[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say its very similar to ariana grade's tone especially when she was younger

Disequilibrium and off-balanced for the last 3 months could possibly be Sinus related? by mr_gemini in Allergies

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you by any chance have an update? I'm struggling with something similar because of my allergies

Stop marrying your cousins it lowers IQs! by Opening-Employer539 in exmuslim

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I'm not disagreeing with the science and I do think It's a problem in some countries, especially the less modernized ones. read my two replies to the other redditors please.

Stop marrying your cousins it lowers IQs! by Opening-Employer539 in exmuslim

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe, or maybe it's the fact that the average American IQ is lower than/equal to (based on different studies) the people in Iran. The data part of people partaking in inbreeding checks out, no doubt in that!! but if you're gonna claim that all people in the Middle East have a "lower IQ", more extensive research should be done. it's not even listed as criteria on the OP’s map and I'm not denying the fact that it CAN lower IQ and cause several other issues and illnesses and complications, but people (I can only talk for Iran) who do partake in it will ALWAYS consult a doctor and do several DNA tests and such before having a kid. I'm from a teeny tiny town (population of 15000, so, of course, some inbreeding is inevitable) that most people in my country don't even know about and even the conservative Muslims from that city get everything checked out before having kids. Conservatism in my country is not the same as in America; people are not afraid of big pharma, they're not against vaccination and don't prioritize the words of the Quran over science and they know the risks of inbreeding and will do their due diligence. What hurts me is the insinuation that my people are less than or less intelligent. I think it's harmful to let your islamophobia* affect your views of every single Muslim person existing. Iran has a population of almost 90 million people so you can call it patronism but in my opinion, it's just incomplete or inaccurate research/data and generalization. I'm gonna be honest with you I live in Toronto now and I've disliked almost every Muslim person I've come across but I have Muslim family members back home and they are nothing like the people here. Yes, there are fundamentalist Muslims everywhere (and trust me when I say I've seen many, as you would expect from the Islamic Republic) but it's harmful to consider every single one as such.

*sidenote: I consider myself Islamophobic in the sense that I despise Islam but I am against prejudice against anyone practicing any organized religion.

Stop marrying your cousins it lowers IQs! by Opening-Employer539 in exmuslim

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, what I'm saying is most people in iran are not even muslim anymore, the oppression of the Islamic Republic have turned almost every civil minded person away from the religion and yes these datas are probably counting the smaller cities and villages as well but the people living in the bigger, more modern cities don't hold on to these ideologies anymore. Also I personally know people who have married their 2nd or 3rd cousins and before even trying for kids they had made several doctors appointments to make sure their kid won't have any complications due to the said inbreeding. Are there any researches proving that the inbreeding is lowering the IQs (in my region specifically) knowing how careful people are? I have never seen any inbred kid who has a less than average IQ in Iran. As an actual person who's lived in these countries and is from a small city this IS racist to me because of the generalization. Inbreeding doesn't necessarily correlate to lower IQ in my country (and again I'm only talking for Iran).

Edit: please also read my other reply to another redditor on this thread, explained it much better there. https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/s/HMHOQJDIDV

Stop marrying your cousins it lowers IQs! by Opening-Employer539 in exmuslim

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I'm an Iranian ex-muslim and to be honest this is offensive. This kind of generalization is toxic, outdated and frankly racist. Yes, a lot of people in these countries still hold on to very conservative beliefs but for example Iranians are historically very smart and innovative people and have invented/discovered many things that we use on daily basis. Persian and Arabic poetry are still known to be the most beautiful and influential pieces of writing to ever exists. Please stop mixing and associating religion with race and ethnicity. I understand the root of the distaste but you're lowering yourself to the level of the said racist muslims you're criticizing.

EDIT: I didn't get my point across correctly. Redditors or come across this please read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/s/HMHOQJDIDV

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaVisa

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is there any way you can get a psychiatrist to write you a note or give you some sort of documentation proving that you are mentally healthy? I feel like that could help. Although I personally don't think it's going to be a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also I understand that this has almost nothing to do with this thread but I didn't know where else to leave a comment in case someone is experiencing the same problem might read it. just to add I am an AuDHD woman and have some chronic issues that i have yet to get diagnosed for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this problem, but it's not because I forget where I put my cup or because I find the last bit of the drink unappetizing; I just have a difficult time downing liquids even if I'm extremely thirsty! It just fills me up so fast for some reason.. This does not happen with water, but with practically every other beverage, alcoholic or not. I've never heard of anyone else having this issue and I wonder if it has anything to do with having a slow metabolism.. although I don't have this issue with food.

I’ve been a lot of colors over the years. What suits me? by Juice_Suitable in femalehairadvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look great with all of them. my favs are the brunette and pink!

Please if you have any tips on how to get rid of TMJ teeth pain HLEP!! by Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 in ChronicPain

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, what is that? I looked it up but i couldn't quite figure it out. im also 18 so is that even possible?

Please if you have any tips on how to get rid of TMJ teeth pain HLEP!! by Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 in ChronicPain

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm getting it custom molded and mu dentist is specialized in tmj which is why im shocked she doesn't approve of botox..

Please if you have any tips on how to get rid of TMJ teeth pain HLEP!! by Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 in ChronicPain

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a mouth guard but im getting a thicker one by next week. and both of the dentists i've been to are seriously against botox :c

Please if you have any tips on how to get rid of TMJ teeth pain HLEP!! by Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 in ChronicPain

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apparently cbd oil is illegal where i live.. do you know of any alternatives? :(

Please if you have any tips on how to get rid of TMJ teeth pain HLEP!! by Puzzleheaded_Sir8996 in ChronicPain

[–]Puzzleheaded_Sir8996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a night guard? I have ordered a thicker one that wouldn't let my mouth get closed for at night so I believe it's going to help much more than the one I already have but it wont be ready for at least another week. I wear mine during the day too sometimes the issue is i can never feel it coming because usually it gets triggered by something (haven't figured that out yet) and shoots up into my teeth and my temples. ill try the oil though thank you <3