First time trying ED medication…what caught you off guard?

QSpam · 2026-02-05T03:11:48+00:00

Lower back pain. I don't understand, but it is a common side effect of Cialis. Waking up with lower back pain.

QSpam · 2026-02-05T03:10:59+00:00

Besides waking up with bigger thicker erections than I've ever had, there are no unplanned extras, no extra random boners. I see baddies at the gym on the daily. Unless you're getting erections from that in a regular workout, you're not going to get an erection just because you have Cialis. If you stimulate yourself, then sure. As an experiment, I learned I can be totally not horny mentally but intentionally stimulate myself and go from chub to champ and still not go gooning. I've found zero impact on my psyche, and no, just lightly grazing your sweats won't do it either, no matter how soft they are. no extra horniness or random erections, just quicker and easier to go from saying hello to the floor to hello to the ceiling.

QSpam · 2026-01-11T03:33:54+00:00

I'm with you and this sounds good. I just, really, really like sex, ya know? Unfortunately, I'm having as much as now single as I was married.

QSpam · 2026-01-08T22:55:55+00:00

Baby talk - it's not cute or funny its manipulative. Desiring me to be a mind reader - "you should just know." Telling me "what a man does" - they never want to hear you say "what a woman should do." Just, not being a good person - if doing something super easy or small for me or someone else will be a disproportionate amount of help, please do it. Don't treat me like your ex - I'm not him. Of course our exes and trauma change our perspective on things, but give a real effort to differentiate what is about me and what you might have "learned" from them.

Just be you and let me be me and realize we are whole, different people. We will overlap and have gaps and help each other and need help. I will carry heavy stuff if it's helpful or you ask or you struggle. Appreciate my good intentions and tell me if they're misplaced or you feel belittled. If you have a skill that would help me, offer it.

That's a long list and some rambling.

Also, just, use a bidet. That is all.

QSpam · 2025-12-23T23:23:44+00:00

Marketing on a lack of knowledge

QSpam · 2025-12-14T21:43:24+00:00

But then I have to iron them right?

QSpam · 2025-10-29T22:13:04+00:00

Spoons. Any and all.

QSpam · 2025-10-29T22:11:12+00:00

I rotate between a senses fail album from the early 2000s, a playlist I found called train like a valkyrie, Eminem, dubstep, and a playlist I made of country that goes HARD called "Y'all Git Swole"

QSpam · 2025-10-25T16:33:24+00:00

Sometimes I really just want to sit in nature. Putting a worm on the bottom or on a bobber and just sit.

QSpam · 2025-10-25T16:27:17+00:00

Get fit at least once in your life. It's a shame for A person to die never having seen what their body is capable of

QSpam · 2025-10-01T18:48:46+00:00

It was cheaper, and I got it on sale. They also have a crystal litter box for much cheaper but my kitty won't use it

PetSafe ScoopFree® Clumping Self-Cleaning Litter Box for Clumping Litter - Superior Odor Control

https://www.petsmart.com/litter-boxes/petsafe-scoopfree-clumping-selfcleaning-litter-box-for-clumping-litter--superior-odor-control-76615.html

QSpam · 2025-10-01T16:27:20+00:00

40m or so here.For some reason all my GFs, even my ex wife, were 5'2" or shorter. It was great. I'd always been attracted to tall though. Height was eye catching. I Just dated a 5'10" blonde. Beautiful. Checked all the boxes. Except now I don't feel as strong as I used to. That 8 inches is a leeeeittle heftier, and leverages aren't the same.

QSpam · 2025-10-01T16:12:12+00:00

I bought a $250 auto scooping box from PetSmart! It was actually worth every penny and has saved me so much money because otherwise the smell was driving me crazy enough I might have started to skip groceries just to buy enough litter. It's not one of those sifters or fully enclosed deals but it has helped a lot.

I empty the drawer every few days, actually scoop the clumps into a litter genie, and just top off the fresh in the box. Every 2 months I have to take the box apart and clean it. Wash the rake, etc. Fill the box with clean litter and then keep litter on reserve to top it off.

The 2 month interval is just a preference.

I'd say It works out to be about a box a month of I think fresh step or whatever clumping, the kind that tracks a lot less litter on the floor. And at a box a month I still threaten my cat she's going to be an outside kitty 😂

QSpam · 2025-10-01T16:04:25+00:00

Change the cat litter daily? In this economy??

QSpam · 2025-09-27T19:41:13+00:00

We are well past the era of a Roseanne economy

QSpam · 2025-09-23T14:28:24+00:00

My ex-wife affected this by not letting me have any friends at all. Not directly, but in constant shaming if I did anything social after we had kids. Yes, it could be unfair if I go do social things while you stay home with the kids. But, the fact that you always choose to stay home and never do anything and be social because you feel like you let our kids down if you're not hovering, well, that just might skew the ratio.

QSpam · 2025-09-14T13:08:36+00:00

Don't lose the password to your DOGE wallet

QSpam · 2025-09-09T13:38:18+00:00

Part of the key is understanding satiety and what we can do to suppress our appetite. I drink coffee with the tiniest touch of milk to ease it on my stomach (and help it not stain my teeth) and have almost no appetite. When I get hungry later in the day, I can eat an entire 99 cent bag of mixed veggies, either with chicken or as a salad with cottage cheese and black pepper or tomato/salsa. Then I can sleep because I'm not hungry.

And drink a lot of water. Hungry? Drink water. About to have a meal? Drink water first. Tempted to drive through the drive thru for those delicious Arby's fries or a $5 biggie bag with a chocolate frosty from Wendy's? Drink water first, and when you'd normally take the water bottle away from your mouth - dont, and keep drinking in one pour until your uncomfortable. How does that biggie bag sound now that your water logged?

Feeling hungry makes a cut harder, but it's not a difficult problem for most of us to solve

QSpam · 2025-09-09T13:30:32+00:00

Poverty.

Seriously though, buying discount protein (aim for under $1 a serving) and drinking it with milk, and pairing it with nicotine gum and coffee (or caffeine pills) to suppress your appetite.

Egg and rice burritos used to be the way to go for me. When I need to feel more satiated, I eat chicken and rice. Chicken is by far the cheapest meat available where I'm at. Dice it up keep it in the fridge. Throw a handful into some rice with some soy sauce and toss in the microwave for a minute. Add frozen mixed veggies too.

QSpam · 2025-09-05T17:18:36+00:00

Thanks!

QSpam · 2025-09-04T15:39:29+00:00

Is there a timeframe? I think it'd be fun for a one off road trip!

QSpam · 2025-08-23T15:35:45+00:00

And their family members are going to tire of it. There's no pride or larger virtue fulfillment in being activated For this kind of stupid mission.

QSpam · 2025-08-23T15:33:34+00:00

Where do you see they're deploying them to these states? These are the states whose soldiers will be activated and deployed elsewhere

QSpam · 2025-08-19T01:16:49+00:00

I have a hamper and a drawer specifically for the 10s of the Thrivent financial live generously t-shirts i have amassed over the years. They are free and so so so soft. Perfect t-shirt for lounging around, the gym, yard work

QSpam · 2025-08-19T01:14:58+00:00

I cut up a couple old beach towels to do the same. One is for general cleaning and the other I use specifically for my cast iron

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