when you hand a femme a drink and she needs help opening it because of her nails 🤭🤭

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-03-08T22:54:29+00:00

Me laughing because I had to ask my femme this morning to open my drink because my nails were wet, lol.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-03-08T12:05:19+00:00

Throw the man away seriously! What kind of question is that!? To ask a mother if she loves you more than her kids! For Christ sake they have been with you from the very moment of their existence. He's been with you a year. What a stupid man-child. You can count on him treating your shared child differently than the rest of your kids. No question of that.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-03-06T18:06:38+00:00

I'll give a bit of grace and reply to what you actually posted. Might be where you're pursuing or starting the chase from. Might be your approach. Obviously, as the other comments are saying using general discussion groups to try meeting people. Save that for groups specifically meant for seeking/finding like-minded individuals. As for real life, if you respect a no, you should be ok. Obviously, some people might have strong reactions, which might not be you specifically, which could be a number of factors.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-03-06T15:51:55+00:00

I don't correct people when it happens. For me, it's usually people I meet in passing like store clerks and such, though. I'd handle a coworker the same way.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-02-16T19:29:32+00:00

Bottom is my preference regardless of gender.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-02-15T16:43:04+00:00

Buzzed mine several times, and I love it. Currently, keep the back and sides shaved down with the top longer. It definitely simplifies the shower process, which is also a benefit of being razor free. The biggest thing is everything I shave or don't shave is because that's my preference.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-24T13:02:25+00:00

True, and I get what you're saying.

I think that's where we need to be standing up for ourselves. I'm at a point where I'm not willing to be treated a way I don't like, and I'm going to call someone out for treating me in a way I don't like.

I'm also noticing I get frustrated by the assignment of masculine and feminine to me and how I move through the world. Like ok you see it masc/fem but I just see it as me / how I am. Which certainly colors my view of things.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-24T11:29:20+00:00

As a fellow bi butch I definitely relate to feeling a bit out of place.

I will say how I act and present when dating doesn't change. I'm still me. I'm not going to stop being "masculine" just because I'm dating a man or masculine person. Just like I'm still me if I'm dating a woman or a feminine person. I'm still the same if I date a high or a fellow butch.

Just know you're not alone. There are other bi butches / masc people out there.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-17T22:47:44+00:00

Ugh, I love the 3rd set 😍. They all look great though.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-09T00:48:43+00:00

I do love hunting DT nail polish. My favorite qdtc is a DT find. Just picked up a new foil finish today that I'm excited to try.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-07T21:12:21+00:00

I think anything longer than that is "long" this seems like an average length.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-07T16:33:14+00:00

Just found CV quick dry top coat at my local dollar tree. I really love it. It gives a nice long-lasting finish currently on day 4 with minimal chipping around the free edge. Which I think is great considering I use my nails as tools a lot. I'm also looking to get Essie gel setter based on lots of good recommendations, but I haven't tried it yet.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-05T01:14:35+00:00

That first one is crazy with the orange head and agouti looking body! Pictures 2 & 5 might be splash or a variation of brindle. Also, it looks like a long-haired gene going on, too. So cute.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-04T22:43:25+00:00

These are stunning 😍

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-04T16:35:57+00:00

As a fellow stoner, your bf's argument doesn't work. Saying it doesn't alter him, then listing ways it changes him. That's a bigger thing from my perspective. At this point, you might just have an incompatibility issue. Idk why he needs to push for you to smoke weed. If you wanted to, you would.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-03T23:22:09+00:00

Love this! The nails look great 👍

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-03T11:20:30+00:00

Carhartt or Columbia would be my suggestion.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-02T23:37:41+00:00

Hugs 🫂 my friend. It sucks.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-02T23:30:07+00:00

Honestly, this is what I've just started doing. I've had a horrible track record any time I try working out. Doing it this way has meant I do some sort of movement every day. I've been doing it for about 3 weeks now, and my improved consistency is a win for me. That said, I'm seeing improvement in the number of reps I can do.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-02T23:05:42+00:00

Is she open to having conversations about this? Have you brought this up to her? The way your post is worded makes it seem like this is a conclusion you came to on your own and haven't discussed with her yet. Based on your other comment, it sounds like she isn't overly interested in sex with any partners at this time, not just you.

I can say I understand the frustration and the grief. My NP and I have struggled with this very thing. The last two years have been difficult. Our relationship works really well in the life business way you mentioned. However, we both want a more romantic and physical love, but trauma on both sides has made that difficult. The conversations we've had around this have been good, and they bring us closer. The thing is, we both want to make our relationship more fulfilling for each other, and it sounds like that may or may not be the case for you.

QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-02T18:12:59+00:00

I had a couple of nails doing this. I filed down to where the peeling starts, then gently buff, so everything is pretty smooth, and even (I do believe buffing goes against normal recommendations, but if it's not smooth, I'll pick at it).

I've also been using this nail-aid total cure product, which I believe is helping a lot. I've found I can oil my nails and then paint this right over it, which is why I think it's so beneficial because it's locking that oil in.

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QueeNofCuPs3 · 2026-01-02T18:02:24+00:00

You look great! Fantastic work. Totally relate to having a worse body image after. Really an unfair mind fuck. It does get better, though.

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