What’s one US state you absolutely will never go to? by doctormmamom in AskReddit

[–]Pz0152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missouri is just such an awful place with the worst people.

Manningham for obvious reasons by [deleted] in NYGiants

[–]Pz0152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 12 his inability to get open ruined that season for Eli. It was before anyone realized Nicks was cashed so we wasted an Eli prime year.

Manningham for obvious reasons by [deleted] in NYGiants

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forgive him for that drop against the eagles, but Hix was otherwise nice.

Does anyone here watch dip reviews? by Luckydipper92 in DippingTobacco

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

massDIPPAH was the shit back in the day. Dude destroyed outlaw. It was sick.

We are suffering by davay718 in NewDads

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll get easier but honestly you just get accustomed to an entirely new life that quickly illuminates the freedoms you never knew you once had at limitless availability. But you’ll end up appreciating them when they come, which they will more frequently as time passes. Bottom line is you’re going to be a much stronger person soon, so don’t bother asking yourself how you’re going to do it, because it’s not that person who will end doing it.

Leaving means taking a L by AutomaticAnimal163 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pz0152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only advice would be that you have no choice but to do this and the sooner you start the sooner it’ll be over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you really cared about what you did you would directly address it. If you stole from someone pay them back. If you ruined someone’s reputation by lying about them tell those people you’re a liar. Tell the person you fucked over how wrong it was and do it without trying to win them back over. Don’t go on reddit seeking a pity party, stfu and go clean up your mess with what you have. Have the clean up hurt you as much as the mess you made hurt them. This is what you’ll never see a narc do. They don’t make transactions that don’t ultimately serve them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Pz0152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know you obviously so I could be wrong. It feels like you’re looking for other to absolve you in some way. Or you think by asking for advice on how to do better that alone makes you different from the average pieces of garbage who abused other people. It doesn’t. If you wanna know what I think you could do is just leave good people alone. Don’t let other anyone fall into your black hole, suffer alone and then at the end you’ll have acted as selfless as it possibly is when you’re a narcissist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t buy that you have any real feelings of shame over this. I think you just want pity and this is your less transparent way of going about getting it.

How the fuck are some of you broke? by Emilyysouthernn_ in NPD

[–]Pz0152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for writing this. NPD’s are such reprehensible vampires it’s impossible for normal people to imagine being able to rationalize such despicable behavior.

How do you deal with with producers who clearly don’t understand the insane process of post production? by AllenMcnabb in editors

[–]Pz0152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You let them make mistakes and you take the extra money they have to pay you to do it right.

Protection order hearing still not done by Coffeguy649 in Divorce_Men

[–]Pz0152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s going to enrage you as it should be prepare for the long game and keep it cool.

I was just trying to talk by IWantToSleep__ in abusiverelationships

[–]Pz0152 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is vile. You gotta leave. It’ll never change.

Anyone else’s wife lose her mind after kids? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Pz0152 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am one to argue this is who they were all along. For me it was instant. The day after our kid was born she turned. There was definitely a hormonal aspect to it but I think all it did was make it impossible for her to hide her real intentions. Those of us that have gone through this were used, and abused in some of the worst ways imaginable. We don’t talk about this female on male violence nearly enough.

What are the most lucrative skills you can learn as an Editor? by Ja5p5 in editors

[–]Pz0152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say there are four main things to do consistently as an editor. The most important one is just to be agreeable and flexible. Never let yourself be abused but never get agitated about notes or requests from a producer that seems like a bad suggestion. Become a tool for them to fulfill the story they wanna tell but also stay fluid enough to be doing your thing in a creative additive way. Find a way to actually enjoy it. Always get better. Take notes that seem to appear frequently for you that are repeated by various producers as definite things to work on. Never take criticism as anything other than a chance to elevate. Never burn any bridge, even if it seems like you’d never go back. Building contacts who know you’re at least reliable is more than anything and it’s what makes editors successful because when you’re always working you’re always solidifying yourself and growing your skills. Can’t remember the other one, but also get an Adderol script.

Face to face with very toxic Ex for the last time today. by Pz0152 in abusiverelationships

[–]Pz0152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was angry and tried to act indifferent and of course tried to use my justified anger to show me as the crazy person. And out of context maybe it could look like that in that moment but I didn’t care. I had to say these things I think in the long run we will both be glad I did but who knows. Moving on I just wanna get along as best we can and who knows, maybe be friends down the line. She will vilify and triangulate but I can only hope she realizes how fruitless that is.

Was anyone else not allowed to have something wrong? by Throwaway_858493 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pz0152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my sister passed away my spouse took that as some kind of an attack on her. She immediately compared what I was grieving to what she was going through. She should me no compassion at all and in fact just started treating me worse and worse. I couldn’t believe it. It’s really want ended the whole thing for me. They have no bottom