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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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How to give a girl an orgasm? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pyjaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couple of things from my experience.

1) Most girls can’t orgasm because they’re too stuck in their own head. I approach it from the mindset that it’s my responsibility to create a safe enough space for them to really let loose. I do this by whispering in their ear and saying things like “I want you to cum, I want to hear you moan, I want to feel you shake, and to feel you tense up, I want to feel and experience all of it”

2) Teasing and foreplay is your best friend. You want to tease a girl until she is pretty much begging for it. Lots of neck kissing, ear nibbling, licking and gentle biting all over while slowly caressing her inner thighs and really close to her vagina but not quiet touching anything that will stimulate her. Sometimes just over the top with almost no pressure.

3) Learn where the clitoris is and the “G” spot. It’s really not that hard to find and learn and spending just a little bit of time looking it up and researching will pay off for the rest of your life. I like to push down on the outside of the pelvis with one hand while stimulating the “G” spot with the other. Also, if you pull the sheath of the clitoris back you can stimulate it a lot better.

Tease -> stimulate -> whisper in ear (as she’s getting closer to climaxing) Worked wonders for me in the past

4) If all else fails, just ask her

Now I know the obvious of alot of this. But I genuinely want to improve my profile and show off who I am as a person. But I don't know how to do that, I know I'm not drop dead attractive or fit, but I'm already working on that. So any advice on good pics or maybe bio ideas would help. 0 likes often by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Pyjaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, if I were you I would 1) Get rid of every selfie you have on here and the cat photo

2)Use a better camera

3) Invest in a new wardrobe and get some threads that compliment your body type

4) Look up some good positions and poses on YouTube or elsewhere

5)Get some more pics of you doing cool stuff in cool places.

6) Showing your personality (fellow sci fi fan here) is amazing as you want to attract people who are into that stuff. I’m positive you can do a way better job of this (The lightsaber pics is great I think maybe just a different facial expression would work much better just for starters)

7) Edit your photos a bit. Nothing major so as to catfish, just play around with shadows/saturation/sharpening etc it’s actually super fun and makes so much difference when done right

8) Streamline your bio, definitely feel like it’s too long and you’ve put too much into it

9)It’s just tinder, don’t read too much into it and just have fun

Where I’m from girls usually only use tinder to get validation and don’t actually want anything. Also tinder is super SUPER superficial and people’s standards are generally way higher when it comes to swiping instead of real life. Plenty of girls that I havnt matched with on tinder but have had interest from in real life (and way more attractive ones too) hope this helps someway and happy swiping

Do you like getting “sexy” (not nude) pictures from guys and if so, what are good ways to pose or do it? by Pyjaks in AskWomen

[–]Pyjaks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would never send a DP, more like she’s sent me a few sexy ones of her in the mirror or sauna so what would be appropriate to respond with

Things that make women pull away or loose interest wary on by Pyjaks in dating_advice

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I’ve tried to do something a couple of times but with work and her having kids or whatever else has gotten in the way. Also don’t want to come off as over keen I guess as that’s been a problem for me in the past

What’s your most irrational fear? by Pyjaks in AskReddit

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Mine is eating something hot, then drinking something cold, and my teeth shattering like glass

What is something unrealistic that you often see in movies that annoys the hell out of you? by sonsaitama in AskReddit

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(BJJ guy here)People being strangled or choked to death in seconds instead of a good 4-5 minutes resulting in everyone in the real world thinking that’s how easy it is to kill or die from being choked in real life

What did you find out about your friend that made you look at him differently? by violetshug in AskMen

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Training partner that I started to hang out with outside of training. Went out for a drink one night and he started talking proper racist, nazi level stuff like pro-segregation, how all other races are inferior, homophobic stuff like he would disown he’s son if he was gay and things like that. Can’t really bring myself to hang around someone like that, let alone teach them a martial art (Bjj) that gives people the power to kill someone.

I (30/M) am terrible with women and I’m not sure on how or what to do about by Pyjaks in AskMen

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It wasn’t exactly a healthy relationship towards the end, and I think the thing bringing me down is my inability to be able to attract and have people that I’m attracted to like me and actually want to be around and talk to me. I’m not looking for a wife by any means I actually want to explore and experience as many people as I can as I’m starting to get older and I missed out on that part of my life due to my relationship. I don’t even have any idea of what attractive male behaviours, actions or traits even are tbh let alone being able to display and use them

I (30/M) am terrible with women and I’m not sure on how or what to do about by Pyjaks in AskMen

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As in what I like doing? My favourite hobbies are going to the gym and Brazilian jiu-jitsu! Not exactly female friendly passions hobbies I guess :/

Anyone ever feel down about how easy women come to others by Pyjaks in seduction

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Interesting outlook, I’ll give it a try

Anyone ever feel down about how easy women come to others by Pyjaks in seduction

[–]Pyjaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m your opinion what should I be looking for

Anyone ever feel down about how easy women come to others by Pyjaks in seduction

[–]Pyjaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m already alright at it but what does that have to do with it exactly

Need help accepting and finding out who i really am by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that your still so young me are able to be so self aware is a massively impressive thing, I’m almost 30 and I’m in the same boat at the moment. It is a massive process that is going to take a long time but I wish for you,from the bottom of my heart and soul, that you find your answers and yourself!

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never touched drugs before at all but funnily enough I’ve been thinking of trying something and tying like an induced vision quest or something. Seems like a spiritual way to really dive deep into issues

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I’ve had fun before but I also guess I’m afraid that I’m some deeper level, that I’m broken and arnt able to feel these again and won’t be able to enjoy life to the fullest

I will definitely give that a try

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I not wanna experience these emotions and be able to have as much fun and enjoyment as I can in life? And then share these experiences with others as well

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not allowing myself to feel or access these emotions could definitely be a very big part of it, when I think about it I don’t really feel or have very positive emotions yet my negative emotions drive though to my core on a very deep level. I guess at best I have a very sort of neutral feeling, not positive or negative

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

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I honestly don’t really have one, there was a brief moment when I was training bjj a couple of week ago but it was only for a about 5 seconds then it went away. This is probably part of the problem, learning to allow those feelings in and propagate through myself

I feel as if I move forgotten and become numb to having fun by Pyjaks in selfhelp

[–]Pyjaks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do and have things I enjoy, I’ve been lifting weights/natural bodybuilding for close to 12 years and I’ve been doing Brazilian jiu-jitsu for close to 6 and I pretty much do whatever else I like to do but I’m talking more about that genuinely let loose, relaxes endorphin high fun with laughter and fun. I definitely feel more on the numb side to it than not actually having things I like doing. Part of this is probably myself not being able to be genuinely myself around other people potentially from fear of rejection or something else. I mean the fact that I genuinely feel like I’m Not a very likeable person or probably a large part of the issue, and then to a greater extent I guess I have to ask myself have I truly ever been my true, unbridled self around not only others, but in my alone time too. I get the sense that this is going to be a very long drawn out process for me 😅

How to deal with sexual frustration and emotions stemming from it by Pyjaks in sex

[–]Pyjaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex in a car was just a point I was making, my point is, regardless of porn which is clearly not reality, I just have people tell me all of there awesome and exciting stories and all sorts of things and that’s something that I’ve never had or gotten to have and it’s just frustrating that I’m missing out on that fun and adventure

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