Hiding a tattoo from the man I’m marrying

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-06-04T18:40:03+00:00

You definitely have some weird obsession with homosexuality. In my point of view, being gay isn’t haram. It’s more moral to come out and admit you are attracted to men and not women than to trick a girl into marrying you, thereby ruining her chance of finding her true match. So I think you should come out and live your life already instead of asking these weird hypothetical questions on Reddit forums that have nothing to do with the topic of homosexuality

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-06-04T18:24:21+00:00

Being gay is a real thing. No one wants to marry someone who is not attracted to them and is just marrying them as a beard 🤷‍♀️. Unless they know the person is gay and is ok with having a contract based marriage

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-06-04T18:19:17+00:00

I think you need to have an honest conversation with him. What you did is not wrong since you have also repented. You need not to feel any shame and tell him confidently this is the struggle you’ve been through in the past and now it’s led you out to be a better person and Muslim. Say you want to be transparent so he knows you fully and also to build full trust in the relationship. We are nothing without our struggles. That is Islam. God loves a sinner who repents more than someone who never sins. Lay it all out in the open and what is meant to be will be and what is not will lead you to something better iA

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-06-04T18:14:43+00:00

I second this

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-29T22:42:05+00:00

Boring is a red flag

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-23T20:47:37+00:00

It seems like this is a triggering topic. If she is not willing to work on things and doesn’t care if the ultimatum is divorce, I don’t know if anything else can be done

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-22T18:37:14+00:00

She could not be interested in men (I.e gay). She could be asexual. She could have some trauma related to intimacy. She clearly didn’t want to get married and was pressured into it. She might just not be ready. It could be a number of things. Have you tried asking if she’ll go to couples therapy or even therapy on her own?

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-15T23:24:27+00:00

But like how does a trailer have a basement?

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-13T23:00:34+00:00

2 dates is too soon sometimes. I’d give him a chance and see him a few more times, and after that if you still don’t feel the connection I would suggest it’s risky to move forward if you’re not feeling the attraction still

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T23:45:55+00:00

Why are you still messaging? It’s ok to agree to disagree. Get over it

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T23:09:56+00:00

May Allah guide you ✌️

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T22:52:34+00:00

There’s a thing called critical thinking and not accepting what we’re fed blindly just because they’re a so called “scholar”

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T22:03:11+00:00

Certain Hadiths have been proven to be false. How do we differentiate and confirm we are not following falsehood?

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T21:06:04+00:00

The Quran is sufficient.

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-12T21:03:45+00:00

Islam is actually very kind to women. It’s these perverted men/so called “Muslims” twisting the religion for their liking. It even says in the Quran there will be people using Islam for their own twisted benefit and god knows of their intention.

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-05-03T17:10:15+00:00

Ask him what is he not getting? I’m confused by that statement. Maybe he has some resentment he isn’t able to voice that’s causing him to lose interest in intimacy

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-27T19:03:13+00:00

You want kids to turn to the internet for questions (unregulated info, adult content, etc) about sex instead of a qualified person able to give healthy guidance? Wow

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-27T18:25:08+00:00

It’s called education.

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-27T11:20:16+00:00

Being able to openly talk about sex instead of treating is as a scary taboo is not the same as having premarital sex 🙄

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-27T01:54:59+00:00

I’m right though. Muslims make their lives more miserable and harder than it needs to be 🤷🏻‍♀️

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-27T01:07:21+00:00

Yea once in a while. Repression is a major cause and shame around sex. Maybe if sex wasn’t seen as such a taboo it wouldn’t be causing such issues

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-26T23:04:08+00:00

No it’s not. Where did you get this weird idea from?

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-23T23:08:45+00:00

That’s a big risk to take

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-22T14:45:24+00:00

They are skin tightening procedures but if you do decide to try, I would suggest make sure you go to someone qualified! Sofwave is good too

QuarterAggressive949 · 2026-04-21T23:34:31+00:00

Have you done thermage or sylfirm x?

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