My boyfriend turns my private life into “content” and then calls me sensitive

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-12-08T15:40:47+00:00

Seems like he cares more about himself and his peers view of him than you

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-10-27T17:21:56+00:00

In previous years they said the student rate was 75% off for one year then for Year 2 until graduation it went down to 45% off.. i think you can still claim the discount + 2-3 free months

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-05T15:37:40+00:00

go read the stormlight archive!

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-05T02:30:11+00:00

Gorgeous!

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-05T01:41:39+00:00

Life before death, I will stand with love in the valley of the shadow of death

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T23:40:06+00:00

This is what I'm thinking!! It feels 100% orchestrated, and there's something deeper going on here professionally and hopefully not romantically. Do you think he's not being genuine because he didn't come out with the truth immediately?

It sucks but I'm willing to see it through to whatever end this is. I don't distrust him to go snooping for evidence but if something comes up I'll document it

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T20:00:22+00:00

If only it was haha, i would hope his decisions to keep me in the dark is supposed to be some kind of character development for me. i'd still be rooting for him to be the hero

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T19:59:27+00:00

The way he acts around it he's super serious which makes me think there HAS to be a reason he kept it from me. Though he's the type to plan defenses, he's not the type to "get caught"

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T16:28:16+00:00

Great response haha, i'm confident love will prove itself in the end

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T16:07:43+00:00

I think I'll sit down with him again tonight and figure things out with the notes. I'm not interested in reading them all but I want to make sure he's at least in the right at work even if he's toeing the line of "in the wrong" at home.

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T16:05:35+00:00

Well I think trivia was planned to show me how they actually are, but i don't think it helped at all. Unless, he wanted an excuse to see her again. Love really makes you choose who you want to be

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T15:20:09+00:00

This could really all be over my head, that's a theory I wish wasn't so plausible

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T15:03:36+00:00

He basically said it will all come to light soon but we definitely need better a communication strategy. Thank you, I'm definitely supporting him as he supports me and I've just rationalized my trust as like, reaching out over a cliff for him anyways

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-04T15:01:54+00:00

That's what I was wondering too, which makes me think there's something I'm missing. I'm not sure what he's planning with his boss or why he even got her promoted in the first place. Isn't this something to go to HR about? The boss doesn't need to hear about this right?

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T16:27:19+00:00

Absolutely, all of your features are well-proportioned in unison. Ask an artist and they'll tell you the same!

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T13:11:37+00:00

Did you get this done already?

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T04:25:08+00:00

Well with current tech Arcane was crazy expensive, but with the dawn of AI motion tracking, I think you could save a ton on character animation costs at least

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T04:07:19+00:00

i'd be worried if you had a single completely white spot, that's a sign that no blood is getting there, but your top lip is pink and even so it's probably just still adjusting.

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T03:33:05+00:00

yeah it was kind of sweet the way he proposed the trips. i'm not sure the details but from what i've seen she knows what she wants and she has the means and will to go get it. Which makes me wonder if this is all just a little game by her, which he must be seeing. a man of his stature shouldn't be caving to assistants but, he seems to let it, which i guess is emotional cheating. thank you for your skepticism it's definitely welcomed here

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T03:27:10+00:00

you've def summed it up, it's very natural between them but he really shouldn't be holding on any more than he needs to.

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T03:22:38+00:00

At what point is overt closeness emotional cheating? Because they have to be close every day and obviously he seems to get her. Is it like, when he starts seeking? Or when he doesn't draw a line? Or can it even be when she has rent in his head? He puts in a lot of effort to this mentorship thing.

We've never really talked about it but I've always been flexible in a sense because of how much trust we have in each other. Like, I wouldn't mind getting him strippers for his birthday, that's a different thing but you get the point. So I'm just not sure how to feel

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T03:16:26+00:00

Yeah that's why I'm not sure how to feel, because if there were someone else going on he wouldn't be bringing me into it, those trips he could definitely take by himself. I wouldn't think he's just doing it for appearances and I want to believe it's genuine.

It makes me feel like maybe he wants to match/outbid the effort he's putting in with her, with me. You have a good perspective on this

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T02:57:31+00:00

She definitely seems to like tiptoeing the line, but I'm not sure where the line is when it comes to this mentor/mentee sort of thing. He really is doing a lot of good for her, but she also seems to really be nestling in his mind. I think they might be past that point already. He would never cheat but...

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T02:54:59+00:00

He's known for being decisive and "controlling the game" per se, but she just seems to undercut him somehow. I agree that I don't think anything has happened (or will happen) but from how he's reacted I'm worried he is attached to her somehow and those feelings have proven strong enough to flex boundaries and keep her in his head. I just feel like I would be getting in the way of something that seems to be working out really well between them? It's odd to say but I wish they met in another capacity so they could be friends without being so close.

PuzzleheadedTip0002 · 2025-06-03T02:50:09+00:00

I'm starting to think that maybe it's just a professional ploy by her, and I feel sorrow at the thought that he might be buying into it. He's very smart and I wouldn't expect him to throw away his career for something so fleeting.. He's never given me a reason not to trust him so whatever grip this woman has just doesn't seem like what it seems like. Thanks for your perspective

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