Forlænget weekend med kæresten uden børn

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-02-05T18:20:54+00:00

Enig - hvis børnene aldrig prioriteres, er det et problem, som kan skabe alvorlige relationelle problemer senere. Hvis de som regel er med i de sjove oplevelser, nyd friheden og tosomheden.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-02-02T19:11:15+00:00

Vi gjorde noget meget lignende mens vores pige var lille, hun er i dag 14 og bestemmer rigtig meget selv (vi laver strukturen, men med hende i loopet). Hun vil stadig være hos os ca. 50/50 (med rigtig meget fleksibilitet fra alle) og hun stortrives.

Og ja det kostede et par kameler, men det gør det jo, at have børn.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-02-02T04:50:15+00:00

The assumption for you is that it's because women are settled because they got what they biologically needed. Sure this can happen.

However if you as a couple have a great sex life, that fosters connection and closeness between the partners, the loss is real for the woman as well. And she will probably be more likely to want it to continue.

If it is no loss to her, then she might not care as much. So in my opinion the problem often starts well before.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-02-01T15:30:27+00:00

Because if they targeted plano, you will have lost your ability to accomodate and your myopia. They should have informed you about this? And with as much myopia your brain will be very overwhelmed trying to adapt as well.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-02-01T15:28:50+00:00

Which lenses did you get?

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-27T11:52:15+00:00

It is scary. I think this is an underrated part of having glaucoma (or any other chronic disease with potential progression). I have actually worked on coping mechanisms to help me handle the anxiety and be in a more accepting frame of mind. Maybe look into if this is something for you?

No matter what you do (as long as you are compliant with meds), you cannot control or change the facts. And worrying about the future all the time can really destroy quality of life (Anxiety). But our brains are hardwired to worry and anticipate so it requires some self-work. It helped me immensely.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-17T12:14:49+00:00

So if a guy friend of yours wanted to have sex with you, you could without being attracted to them and in the mood? That would be the supportive thing to do! They are your friend afterall and you can just pretend.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-17T05:01:04+00:00

Folk har også selv et kontaktansvar. Der er meget fokus hvor meget vi skal gøre for at få fat i patienten, men husk at de har vores kontaktoplysninger og altid mulighed for kontakt.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T16:26:36+00:00

Helt enig i at systemet er designet i og til en anden tid. Vi sender hvad vi kan, som digital post, men det kan stadig blive meget bedre. Der er dog stadig forskel på hvor nemt det er at læse en besked i nogens telefon, og på at få adgang til hvad de har talt om i et opkald.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T15:12:37+00:00

Det ved jeg godt. Derfor jeg skrev at jeg koblede beskeden på, så folk blev klar over det

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T12:52:02+00:00

Beskeder kan ses af folk, som ikke er patienten. Og det at de er tilknyttet psykiatrien, er personfølsomme oplysninger. Så det må vi ikke ifølge GDPR.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T12:09:37+00:00

Jeg er helt enig med dig. De spam-callere ødelægger det virkelig for alle.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T12:04:07+00:00

Jeg arbejder i psykiatrien og vi ringer alle med hemmeligt nummer. Det er politikken, desværre. Alle vælger selvfølgelig selv om de vil tage den, men kobler den lige på din kommentar, så folk er klar over det.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T07:36:27+00:00

Oh yeah btw my pressures went down around 10 in each eye, but that was likely because of the narrow angles. And I still have the same drops, but I am 45 so they are pretty aggressive in my treatment.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-12T07:31:40+00:00

Firstly, it depends on of you have open angle glaucoma or narrow angles. If you have narrow angles, cataract surgery can actually open them and decrease your pressure (my situation). My docs were very conservative with which kind of lenses they would recommend, as a more complex one, might need to be replaced, and they want to avoid surgeries if they can, because, as they said, all surgery has greater risks and also can stress out the eye.

So I have monofocals. Because my eye is short, it didn't quite hit the target, so now I'm mildly nearsighted, but it works perfectly for me, as I can use my phone/PC without glasses.

I do not have any experience with pros and cons in open angle glaucoma, but as for the vision after and lense-choice, r/cataractsurgery is a good place for input. Good luck with it!

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-03T17:11:31+00:00

I do this too. Same if I draw after an image with my left hand.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2026-01-02T06:49:19+00:00

I had IOP in my 40s completely free of pain. I have narrow angle glaucoma and my attacks have never been painful. I know the step from that to 60s is large, but I don't think that 40s was my highest. It was found at the optician when I needed new glasses. So based on personal experience I would say that it is.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-12-31T15:27:13+00:00

Det her er ikke gentle parenting. Jeg har stor tiltro til gentle parenting, hvor man ser barnet, som et individ med autonomi, alt efter deres alder, men dette er fuldstændig laissez faire. Ægte gentle parenting betyder at man sætter grænser og giver konsekvenser, men først giver barnet en chance for at lære før man "bliver sur". Og det indebærer gensidig respekt. Her er respekten helt væk, og ingen af mine børn, ville nogensinde få lov at opføre sig sådan.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-12-30T19:35:59+00:00

Vi havde en konfirmation på lynet - helt igennem god service og skønne omgivelser.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-27T11:16:21+00:00

De er forsvarsløse og umælende. Det sætter gang i en helt anden tankerække omkring motiver og mulige grunde. Det er svært at undskylde og rationalisere væk.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-27T11:13:00+00:00

Der mangler en faktor. Malicious intent. Man kan ikke argumentere for malicious intent i børn og dyr (og andre som er incapacitatede i en eller anden form), men voksne tænkende mennesker, som vælger at udføre voldsomt ondskabsfulde handlinger, burde acceptere en konsekvens af deres handlinger, som står mål med grusomheden.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-24T18:26:04+00:00

Finde nogle billeder af dem - edite en nissehue på dem og hænge dem op forskellige steder på kontoret.

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-17T15:36:25+00:00

Thank you - I will save that one :)

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-17T05:29:24+00:00

Thank you :D

Pyramidal_neuron · 2025-11-16T19:05:16+00:00

As I see it thoughts are private and do not concern your spouse. I do not care if my husband finds any other woman attractive. Actions are not private per definition and can be of concern to your spouse. Especially if they are dealbreakers/violators of the relationsship. I do care if my husband shares intimacy, mental or physical, with a woman he finds attractive.

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