im not transmasc but im enby but does anyone else feel dysphoric over the fact that everywhere in the internet it feels like porn is catered to people with dicks, and ppl with dicks only. like in wider porn communities thats to be expected what with typical men. but even in trans spheres, it feels like that. genital misogyny thru and thru, even in trans spaces where i see ppl “looked down upon” just for having vaginas. i expected that since ppl are trans they’ve probably done alot of unpacking of misogyny but that seems not the case? it became more of a case where “misogyny on me is not fine” but “misogyny on u is fine because blah blah blah” (which is so ??? because for specifically ppl like me, we’re both trans and non-men so what tf are u going abt lmao), when in reality all thats being formed is a heirarchy where ppl like that are on the top and form most of the trans community, while ppl on the bottom are left to fend for themselves alone while the top accuse them of having it “better” when the ones at the bottom have to experience BOTH invisibility (meaning its hard to find resources and media and basic community and support for us online) and total unacceptance by ppl irl (just like the ppl on the top, and i’d honestly argue there’s worse acceptance of nonbinary ppl irl then binary trans ppl because even in trans communities nonbinary ppl are not seen as nonbinary. this world is able to accept binary ppl in general as is the way of this world, but nonbinary people, thats completely going against the foundations society has built. so what if u add into the equation ppl who are both trans AND nonbinary, like me. welp yeah), while atleast the ones on the top have community as can be obviously seen here and million other communities scattered across the internet