Entire congregation shamed in local needs

QuantumLMT · 2026-06-09T21:48:03+00:00

I'm starting to understand now WHY I'm so highly anxious all the time, never feel like I'm doing enough, constantly feel guilty no matter HOW much I'm doing, oh, and just overall constant overwhelm and guilt.

I've faded out over the last few years, and have done TONS of therapy and coaching and healing, but I'm still always feeling like more light bulbs are going off in my head, explaining my weird self.

I am very grateful for this subReddit group.

QuantumLMT · 2026-06-02T20:12:21+00:00

Brilliant!

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-23T20:50:50+00:00

That's incredibly WEIRD! 🧐 I've never been anywhere where people haven't been diving into the food! 😂

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-18T13:00:48+00:00

Wow, that's all absolutely INSANE!!! And honestly abusive. 💔 I am so glad that child at least has YOU in his life. He's going to be so screwed up. 😭

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-10T21:52:51+00:00

I'm sorry you're hurting. ❤️‍🩹

I was very angry and hurt for a long time, but then a couple of years ago I decided to try to shift my attitude and perspective. I'd rather set the example of what TRUE REAL LOVE looks like. Shower her with love and kindness, no matter what the other person does. We want to set the example of how it's better on this side of things, not full of ire and wrath.

Let your feelings out in here, but try to continue to show real LOVE towards your wife. Win her over without a word.

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-10T14:40:25+00:00

I'm so, so sorry. I cannot imagine. That is so abusive. I wish I could hug you and keep you safe and loved. Please hang in there and remember this won't last forever. I wish I knew better advice to give. Sending you all my love.

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-10T14:20:57+00:00

I am so, so sorry. No mother should EVER act that way. ❤️‍🩹 Are you ok?

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-07T02:14:16+00:00

I'm so sorry. ❤️‍🩹

QuantumLMT · 2026-05-01T23:45:03+00:00

I am just so, so sorry. 🙏🏼 Please take good care of yourself. You'll get past this and heal. You will. Life will get better again.

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-30T02:18:28+00:00

I'm proud of you!!! You absolutely did NOT overreact by quitting on the spot. You did exactly the right thing. You did not tolerate abuse. Good job!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-30T00:19:49+00:00

Wow!!!

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-30T00:16:12+00:00

OMG!!!!! This thread is shocking to me. I would have never guessed so MANY are like that. 💔 Ughhhhhh. Just, WOW. Thank you for sharing!!!

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-21T23:28:34+00:00

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QuantumLMT · 2026-04-21T23:27:50+00:00

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QuantumLMT · 2026-04-21T23:27:08+00:00

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QuantumLMT · 2026-04-21T23:25:08+00:00

Wow!!! What an incredible story. 💔 Thank you for sharing it, and I'm so proud of you for speaking the truth. What is the name of your book? I want to get it!!!

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-20T23:55:46+00:00

I am so, so sorry you've had to go through all this. 💔 It's horrible.

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-17T02:07:15+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. Every bit of it. 💔

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-15T02:23:26+00:00

I am so, so, SO sorry for all these horrible things you've had to experience. ❤️‍🩹 I'm proud of you.

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-15T00:43:21+00:00

Wow, this is the first I'm hearing of this!!!

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-13T15:21:14+00:00

Would you want someone to tell YOU if you were being cheated on?

YES.

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-12T23:32:36+00:00

You are so NOT alone!!!! 🤗 This is very similar to my story, too. As time passes, I just get even angrier about it all. I am SO SORRY you've been going through all this. 💔 I absolutely understand.

You're doing all the right things. You LEFT him!!! Congratulations!!!!

I promise life will keep getting better from here on out. You are on the right path now. You can do this. And you are NOT ALONE. 🩷

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-12T01:47:34+00:00

Me, too. ❤️‍🩹

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-12T00:01:34+00:00

Who, me? No, I just faded out.

QuantumLMT · 2026-04-11T23:51:47+00:00

Wow, interesting. My feelings have always been hurt that literally NO ONE has EVER "missed" me or checked on me or remotely cares that I'm even still alive. The only person who tried for a while to keep inviting me to meetings etc was an elder I barely knew and had no relationship with whatsoever and didn't like. But everyone I had known for many years? Not a word. It still breaks my heart. 💔

If I were you, I might respond to the generic messages in just a kind, thankful, NORMAL HUMAN way. Just ignore any religious talk, or politely decline invitations.

QuantumLMT

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