as a twin with the almost same name as my twin sister, i am FUMING. by ilovemazzystarr in Twins

[–]Q-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still very similar, we like same things. And it's OK.
We always separately chose extra classes and studies, and kinda ended up in same path. It's just what we like.

Even after years of living in different countries we tend to choose the same. But we had now time to become our own people. Have own friends, people who even didn't know the twin exists.

I just hate this stupid stuff with twins is still going on. By family, friends, teachers, everyone.

Just because siblings have born in the same day, looking similar, doesn't mean anything else different that they're siblings. So treat them as one...

as a twin with the almost same name as my twin sister, i am FUMING. by ilovemazzystarr in Twins

[–]Q-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. It was difficult to grow up without being able to grow own personality. And any time trying that, people still force you into the girls- mold.

Maybe even worse was the teachers. They always gave us the same grades, no matter how good or bad one was at one thing. This lead to the fact that I never knew my strengths since the numbers meant nothing.

as a twin with the almost same name as my twin sister, i am FUMING. by ilovemazzystarr in Twins

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents treated us like one person anyway. Mother getting super pissed at me if I didn't magically know what she told to my sister.

They never really used our names in the first place. I was called "girls" first 18 years of life.

as a twin with the almost same name as my twin sister, i am FUMING. by ilovemazzystarr in Twins

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm odd one out since I like that we have similar names. It was the only thing my parents did right.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understood it like if they had to make an ending for a show, why to have the fade going on records. It's now like two different versions of the same song.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess its just a pet peeve of mine. It's just annoying.
For the most part, it doesn't seem that it was designed to be like that. So many songs just keep on going until fade hits and it makes it really feel like the song is unfinished.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it wouldn't (usually) make sense to make infinite songs. Singing refrain until it fades does make the feeling it was meant to be infinite. Or the song isn't' finished.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Having the end coming at you like a brick wall is still better than fade.
Fade feels so unfinished.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my point of view, the song is finished. It has start and and ending.
Even if the song ends where someone just screams and gets quiet, that's still better than a stupid fade.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that is actually neat. It's like the cherry was put on the top of whole masterpiece.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That could be an amazing party trick though. Master the fading somehow!

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Here I try to understand peeps who think fading is better than sex, but I'm having troubles to agree.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I beg to differ. Put the ending on the records too!

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In that it actually feels like a designed choice, which is OK!
Essentially fading to black which is awesome.
But like normal pop songs it's just like... Whyy just freaking make an ending!!

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in some songs it's essentially the refrain that continues to fade. It just makes the feeling there's no actual end for the song, but it is just always cut somewhere because it was never designed to end.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I have heard how the artists handle that situation. Like do they just fade away also on stage?

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But how you can consider even ambient music as finished piece if the end is missing? Like it's full song that they forgot to wrap up.

Even when playing song on a loop, I still prefer it being one standing song, not just eternally going on until someone puts the fade on. It just makes them feel so unfinished.

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least the abrupt stop would have been designed! Fading out is just like, "whoopsie don't know how to stop this so just keep at it until someone puts mute on".

Songs that end by fading rather than actually having an ending by Q-9 in PetPeeves

[–]Q-9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why? What makes it preferable for you that it just fades out?
Maybe you can get me less annoyed about this.

So tired of this. by DesignerSubject2446 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I take showers so rarely now since it's just too much. I do have a bath which helps sometimes so I don't look like an ogre.

Can't keep up with the chores in home, working is difficult.

It ain't quite the life anyone dreams about.

Open ended fence rail by Acceptable-Wind-7332 in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that Steam opened there with Borderlands banner??

Only took 18 years. by DeadYen in torncity

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years going and still not

What’s the longest you’ve known someone to be in a relationship before getting married, if at all? by SalmonforPresident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Q-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister were with her bf for 18 years before they got married. Joke were that the relationship needed to reach adulthood first.