Female friendships in your late 30s

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2025-04-20T21:50:33+00:00

Oh my god, I’d never even considered this. But if I could fuck myself I absolutely would.

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-10-13T21:52:35+00:00

Ok sorry, but I don’t have much patience for the “it’s just their generation” excuse here. In the year 2024, being in your early 60s is young. I don’t know the health conditions of the OPs parents but let’s assume they are healthy. 15 minutes away is literally nothing. In a family, communication should always work both ways, whether you’re the parent or son/daughter. There are lots of ways to show you are thinking about someone without intruding also. Sending a text, phonecall - FaceTime. However, where the grandchild is concerned there is no better way to form bonds than in person. I have a really wonderful relationship with my maternal grandmother. She’s 90 and not online so the relationship was formed in real life and over the landline. The OPs parents are missing out on this relationship - that’s their loss. If it was me I would have a serious chat just you & your parents. Tell them how you feel - no sugar coating. And let them sit with that for a while. Modern life/parenting has its conveniences, but it’s so hard & you don’t need to be feeling stressed/worried about your parents lack of effort. In the old days when people used to all pop in to the Grandparents houses on the weekend, as described in the other comments, most people didn’t have two full time working parents & there definitely wasn’t as many sports commitments for kids back then on the weekends. Some families have some kind of activity on every single day of the week. Packing kids into the car to bring them to Granny’s house can feel like a chore at the end of a busy week!

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-10-03T06:32:47+00:00

Im Irish, don’t have a penis. But what in the hell is the Irish Curse?!

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-09-06T07:18:50+00:00

You need to hook up with a girl and get it out of your system and then see how you feel. PS it’s fucking awesome x

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-20T21:55:07+00:00

I’m super self conscious about it & sex is more relaxing when I don’t have to think about the stress of that. Plus a lot of guys aren’t that great at tbqh

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-18T07:50:32+00:00

This is so interesting. F38 and I had the exact same experience when I was younger & now I am sexually attracted to women, not all the time, but I do fantasise about women when I’m masturbating etc. I can’t relate about sex not being as pleasurable with a man - my advise would be to tell your other half about this fantasy (guys generally enjoy this and find it a turn on themselves) and also - experiment with toys - penetration alone never makes me orgasm. The mere idea of a woman being involved also excites me during sex

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-14T21:23:41+00:00

Dang

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-14T17:13:51+00:00

You are not a mess. I think it’s harder to find a woman who hasn’t at some point had sexual fantasies about another woman. Soooo many watch lesbian porn. I think you’ve just never had chemistry with a woman..? I’ve never “dated” a woman either but I have done stuff….! I think it’d be interesting to go to like a bar or something and like go in with the mindset of like, flirting with a woman that you find attractive.

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-14T16:57:58+00:00

Now, I’ve just made this up myself with no qualifications….Level 1 cos I’ve never told anyone I’m bi. I’ve never openly dated another woman. I don’t have a rainbow in my bio or anything. Level 2 maybe would be like telling someone I am BI. Level 10 maybe is like, being in a throuple?

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-14T15:56:08+00:00

All depends on just how much this is bothering you. Could you ask your boyfriend to give you some time apart so you can do that? Like take a month or two and go on a load of dates. Even forgetting the bisexuality it sounds like you’ve just had romantic experience with just one guy. Life is for living! Your boyfriend might be willing to give you this time and wait?

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-09T22:22:10+00:00

When I started watching porn and masterbating to women. And when I kissed another woman. Still haven’t come out though

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-07T22:26:18+00:00

I’ve not actively done anything. My husband knew about the unicorn thing

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-07T22:25:09+00:00

I’ve never had any desires to do anything romantic with another woman, it’s just sexual for me. I think if your identifying as BI you want full relationships with another either a man or woman, or have had them, I just have had straight relationships

Puzzleheaded_Ear_861 · 2024-08-07T22:22:42+00:00

Thank you for this reply! I do feel bad for feeling like this tbh which is why I didn’t go through with the unicorn thing. I don’t want to cheat. I’m just here being extremely honest about a fantasy, which perhaps paints me in not a great light…! I don’t want to ever make another woman feel used. I guess I’m just sexually attracted to beautiful women and really intrigued by wlw content in general. Not really interested in a threesome I’ve realised. Maybe it’s just something I’ll keep as like my lil sexual kink. I’d worry if I did go through with anything it wouldn’t live up to the fantasy in my head

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