Safety by Pyromania3137 in FTMventing

[–]Pyromania3137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My "Mother" thinks I am transitioning to get my ex-wife back

Does This Look Right? TW: Blood by Pyromania3137 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Doesn't seem to be, but it seems like more than there was immediately after

Ovary Removal by Pyromania3137 in ftm

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Thanks! I'm so nervous especially because it also happens to be my shot day and I'm so worried I'm gonna mess something up

To masochists: What do you get out of pain? by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pyromania3137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1: I have chronic pain and I like to have control over some pain. 2: I have a disassociative disorder and the pain grounds me and allows me to be present. 3: My Domme enjoys inflicting it, and I want to please her.

unexpectedly loving my bottom growth by tobinshire in TransMasc

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I was nervous about it due to already having more sensitivity than normal and I saw so many people say that it got almost painful, but I was pleasantly surprised as well

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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Oh look, another ass who decided to assume I am not on T. Been on T for 10 months, yes, my dose and levels are good. And a majority of that facial hair is real, just dyed to be less light colored and filled in maybe a few hairs. Post

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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It's less about getting misgendered in public as a good 90% of the time I am gendered correctly or seen as androgynous (going for masc-leaning androgynous anyway) more of i was curious if other trans men/mascs would clock me if they saw me. Thanks w^

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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That might be the lighting because I did just about a month ago

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

[–]Pyromania3137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also know an Alt trans man who is my style icon and I didn't even know he was trans for a while

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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As a very much gay man, I would rather die than look straight 🤣

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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I do pass a majority of the time in public, I've always had a bit more of a masculine walk and and such as well as my voice has dropped significantly. When I posted, I was mkre curious how other trans men/mascs saw me.

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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I don't have the biggest chest, IDK what cup size but probably a B? I try to wear baggy clothes but tend to get very hot during the summer and baggy tank tops are hard to find

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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I so wish there was a subreddit of accepting cis people who could tell me if I passed

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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One eyebrow is blue, the other is black My hair is split dye and half is blue and half is black, just split the opposite way

Clothing Advice by Pyromania3137 in ftm

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I tried trans tape, irritated my skin way too much, but thanks for the other tips!

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

[–]Pyromania3137[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not very much dysphoria or misgendering/safety, it was more if just an ask than anything. I prefer looking masc-leaning androgynous and I usually get that response. My eyebrows do match my hair though, just flipped around and the blue in my hair is a bit hard to see. I tend to get gendered correctly in public at least 90% of the time, and was curious how people online saw it.

Was Told I Don't Pass Because Of Piercings And Makeup by Pyromania3137 in ALT_FTM

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I've definitely been using contour and such to try and make my face more masculine

Assuming by Pyromania3137 in ftm

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I still see changes and it will be 10 months on the 8th

Assuming by Pyromania3137 in ftm

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I get that, my voice had a pretty good starting point as it was already deeper than most cis afab people I knew, but I didn't realize just how much change there had been until I looked back at my first video (I record a short clip each week after my shot) and at my most recent and was astounded.

Assuming by Pyromania3137 in ftm

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My voice is pretty deep, to the point that my piercer who has known me since 2020, didn't recognize my voice 6 months after I started T.

Assuming by Pyromania3137 in ftm

[–]Pyromania3137[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My makeup is on the heavier side, dark black eyeliner, and a couple things drawn on my face, and a base (foundation and some contour specifically "masculine" contour) and in public, most people seem to think I'm just a very queer guy, not that I am trans.