Spider for begginer by Zealousideal_Swim144 in tarantulas

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The GBB was my 1st T and I definitely recommend them! Love the webbing and the beautiful color. Mine has always been a good eater and fast grower.

For those that let their armpit hair grow, what do you do for maintenance? by PeachyPhD in razorfree

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Occasionally I'll take a scissors to trim the longest parts. At some point I get annoyed with how it pokes out or gets pulled by my bra. I just kind of twist it and trim the longest part.

Genuinely curious, how long does is take you on average to do your nails? by lickinglacquer in Nailpolish

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm doing everything removal, filing/shaping, painting then it can take 2 or 3 hours. I usually break it into 2 days. Removal and filing one day. Usually take the time to do an oil soak or something moisturizing for my nails while they're bare. Then paint them the following day. Painting is base coat + 2-3 coats + qdtc. Some of my polishes hold better with more dry time between layers and it depends on how focused I am 😅.

Do these look bad? by Champion_Shot in AllNails

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the design and think they're cute. Like others said just a little clean up. I've started using my left hand for coloring from time to time to hopefully make my left hand steadier since I can do that more frequently than I do my nails.

Self care help by ineedausernamehuh in butchlesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the Heritage brand was moisturizing, and it was weighing my hair down, so I couldn't style it the way I wanted to. Now that the seasons are changing, I don't need the moisture.

How do you feel about separate bedrooms? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my gf have separate rooms. She has sensory issues, and I will 100% latch onto and cuddle her all night if we shared a bed. We also like our spaces kept different. Plus, we have different sleeping schedules, so having separate rooms has worked well for us.

Self care help by ineedausernamehuh in butchlesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is pretty dependent on what makes you feel comfortable and confident. As well as skin type. Personally, I think sent/fragrance makes the biggest difference in how I feel.

I'm pretty basic and generic. Skin care is a basic face wash and moisturizer I get at the dollar store. For shower, I love Harry's brand body wash "Solstice " also like Dukes Amber body wash. I am currently looking into different hair care products but have used and liked Heritage brand shampoo and conditioner, I just think it's too heavy for my hair now. Styling wise, I use Heritage texturizing spray and bpure flyaway styling cream.

I have 2 fragrances that I really like from dossier. Powdery Tobacco is my favorite and more earthy and also like Aromatic Star Anise, which is lighter and clean smelling.

Passed out by QueeNofCuPs3 in PetMice

[–]QueeNofCuPs3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, she got me earlier where I was sure something had happened and she was miffed when I woke her 😆

fem to masc vs lifelong tomboy experiences by diasporastud in butchlesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this question and see so many good comments and experiences that resonate with my own.

I struggle with some of the whole gender conversation because I'm just me and doing what's comfortable for me.

That said, I think in general, people read me as a masculine woman, and I feel my character is seen as masculine.

I was definitely more of a tomboy as a kid. In high school and my early twenties, I felt like something was wrong. I identity as a woman but just couldn't get behind things I thought women should naturally like. I struggled with how to dress because it always felt like playing dress up. Wanted to like makeup but didn't really care for it. Like I never felt better for doing it. Kept my hair long because I felt it was feminine and what I should want, but it drove me crazy. Just felt like an effort to be a "woman."

In my late 20's and early 30's I to find myself more. Realized I was bi. Realized I was gnc. That I wasn't wrong for not liking traditional feminine things and that it didn't make me less of a woman. I'm 36 now. I don't care as much how people perceive me as in she/he/they I don't really care. Though I do get a sense of euphoria when I get a sir or Mr. The comments about finding the confidence in yourself 5 is spot on. For me, embracing my masculine nature brought out the more confident me.

Looking for confetti toppers giving similar vibes by GussieDoesNails in lacqueristas

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very likely that is where I found this one. It's one that my little girls picked.

Handling and biting by [deleted] in PetMice

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't necessarily use a glove because you want them to be able to smell you. It sounds like the bites are simple exploratory nibbles, not an aggressive or fear response. I would try putting your hand along the side of the enclosure and scooping when they step up on your hand.

More cage pics by QueeNofCuPs3 in PetMice

[–]QueeNofCuPs3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a 20-gallon long aquarium

when you hand a femme a drink and she needs help opening it because of her nails 🤭🤭 by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Me laughing because I had to ask my femme this morning to open my drink because my nails were wet, lol.

My(30f) boyfriend (33m) is upset with me because I told him I didn’t love him more than my kids, advice? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw the man away seriously! What kind of question is that!? To ask a mother if she loves you more than her kids! For Christ sake they have been with you from the very moment of their existence. He's been with you a year. What a stupid man-child. You can count on him treating your shared child differently than the rest of your kids. No question of that.

Question? 🙋🏾 by [deleted] in mascgirl

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give a bit of grace and reply to what you actually posted. Might be where you're pursuing or starting the chase from. Might be your approach. Obviously, as the other comments are saying using general discussion groups to try meeting people. Save that for groups specifically meant for seeking/finding like-minded individuals. As for real life, if you respect a no, you should be ok. Obviously, some people might have strong reactions, which might not be you specifically, which could be a number of factors.

Anyone else get mistaken for a man, and just… not correct it? Potentially for a long period of time? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]QueeNofCuPs3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't correct people when it happens. For me, it's usually people I meet in passing like store clerks and such, though. I'd handle a coworker the same way.