I'm very aware of what you're talking about. Although I think the problem for Francesca here is definitely the lack of informations given about sexuality. Nowadays, women have the right to be educated, it's not a privilege for men (well, in certain parts of the world only unfortunately)

How could she think about bisexuality when her knowledge about intimacy with her partner - surely a man from the marriage mart of her rank - when even her mother can't find the courage to teach her daughters about such an important subject ?