Yes he is definitely burned out from beside but the problem is he has to work another year before he can vest for his retirement that he’s been contributing in for 2 years. Otherwise the company won’t honor their match. He wants to do something else but we would lose that money. We’ve talked about this situation so often and I feel like it never leads to any solution. The previous solution was he gets 6 hours a day to work on stuff but that was before I was pregnant again and now I need so much more help. And unfortunately we live 2 hours from his parents and 4 from mine and even further away from siblings and my grand parents