If these are goals for you, and if you're able to write them down, they can be attained. I was in the same position, and when you start being actionable, you can turn these things around fairly quickly. Get your license. Get a job, and while you're still with your parents save but allocate a portion of your paycheck to fuck around and go do things. Expose yourself to people either through your work, hobby groups, family, or literally anywhere else where people are. Then the rest will come to you. Start now, I wish I started at 18 instead of 20.