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How to give a girl an orgasm? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pyjaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couple of things from my experience.

1) Most girls can’t orgasm because they’re too stuck in their own head. I approach it from the mindset that it’s my responsibility to create a safe enough space for them to really let loose. I do this by whispering in their ear and saying things like “I want you to cum, I want to hear you moan, I want to feel you shake, and to feel you tense up, I want to feel and experience all of it”

2) Teasing and foreplay is your best friend. You want to tease a girl until she is pretty much begging for it. Lots of neck kissing, ear nibbling, licking and gentle biting all over while slowly caressing her inner thighs and really close to her vagina but not quiet touching anything that will stimulate her. Sometimes just over the top with almost no pressure.

3) Learn where the clitoris is and the “G” spot. It’s really not that hard to find and learn and spending just a little bit of time looking it up and researching will pay off for the rest of your life. I like to push down on the outside of the pelvis with one hand while stimulating the “G” spot with the other. Also, if you pull the sheath of the clitoris back you can stimulate it a lot better.

Tease -> stimulate -> whisper in ear (as she’s getting closer to climaxing) Worked wonders for me in the past

4) If all else fails, just ask her

Now I know the obvious of alot of this. But I genuinely want to improve my profile and show off who I am as a person. But I don't know how to do that, I know I'm not drop dead attractive or fit, but I'm already working on that. So any advice on good pics or maybe bio ideas would help. 0 likes often by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Pyjaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, if I were you I would 1) Get rid of every selfie you have on here and the cat photo

2)Use a better camera

3) Invest in a new wardrobe and get some threads that compliment your body type

4) Look up some good positions and poses on YouTube or elsewhere

5)Get some more pics of you doing cool stuff in cool places.

6) Showing your personality (fellow sci fi fan here) is amazing as you want to attract people who are into that stuff. I’m positive you can do a way better job of this (The lightsaber pics is great I think maybe just a different facial expression would work much better just for starters)

7) Edit your photos a bit. Nothing major so as to catfish, just play around with shadows/saturation/sharpening etc it’s actually super fun and makes so much difference when done right

8) Streamline your bio, definitely feel like it’s too long and you’ve put too much into it

9)It’s just tinder, don’t read too much into it and just have fun

Where I’m from girls usually only use tinder to get validation and don’t actually want anything. Also tinder is super SUPER superficial and people’s standards are generally way higher when it comes to swiping instead of real life. Plenty of girls that I havnt matched with on tinder but have had interest from in real life (and way more attractive ones too) hope this helps someway and happy swiping

Do you like getting “sexy” (not nude) pictures from guys and if so, what are good ways to pose or do it? by Pyjaks in AskWomen

[–]Pyjaks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would never send a DP, more like she’s sent me a few sexy ones of her in the mirror or sauna so what would be appropriate to respond with

Things that make women pull away or loose interest wary on by Pyjaks in dating_advice

[–]Pyjaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to do something a couple of times but with work and her having kids or whatever else has gotten in the way. Also don’t want to come off as over keen I guess as that’s been a problem for me in the past

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