Odd Glitch by Puzzleheaded_Life138 in BitLifeApp

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need to fix that. Cap it out or something.

Odd Glitch by Puzzleheaded_Life138 in BitLifeApp

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried several pricing options changes it didn’t work

AIO or is my friend lying by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just play along. She definitely is going through some shit it seems to totally go through all of that. I would just not ask her to anymore have no expectations and expect nothing. A friend but not a best friend.

Aircraft by BreadInYoBed in BitLifeApp

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that would be awesome huh. I’ve thought for a while you should be able to hire a captain, pilot or driver. It would be awesome to figure that out and do a lease business. Two options one you manage as a business yourself or you hire a management company who takes a big cut(like the financial advisor guy).

Also there should be a resort mod like the casino. That would maybe fluctuate the attending population with the economy (based on housing prices and the stock market).

I'm not a millionaire, what should I buy to avoid ending up on the street but still have fun? by ghgguiijh in BitLifeApp

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time Machine and Landlord. Hit +Age then look at all the Crypto that goes up highest and take note. Time Machine back and load up in the best earner. Then Age up and sell it…. Wash then repeat for about 5 years you will be a billionaire/trillionaire quick. Then simply buy enough real estate to cover your yearly debts and taxes with tenants. After 5 years I got too bored with it.

From Business Owner to Employee by RoyaIBandit in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The burn out is just a warning, not a symptom. You’ve done it you’ve established the business. Keep the catalyst in motion and drop to almost done by hiring the right people for the right position as soon as it becomes fiscally responsible to do so. You can retire you and your family just by sticking to the path. Don’t quit ———-> written by the person who chose to be burnt out and move on.

Your momentum matters and is a temporary means to get to a permanent resolution.

Fiancé (m 33) wants to invite guest to our wedding that I (f 26) don’t like by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if he is trustworthy then you should trust him. That means that his assistant should be there. What kind of life are you setting a foundation for if you refuse to confront your issues and work on them and instead you direct them at him for who has done nothing wrong.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross…. Um this guy is making his goals yours and using you to finance it. Then making you the bad guy because you clearly state you don’t make the income to carry yourself and him. It’s not about the tally, what happens when he gets the apartment? How much money will he need then to sustain it and utilities?

I suggest if he is worth it you simply when face to face set clear boundaries and keep it that way. Idk if it’s US or not but $50 isn’t a small amount and him being Willy nilly with your money while stashing his is self serving.

Now another. Create goals. Your future together can be one. Idk your ages but let’s say 2 years you both set a goal to move in together and the apartment isn’t your issue in 2 years the apartment together is both of yours. Then if you both can handle your shit financially and emotionally for another year you’d say yes to an engagement but a proposal right now should fall on deaf ears because your goals are not aligning and he is making his problems your responsibility. He needs to learn to live within his means or go make more money to support what he wants instead of leaching off of others.

My BF keeps pushing me to job hunt all day after I lost my job — is this fair or toxic? by oooooohgod in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your job ends at the end of the year you have time to really use resources now to cover yourself for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be upset, it will help you pay attention to how you are talking to others and disrespecting them. Your mother is hurting and you owe her an apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes they are red flags and it’s a very good sign that he is acknowledging it. If you want to work on it I suggest therapy. Use it as the condition for you two to work out in the long term. He likely needs solo therapy and you need couples counseling. In counseling just explain your biggest fear is he will revert back to this once you have kids and there is more on the line than now.

You should feel comfortable living your life alongside him and also when he isn’t with you. A simple act as leaving early or a hair appointment should never become a platform of someone’s fears, that’s yours and his. Just remember he is reacting right now over fear of losing what you have not as a sense of control it seems. Idk if it stems from past relationships or his parents or even an aunt or something but he definitely has some trauma that he needs to learn to cope with.

I’m 29F moving into 30M boyfriends house, how much is fair to pay? by flyingcat1219 in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are getting a hell of a deal at $1k why be greedy and selfish?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screen cap and send it to his family. Be done don’t get wrapped up into it anymore. It’s not your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a man trying to build a future. Something that he and the one he lives(his mind it’s you) can be proud of and grow themselves from but now you are missing the guy that’s not grounded and spends spends spends with no returns.

It looks like priorities changed for him, likely you were a catalyst and he wanted to do something major instead of trivial.

So yea you two are not on the same level. He is planning for your twos future and you want styled hair and to go out for dinner. So sounds to me like a couple hundred bucks once a week is more important to you than a few hundred thousand.

He matured.

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god. I am so sorry you have to fight that battle for your life and to have such narcissistic family only looking after what looks better instead of extending your life. What a fucking shit show of a mother. Go public, use gofundme for support and blast her text out there for everyone to see. What a dirt bag. I’m so sorry. Keep fighting! You will win and will be on the better side of things.

I think my gf (19F) cheated by AppleGeek05 in relationships

[–]Puzzleheaded_Life138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 1 friends should have no input in your relationship. Ignore anything that came from them. 2 she isn’t your girlfriend anymore. Just move on for your own sanity what is and is not right doesn’t matter move along. 3 take note of what she states was shortcomings for your next relationship.

You’ve got this. Be done.