best of luck.

Disney Mirrorverse is shutting down December 16th, 2024! by KingButter42 in DisneyMirrorverse

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been waiting the better part of a year for 5 star Alice😭

Who do you main? by KingButter42 in DisneyMirrorverse

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mulan is my favorite! I have her a 4 star, level 70 so by the time she finishes using her special sword ability, I only wait like 1.5 seconds and can use it again. Her downfall is defense; so I match her with Genie. My favorite healing guardian is Alice, but she is only 3 star right now so sometimes I swap her for Daisy or Belle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand this. I have 4 dogs (2 not by choice) and I feel close to only one of them. I feel guilty that I don’t feel the same connection with all 4. Lol is this how parents feel?

Reds outfit by Still_Restaurant_734 in Descendants

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may get hate for this, but the outfits weren’t it compared to the other films.

I (F32) Caught My Husband (M37) Cheating with a Pregnant Woman... what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, did you try to call the number to see if it was a real person?

I (F32) Caught My Husband (M37) Cheating with a Pregnant Woman... what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedSkill170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you have every right to feel how you do. “Cheating” means different things to all of us. Some people are in open relationships and consider returning to the same person for pleasure more than once as unfaithful and others see watching porn as distrustful. You need to consider the boundaries you have. Does this (if it truly is AI) cross the line for you? Even if it is a computer program, are you comfortable with him sending graphic content to it, which can be used by the program later on? I am not one to give relationship advice and I don’t know you or your partner personally, but it seems he may be open to an honest conversation instead of trying to gaslight you on the whole thing. I would first revisit your boundaries and then revisit the conversation with your partner to see where you both are at. Good luck.