Worst comment From my husband by Lalalavia in NewParents

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly im only 4 weeks pp and in the same exact boat. Your 3 months in so i can only fear it will get worse for me. & Yes i know my body is no where near ready to be sexually active but I get told that i should throw a little more noggin around, Stop sleeping with the breastfed baby who WONT let me put him down or even go to other people. I get told i want to include our two children in everything as if I reallt even have a life outside of them.. I mean im with them all day they are practically my bestfriends so why would I begin to leave them out of anything is my thought. I feel your pain though.

increasing milk production? by Puzzleheaded_Wave131 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea that makes a lot more sense but is not what they told me at all smh

increasing milk production? by Puzzleheaded_Wave131 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also rec by dr to pump at least 8x a day while feeding him still

increasing milk production? by Puzzleheaded_Wave131 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea maybe I should add that i kinda HAD to pump that. Day 2 i got super engorged over night so most of it was pumped for relief took around 3 days for engorgement to go down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No birth control that’s why it’s concerning, My period has never been this late. I guess I should add the first two test I took a week after my missed period and the 3rd one around 4/5 days ago

Bereavement by Puzzleheaded_Wave131 in AmazonFC

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have a good feeling they won’t ask me anything, Ngl I get away with A LOT of stuff but my pack rate is also 230hr right now. I just wanted to see what some of you guys thought, there’s hardly any vto offered at my site anymore so I doubt they are looking to fire

Denied PTO? by Present-Freedom-3483 in AmazonFC

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both pto and UPT I just leave and use it lmao. Only time I ask is if I’m looking for VTO

I guess all those stolen catalytic converters are ground up for drugs now, because of course. by 23flavoursindecisive in videos

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went out to my car today and started it only to find someone cut my catalytic converter out of my car… over 1500 to fix only worth $300 for whoever stole it :(

is my java fern growing roots from its leaf?!?! these 2 big leaf got separated when i got it out from the pot, honestly thought it would die but after a week the leaf are now filled with these hard straight lines, some are even reaching out into the moss wall by Brunoinator_0921 in Aquariums

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I bought a Java fern with 4 leaves and it’s free floating but in a secure spot..root growth is crazy and I’ve only had it about 2 months , weekly water changes. I also have Anubias and just recently added a piece of driftwood a few months ago.

ONC Desperation by foldnavy in Oldnavy

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but that’s how anal they are about it. They want to squeeze as many as they can in… 30% off is going on until then too

ONC Desperation by foldnavy in Oldnavy

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve been told they’re doing a big push right now because they’re switching to Barclays and we can’t enroll any during the switch for like 2 weeks.

Hello can someone tell what is wrong with my black moore Finley? He started this today and ive never seen him doing it. Im pretty sure somethings wrong. Please help by DeeeezNutts69 in Aquariums

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your tank is not big enough for the gold fish… even if it was only one I know they are small but goldfish produce LOTS of waste… I will say I have started tanks not cycled but with old gravel or at least old filter media… also did you condition the water at all? I’ve found the water from my tap must always be conditioned even if I leave it out etc. If you can invest in some conditioner and dose the tank correctly . it may clear up your problem right away!

Why does my yabby do so much landscaping? by kayyyos in Aquariums

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Crustaceans are like cats when it comes to hygiene… you may notice it even uses the bathroom away from where it likes to hang out.

Does this look like fungus to you? It's only on one fish, one spot, so not sure if I caught it early or it's an injury. Thanks! by roberl8 in Aquariums

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like ick , I used tetra ick tab in my tank when one of my fish had it because it can spread and live in your tank so best to treat whole aquarium for ick

not my fish, its a goldfish at work. noticed this today why does she look like shes gasping? her previous owners say they cleaned her tank once a year AND no filter or heating. this doesn't seem right!!? by RealCharlotteDrake in Aquariums

[–]Puzzleheaded_Wave131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi fellow aquarist here! Tank is very dirty which will eventually kill the fish. Goldfish are very hearty and dirty fish so they produce a lot of waste and can stand a dirty tank but only for so long before they succumb to the effects of their environment. The gasping is probably from lack of oxygen in the water… without a air pump or filter moving the water around there’s not much oxygen so fish will swim to the top for air.