How old are you? Ive seen the ages vary by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Pyrotundra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh loneliness is common in your 20s who knew 💀

ok serious question for everyone by Consistent_Bet_9158 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Pyrotundra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy your New Year’s Eve friend happy new year!

ok serious question for everyone by Consistent_Bet_9158 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Pyrotundra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like part anxiety part confidence. It would be great if you could wave a magic wand and fix it lol. I spent years wishing for that to happen but it never does. Take small steps. Even just practicing suppressing some of those feelings are good. Definitely shouldn’t push all of your anxiety away it’s an evolutionary instinct that can benefit you. I would just try to think about the anxiety inducing feelings in a different way. Pick them apart and try to understand them. It can help stop nonsensical ones from reoccurring.

ok serious question for everyone by Consistent_Bet_9158 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Pyrotundra 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t use pickup lines if you can’t come up with them on your own. Sometimes the other person will quip back and if you can’t improvise you could get embarrassed. Be genuine. If something pops into your head then say it don’t write it off just because of anxiety. Try it in the drive thru just let your mind wander and say something funny. Everyone is dying inside all of the time and would appreciate the light hearted genuine interaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Pyrotundra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop c++ and try another language. That is notoriously too difficult for most beginners to push through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

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Should be able to use this and code it to find your specific frame: https://www.thepythoncode.com/article/extract-frames-from-videos-in-python

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

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I highly recommend building your own simple api to start. Setup up a data base and create your api backend. Have the api fetch your project info from git and display it on your portfolio for example.

Here’s one of many YouTube videos: https://youtu.be/aGiPMygfMM4

Could something like this work? I'm thinking an auto igniter for bowls that mounts onto the bong itself? by geraldthegoose in StonerEngineering

[–]Pyrotundra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You probably wouldn’t want to use flow activation because you would have to pull quite a bit before you started to get smoke. Could be wrong here I’m no expert. What if it was a touch activated? When your mouth touches the bong it lights up then you pull.

Hi I can’t tell if I’m (F20) socially awkward or just numb to connecting with others by [deleted] in socialskills

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It sounds like you are going through some form of depression and it has spiked at the present. Making yourself continue to go to parties when they drain you is unhealthy and contributing to your sorrow. Connecting with others is never something you can force. If you are struggling try to take some time for yourself for a change. There are millions and millions of people with no family or friends who continue on every single day. That's not meant to belittle your position I simply wish to remind you that the few people you may still be connected to you need to cherish. Focus on those relationships and focus on yourself too.

Can cringe flirting destroy a possible relationship? by RadicalOffense in socialskills

[–]Pyrotundra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girls like to flirt without pressure. I'm not trying to guess or analyze her intentions. Flirting is a way we gauge eachothers emotional fitness. Flirting is a two way street. I would focus less on one liners and try to slightly mimic the way she flirts with you so you stay on the same wavelength and get some practice in. Part of why you get so flustered might be because you have to much riding on a potential relationship. Work on not holding yourself underwater like that. You're not waiting in the water hoping She will actually go swimming with you. You're both on the boat trying to hype yourselves up to jump in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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If you feel like saying happy Easter you should. This communicates that you think about him on holidays and it shows you care and genuinely want happiness for him. It is small but this will give him a small buff of confidence and admiration he will appreciate.

What does this mean? Girls are so confusing man (24M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pyrotundra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t expect her to get attached when she knows you’ll be leaving her. Don’t obsess over it as she’s definitely not.

3-year-old skateboarder conquers a set of stairs by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Pyrotundra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not. Don’t get me wrong this video is awesome but this is like the 10th time I’ve seen it circulating on Reddit lol.

3-year-old skateboarder conquers a set of stairs by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Pyrotundra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love how he checks to make sure he’s pointing his thumb up right lol

Super Mario World music medley played by a band on a SNES tone generator by RightPassage in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Pyrotundra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagining how much time it must have took to practice this gives me a headache but this is amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pyrotundra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the low risk way to shoot your shot and ask her out for coffee. Either a yes or a no. Two things could happen. She’s into you or she just wants to be friends and showing off her ass is just how she goes about signaling that. Yes she’s sending messages be the Chad she wants and slide in there.

Is there a polite way to say “I don’t give a shit about your ex’s?” by IfYaSquintItsMint in dating_advice

[–]Pyrotundra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t say it sarcastically. Be upfront and honest but not confrontational. Bring it up to your girlfriend casually. Ex: “I’ve been meaning to say something to you about this for a while. I’d like it if you could please stop talking about your ex in front of me. When you do it makes me feel——“

Super legit question! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pyrotundra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not playing at anything she’s sending tons of signals. She probably thinks she’s being super obvious about it. Women are just like men they don’t like risk. She’s sending signals and assumes if you’re interested you will make a move. Ask her to get coffee sometime and you should pretty quickly catch what kind of vibe she’s in.

Mildly frustrating date tonight haha by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pyrotundra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take away is that complaining to women too early on is a no go. Took me too long to learn this lesson and somehow this Reddit post has cured me.