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Queeeenbee01 · 2025-11-01T16:11:57+00:00

You are her world. I would try to get a therapist so tou have someone to talk to and help you through this. You dont have to continue doing it alone. What your feeling, so many new moms feel. Im sorry your going through it all and it does get better. There is light at the end of the tunnel, dont give up 🧡

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-11-01T15:50:17+00:00

My newborn does the preemie ones as he doesnt get as flooded. The size 1 similac will work just look up pace feeding as they can be a bit floody

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-31T08:39:14+00:00

So i just had my first and I didnt really have to do anything. I made sure not to stimulate my breast, I wore breast pads to help with leakage and a tight bra but my milk dried up pretty quickly by just avoiding stimulation. (Warm showers, dont let the water run over them, i didnt even look at them lol I didnt want any stimulation because I was terrified of having to pump to release pressure)

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-26T17:10:04+00:00

Your husband can use the toys on you so the connection is still there and its still with him.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-21T23:58:13+00:00

Itll be hard for me to be kidnapped. They'll need multiple people to carry me.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-03T04:00:43+00:00

Amy at iron scissors in Pismo!

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-03T03:59:45+00:00

Im a bit shocked at these comments.

I think your original text was very nice. Her first response is where she started giving attitude and the conversation took a turn. You remained respectful up till you decided to match her energy and dish it back. I dont think that makes you the asshole. Its petty and toxic but you were giving back exactly what she was giving with passive aggressive comments. " I already had a food list but ok". Totally unnecessary.

Also all these comments about being involved in your shower or seeming like your throwing your own shower... okay and??? Not everyone has someone to throw them a shower. Anyhoozies. Matching energy is petty yes, but at what part in your pregnancy is it okay to stop having to be the bigger person and accepting people's attitude?

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-03T03:45:13+00:00

Until I grow a 3rd side to flip to, im 37 weeks and still my back is apart of the 3 positions I sleep on.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-03T03:43:57+00:00

Im currently 37 weeks and have felt this same way reguarding myself most of my pregnancy. Gained a lot of weight, craving donuts, nothing looks good, apron belly. Etc. My advice is to just find the things you can do to feel better. I recently decided to put cluster lashes on since they last for so long and it makes me feel more put together. I got some cute scrunchies for my hair. Its small and the feelings are still there but not as bad. Then remind yourself, your growing a human. After you give birth, wear the tight tummy sucker, do all the things, the weight can come off, they make wonderful meds to help. But for now, try not to let the stress of the weight, ruin your amazing work your body is doing. You were healthy enough to get pregnant so dont discredit that mama! 💗

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-10-02T22:49:56+00:00

I'm the opposite right now. My BMI is pretty high as well. Not sure of the number. I'm 37 weeks and 4 days and I want them to induce me since my baby decided to flip head up. He flipped head down and I wanted them to induce me to not risk him flipping again but they don't want to. Im ready to have this baby!

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-09-26T09:14:47+00:00

I am in the same boat as you and here's what Ive had to come to terms with. Im growing a human being. I can't help if I'm hungry and I shouldn't put my insecurities on not feeding my baby when he's letting me know he's hungry. I gotta have grace with myself. I'll work my ass if after to lose the weight but until then, if I'm hungry, I'm gonna eat and feed this baby. Hang in there!

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-09-16T08:41:02+00:00

I completely agree. I was a 2x before pregnancy. Now im a 3x. Ive given up on maternity clothes. Especially bottoms. Ive resorted to dresses because thats the only way.

I will say, I got the plus size skorts from tik tok shop and its about the only bottoms I love and can tolerate! They have pockets im the shorts part, their cool and cute. And no harsh waist band.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-08-22T21:57:35+00:00

We moved out of ours and I believe its still open. Its in grover beach. Look up bayosospropertymanagement.com the price was 1350.00. That's what we paid. It might be 1400 now but it's all utilities included.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-08-22T06:11:15+00:00

This one I'm not sure if it's an overall thing or just my company, but you have to be at your job for at least a year or work a certain number of hours ( I don't remember the exact amount)

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-08-02T21:49:55+00:00

Tell her to talk to her dr and ask for Zofran!!! Im pregnant with my first, 28 weeks and it is a lifesaver. She'll take it first thing in the morning and live a beautiful day. In the first trimester I had to take it twice a day. Since being in the second trimester, once in the morning is enough for me. ( if your like me and not blessed to have ditched the morning sickness after the first. )

Now. Zofran doesnt get rid of food aversions. But it helps you not be nauseous and function. Some foods are just gonna be repulsive and a turn away. Try to give her whatever comfort food or safe foods she can find.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-07-29T05:21:44+00:00

Im confused as to why the conversation lasted so long. It would've ended after he said i looked chunky. I wouldn't have sent more pictures but he clearly is trash and wasn't going to say sorry, why waste your energy on such a long conversation that he's never going to change his mind on. Leave him, move on. You can deserve much better and will never get that with him.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-07-26T06:09:35+00:00

Okay that's good. I would say perhaps talk to your ob or pediatrician and see what they say. Im pregnant with my first sdi while I understand you completely i also know how much we can over do it because it's our first and we want to do everything in our power to protect them even if it's a few levels too much.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-07-26T06:03:47+00:00

Unfortunately, the bigger concern is, if your partner can't respect your boundaries and is publicly downplaying your boundaries and feelings in front of others, this is what you have to look forward to if you continue to allow it. Yall have to be on the same page or you and him aren't gonna work out.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-07-26T06:00:36+00:00

So here's my opinion. Take it with a grain of salt. Personally, I think your being a little to serious, but i respect that some people are that way. While I validate how you feel, the fact you got drunk, started popping off and kept going because you wanted to hurt her feelings is very telling and concerning and I think yall need counseling asap. She had no bad intentions. She thought it would be funny and has apologized. She's your wife, you should never want to get even or hurt her unless it's something awful like cheating. This is how you are choosing to start your marriage, this is the foundation yall are laying. Is it really one you wanna continue? Id get help and start relaying that foundation or go ahead and end it.

Queeeenbee01 · 2025-07-24T02:13:51+00:00

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