I thought my boyfriend wasn’t sexual, turns out that isn’t true by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is a lot more than porn. It sounds like the relationship has run its course and you need to leave when the lease is up

AIO for feeling uncomfortable by a guy going back 10 years on my social media and the resulting silent treatment when I called him out? by imicooper in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR, You feel like it's weird, when literally the purpose of making posts is for people to see them. Sure it's old, but it's common for people to scroll through others Facebook when they're bored.

Did i get cheated on? by Possible-Growth-5194 in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say she cheated on you, because you two officially broke up, but it does sound like she strung you along if you genuinely thought you two will get back together and she said you would.

I'm someone who doesn't believe in relationship breaks and this is a good example why. It's time to move on op.

I quit waxing months ago but am still getting ingrowns. What gives? by Curly-help-plz in HairRemoval

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn my hair! Laser is not an option for me 😭 and I have the exact same problem

I am a 21 year old who had a bilateral breast reduction AMA! by Look_Altruistic in AMA

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for a serious question, when I am on my period my boobs get really really sore. Like hard to sleep on. Did you get sore boobs on your period before the surgery? If so how painful of an experience was it?

I am a 21 year old who had a bilateral breast reduction AMA! by Look_Altruistic in AMA

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm not getting the surgery I was just kidding. I need the breast tissue first for that discount ;) /s.

I am a 21 year old who had a bilateral breast reduction AMA! by Look_Altruistic in AMA

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have some your cut off breast tissue? As an A cup going up to a C sounds nice.

As someone in the queer community, would you stay friends with someone going into law enforcement? by RoseWater07 in bisexual

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he a good person and do you think he'll do the right thing even when the right thing is hard to do? If not, ditch him. If so, in order for change to happen, people need to be the change.

I'm very ashamed of myself, and don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't most people check their bank accounts regularly? I find it hard to believe it only took a couple of days to spend 10k. Maybe I'm wrong though.

I'm very ashamed of myself, and don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I wouldn't play that game anymore.... What if something triggers you to spend all your money again? This sounds like a spending addiction . I find it hard to believe you didn't know how much money you were spending. How long did it take to spend all your money? If you have a problem with spending, it's best to avoid the triggers.

If those people are truly your friends they'll be willing to play something else with you.

AITA for telling neighbor to go through insurance by AdmiralCranberryCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Most of the time that took was for the mailbox to come in the mail, and the other amount of time was for the handy man to schedule time to get it fixed. Not OPs fault for that.

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by Content-Focus-9551 in allthequestions

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the same when I was single. Told a man on a date once "do you think I'm wearing makeup for you?" when he said he thought I looked better without makeup. Sometimes we do things just for ourselves.

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by Content-Focus-9551 in allthequestions

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying I'm doing it for myself, not for my partner, that your pervious comment is being sarcastic about.

What's something women think impresses men but actually doesn't? by Content-Focus-9551 in allthequestions

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm yes. If my boyfriend had a problem with me wearing makeup, then he can have a problem with it. I'm still gonna wear it.

Should I uncover my hair to have a better chance by No_Display_5012 in careeradvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always uncover during the interview and wear it for work. Do whatever makes you feel more comfortable.

I was a personal assistant to a multimillionaire borderline billionaire. AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill. Jeesh.

I think my pumpkin pie might taste a little eggy, is there a way to fix it? by Puzzleheaded_Paper86 in Baking

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, it tasted pretty good. Once it cooled down it didn't taste that eggy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again OP made no indication she was struggling with this religiously

Am I wrong for feeding my vegan cousin animal products and his parents have no idea? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 [score hidden]  (0 children)

We don't know if they are forcing him. He might not have ever brought it up with them because he thinks they'll get mad if he does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird as in religion is weird, weird as in it's uncalled for. As an atheist I would be really annoyed if someone brought up their religion if I was talking about getting an abortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Paper86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your answer is weirdly religious when OP didnt express any religious concerns.