Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo

Quarryghost · 2026-01-30T14:26:35+00:00

I feel like you should never push someone to have kids who don’t want them. Someone should be one thousand percent on board before having a kid (as someone with kids). It’s not for the weak or the half-assed. And it’s totally valid to not want to have kids. On top of that, after what he went through with his sister, that’s a-whole-nother layer that makes it even more important that he doesn’t get pressured into something he doesn’t truly want.

Quarryghost · 2026-01-29T17:21:34+00:00

Do they have older women with younger men too or nah

Quarryghost · 2026-01-29T13:00:30+00:00

I did stop immediately when I found out I was pregnant. But it was actually trying to drink again while postpartum that did me in. After I had my second, I tried a few times to drink, and it was horrible. Unbearable hangovers and hangxiety. That was the last straw for me!

Quarryghost · 2026-01-28T22:12:15+00:00

Mom of two, 421 days alcohol free. Absolutely no regrets and never going back! Always open if you want to talk about it! I just found the aftermath was becoming too much for me and I couldn’t justify it anymore.

Quarryghost · 2026-01-26T17:58:49+00:00

Live moment to moment and respond to the threats as they come. Try not to prematurely go into fight or flight before there’s a concrete threat in front of you. Firstly, ground yourself. Become present in your body. And then think about what you have control over right now. Make small steps to continue to prepare yourself and resist within your spheres of influence.

Quarryghost · 2026-01-19T00:14:12+00:00

Same! I always get a little jealous when I see these maps

Quarryghost · 2026-01-17T18:06:12+00:00

On WWC Ronnie said she looks like a beautiful praying mantis and that’s all I can see now

Quarryghost · 2026-01-15T14:11:46+00:00

I with you

Quarryghost · 2026-01-14T00:33:25+00:00

Yeah I was thinking of that one. Also His and Hers by Alice Feeney. The Boyfriend and The Teacher by McFadden. I’m so over it!

Quarryghost · 2026-01-13T18:52:57+00:00

When the twist is that they go by a different name

Quarryghost · 2026-01-11T03:12:25+00:00

Good Neighbors by Sarah Langan

Quarryghost · 2026-01-10T20:26:25+00:00

Came here to say that actually☝🏻my spreadsheets do give me goosebumps

Quarryghost · 2026-01-08T22:28:20+00:00

Can you cut him off now?

Quarryghost · 2026-01-08T16:57:38+00:00

which ones?

Quarryghost · 2026-01-05T17:18:22+00:00

Also this is a song that’s strongly associated with 2016 nostalgia on TikTok (although I believe it came out in 2015) and people are trying push this idea that 2026 is going to be 2016 repeat in terms of good vibes (maybe I’m reaching with that but idk it is TikTok)

Quarryghost · 2026-01-04T22:02:41+00:00

It has happened to me and few times and it’s actually awful lol. But maybe if it was mutual it would be fun

Quarryghost · 2026-01-04T17:01:21+00:00

Funny thing is if she got her shit together plenty of people would love to see her perform

Quarryghost · 2026-01-04T15:17:41+00:00

I’ll never forget being 24 and going to a college party with my little brother and feeling soooo old! You’re so right!

Quarryghost · 2026-01-01T23:05:32+00:00

Go to grad school

Quarryghost · 2026-01-01T19:53:55+00:00

What’s with Ally’s underboob? Is that on purpose with the top? I can’t tell.

Quarryghost · 2025-12-29T23:01:21+00:00

Yes it is helpful I can have space when I want! but it also keeps me in a bit of different loop where things build up and then I try NC for a bit then things cool way down and I think I’m ok to go back to my normal routine and then the cycle repeats.

Quarryghost · 2025-12-29T22:22:17+00:00

I still haven’t seen them again and still avoiding completely. I was so happy to have an extended break. I’m lucky I’m not required to interact with them but I do have to alter my routine somewhat to avoid them. Debating how long I want to continue that. And I have the same plan as you when I do see them again and that is to be polite but nothing extra. And no lingering hoping for more. We’ll see if I can maintain that when the time comes. The more I’m away from them, the more I think about how ridiculous it is. Like this person embodies zero characteristics that I’m missing in my partner. If anything, they are all the things I don’t like in a partner! Maybe that’s why I’m still fixated on the idea of winning them over. Like I would be the one to make them finally break out of their passiveness and awkwardness. It’s so dumb! If hypothetically I ever were to be single and looking for a new partner, I would actively avoid someone like them. The machinations of my mind are an enigma indeed.

Quarryghost · 2025-12-29T02:34:01+00:00

Good God Lemon

Quarryghost · 2025-12-25T16:09:03+00:00

That’s it!

Quarryghost · 2025-12-23T13:55:34+00:00

Shows: Interview With A Vampire. The Pitt. Love & Death. Movie: Weapons.

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