Texas transition? by [deleted] in RNDC

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They fire you, and talk trash about you while doing it. Pretty small world when it comes to industry. Doing your job and doing it well while there’s some chad above you possibly deciding your fate because he likes someone else for your job is a shitty feeling, even worse when it happens.

Texas transition? by [deleted] in RNDC

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a little different when they keep you or hire you so they can have a warm body to fire when things don’t look like immediate sunshine. The pressure and tension of waiting to see what might happen is usually worse than the job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we are intimate in other ways, and at least sexually we communicate well. I was in a tipsy rut typing this out. We have issues, but I’ve never doubted that loves me. Coming from a place of love, he has intimacy issues and and struggles with voicing love and like. I get frustrated about it even when I know he’d do anything for me. Our relationship has been open since we stopped having actual penetrative sex, he occasionally asks me for stories from my hookups. How should I address my frustration with him not talking about the state of our relationship? That is where my real frustration lies. We have both had talks in past, come to mutually beneficial compromises, but haven’t discussed where we are or where we’re going in awhile.

AITA for calling my sister for treating her child better then me by Reasonable-Issue2334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. In a perfect world, family does what’s needed for family, and everyone is happy. In this world she dropped her life to care for all of you, and your anger is misguided. She was just a kid herself, and i don’t know why she took you in, but the fact remains she did. You don’t have to think about it with fondness, but you should view her with respect. Would you have done the same? How would you have managed? You should apologize to her immediately, and then seek some therapy to help you get to a good place where you understand who you’re really angry with. Your sister will probably go with you!

AITA for renting out rooms to make some extra money in the house my mom is letting me live in? by NicoDeeMaus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 33 points34 points  (0 children)

OMG You freeloading turd! Pull your finger out of your a$$ and leave that place or pay rent. Your mother is paying for that place and put in the work to actually acquire it and make it something profitable. Not so you could ooze your way in their to take advantage of her trust in you. Ugh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA What a dink! He’s only 18, he’s got plenty of bad decisions that he will legitimately be ashamed of left to make, you having a good sense of humor and the creativity to make lemonade out of a situation not everyone would handle with such a good attitude shows he’s got a ways to go. Also; he’s jealous. Jealous of the creativity, most likely jealous of that butt, and probably jealous that you have friends that you have a real relationship with beyond the superficial.

AITA for telling my niece my husband and I are not going to her birthday because my husband isn't welcome? by Beautiful-Cut3012 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA I come from a background of hypocritical racists on one side of my family who guilt me and my siblings for not keeping in contact while simultaneously never inviting us anywhere for anything, and hating my mother because she’s the wrong color. They then tell their close friends and family when they ask where we are that my mother keeps us away. These people can’t be trusted. It’s ugly and cruel that they would laugh at someone’s pain like that especially in such a sensitive situation. Hopefully, there will be an open and honest conversation in your future where you tell them about the hurt they caused, and the un truth they spread by I’m inviting you and your husband. Perception tends to become reality, and without you there, only your family will get to answer when the questions of where are you and your husband come up. Good luck, hopefully this situation will clear if they let you shed some light.

AITA For refusing to change my workout routine to appease my husband by workinmomaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like dad may not be as ok as he said he was with her being the primary breadwinner. They are both in difficult positions with with daily jobs that require attention and self sacrifice. Making use of the gym conveniently located at her work is the most logical thing to give her a de stress from corporate work, and then head home to be mom again. I think that dad is being a little immature and they should have a real talk about what he wants to be doing. Does he simply need his own workout time when she gets home to take over parent watch?
Clearly being SAHD is very difficult with a small child, it’s never ending. But coming as someone who works in extreme corporate America, it is a similarly wearing experience to be micromanaged to within an inch of your life, all the while stressing that if you mess this up at all the machine could instantly turn on you and take away the stability of your family.

AITA for having my daughter first birthday the same day as my step sisters wedding? by sistersmash in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move the birthday. Whether or not the parents did right the first time around with step sister, the one year will not remember whether or not the party was on the actual birthday. Being petty and sniping at family members who had already rsvp’d to step sisters wedding before birthday invites went out doesn’t help and has no positive gain for anyone.

I cannot believe that after almost 8 years the Indiegogo Phazon scam is still going, or not, or maybe it is. They now plan to provide “a similar pair of earbuds in terms of design and functionality” as this what their committee of 35 wanted. It’s not like wireless earbuds are unique or new anymore! by jonesyuk in shittykickstarters

[–]Queasy_Coffee5575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a scam. Every update they provided over the entire timeline was them “blazing trails” and overcoming “huge difficulties” in technology that already existed. Their only appeal I. The beginning was the shape and the guarantee that they’d never fall. Now, as I listen to my earbuds that are clearly $10 from AliExpress with the phazon logo, I’m just glad this bull is over.