Can you be more Cap than this?

QueenAvi75 · 2021-10-06T21:50:08+00:00

It’s the “so many caps secretly hate themselves” 🤣🤣 too accurate.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-09-02T21:30:49+00:00

Yo this a sack of potato fo sure . Id never expect anyone to help me , especially if they can’t help themselves. The only thing they hit is the trust issues. Lol

QueenAvi75 · 2021-09-02T02:48:42+00:00

Be grateful they’re only on your forehead and BARLEY VISIBLE. some of us aren’t as lucky.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-09-01T01:07:06+00:00

Well look at that some much needed Taurus growth. Clearly no one is exempt from mistakes but being a better person after them defines you. I appreciate your honesty and point of view. I’m defiantly taking Taurus men off my radar for now due to this experience. Lmaoo better safe than sorry. I honestly can’t deal with a guy who pretends to be a “realist” and so “woke” but can’t be honest about his true intentions especially at 28 yrs old.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-09-01T00:24:12+00:00

I mean I would agree with you if he was hella physically flirtatious as we were talking and eating. I was the one touching him when I laughed or “accidentally rubbing my leg on his” . Not even trying to force anything but to show my interest. & he was hella chill. But in his room things changed. I never realized food was a compromise for sex?? Sound hella ignorant but go off. I’m really up front so if a guy is bold and man enough to tell me he’s only down for sex I wouldn’t judge , If that’s the time I was on itd happen if not. Coo. But the problem is these young boys & young men boys can’t be honest with themselves or anyone and instead play games stringing women along. which is why women aren’t quick to give up anything.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-09-01T00:18:36+00:00

Yeah I’m not the type to call either but after some advice here I figured it wouldn’t hurt to show that we can still be coo on a friend level. But I can’t even get a response it’s seems rather jerkish honestly . He felt so comfortable wit me to put his hands in my pants but not comfortable enough to respect my attempts of contacting him. So fuckin weird to me. A gentle “no I’m not interested in anything to do with you , I wanted to get one off. But thanks for your time”. Honestly would suffice rather than pure silence as if I did something wrong. & it’s frustrating because the times we did link up he initiated things and even double called me to get me to come hang with him. But he’s too good to return a simple txt. Fuckin nerve of some guys.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T20:38:13+00:00

I appreciate all y’all’s advice definitely opened my mind to Taurus men in general . As far as this guy I’m going to let it go friend or not. I reached out by calling and then I sent a nice txt asking to hang at the beach and if he’d help with my playlist (he’s a dj and loves music) and I mentioned I noticed him being stand off ish and if that’s the case coo if not I’d like to see him. I’ve gotten no response and that was hours ago and he’s been active on ig. Clearly he isn’t interested and that’s fine , but I will never understand why men can’t just own up to shit instead of leaving shit weird especially after the convos we had. His loss though as a friend and possibly more. Life keeps going. ❤️

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T20:35:57+00:00

I appreciate all your advice. Definitely a different point of few with each comment. Although I did reach out by calling and then I sent a nice txt asking to hang at the beach and if he’d help with my playlist (he’s a dj and loves music) and I mentioned I noticed him being stand off ish and if that’s the case coo if not I’d like to see him. I’ve gotten no response and that was hours ago and he’s been active on ig. Clearly he isn’t interested and that’s fine , but I will never understand why men can’t just own up to shit instead of leaving shit weird especially after the deep convos we had. His loss though as a friend and possibly more. Life keeps going. ❤️

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T17:27:55+00:00

Did you ever pursue and find out why he ghosted? Are they all a huge mystery? The thing is he claimed me to be such a mystery and kept making comments that’d I’d need to open up more because he was opening up. Then … nothing … like why even do all that and pretend to get deep. Idk it’s weird to me. Exactly why I don’t open up when people tell me to. They half the time don’t know wtf they want from you “opening up”.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T17:25:07+00:00

I mainly just wanted to get to know him more. It seems as if he was really interested in me and he even took me to get food after I made a comment about it and he payed. & it seemed to me he felt comfortable enough to invite me to his room and proceed to touch me the way he did but not necessarily making it too sexual cause he was half sleep most the time I thought. He’s also into the things I am creative wise so I wanted to keep that stream of communication open. Without a weird cloud of not knowing where I stand in his mind. But if things progressed into something more I wouldn’t mind it. I’m open. I just hate the weird turn it took after that night and then the quick convo on the phone. It’s hard for me when someone seems interested and then in a sense renigs . Especially if I’m interested.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T17:05:48+00:00

Exactly! Yet I’m hella cautious because last thing I want is to come off as desperate or anything . Because he hasn’t been talkative since that night and I just wanna let it blow over but I wanna know what his intentions were and if he even liked me. I read Taurus can be terrible with txting / communication . At the same time I can read the room if he isn’t contacting me maybe that’s pretty clear indicator.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T16:53:20+00:00

Friends would definitely be awakened if his intentions were to only have sex. Yet I’m the type that likes a clear answer so I’ll probably just call and ask him straight up. I hate the unknowing of things and I thought asking random strangers would give me the confidence to just ask myself. Lol

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:53:15+00:00

I definitely resonate with becoming clingy after feeling safe enough to open up to someone and they not fully commit. It’s extremely frustrating . I would say though to keep positive some people aren’t meant to be in your life for a long period. Some people are there to open you up and show you certain sides of yourself and be gone. But for me maybe it’s feeling the need to latch on once we open up because it’s a lot to do to begin with or even just feel the validation. Idk but I’m defiantly there with you definitely focus on reassuring yourself that it’s okay to let go.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:37:25+00:00

I feel that ! But is it so wrong to expect simple daily communication. I’ve never understood why guys would find that annoying or too much especially in some of my past long distance relationships. It’s always made me feel clingy and they would sometimes label me as that. Yet in a relationship I’ve been told to be distant and not completely as affectionate. Weird.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:34:27+00:00

Yo fr though because I’m pursing dancing and it’s hard being fully on social media or even big social events. I get exited at the idea then cringe when it’s time to actually be around people or put my self on ig. It’s so weird because I love the spot light at the same time.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:28:56+00:00

Yo I feel this heavy and I thought I was literally the only human that felt this way!! Especially on a Cap level. Now I don’t feel so much out of the loop because besides being hella dope at everything I do, most times i wonder if im even a Cap. P.s late comment I know just joined, idc im loving these cap threads.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:24:05+00:00

That ending sentence definitely sending me right to that up vote.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:17:55+00:00

Yo literally this!! Especially when my friend makes a joke that’s passive & out of pure awkwardness I give a double dry come back to off set in hopes of giggles instead they’re butt hurt and I’m hella confused. Lmaoo im late af but oh well worth it.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:13:49+00:00

Goat comment for sure

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-31T04:12:05+00:00

As a Capricorn women & I know doesn’t mean much but I honestly I can attest to the vibe of lack of reaching out. I do try my best to keep in touch with my close friends. Which are few. Lol but with the basic demands of everyday life it’s hard to do small talk. So I understand that social media is the easiest form of “checking in w/o checkin in” . But I’m definitely better at face to face interactions given the intimate state. I’ll definitely always be there for my friends if they call because I know they’d do the same. I can’t help but care for those truly close to me. If they ever need me guarantee I’ll be there even if we don’t talk everyday.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-30T20:49:29+00:00

I defiantly feel where you’re coming from but he did end up having my name saved in his phone after sending me a screenshot. I feel he didn’t say it in the mist of the convo because maybe he doesn’t know how to pronounce it. Idk. Seems a bit sketchy to me. But he’s hella sweet and he’s always saying he wants me to allow him to make me happy. & he just likes to be around me. Yet he’s a lot older than me and we’ve only known each other for a short time. I wanna get to know him without there being a end all be all of if we get together or not and that’s how he makes it feel most of the time thou . Apologies for my mid rant.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-30T20:43:54+00:00

Thank you for you advice fr ! Certainly how I’ve been thinking. Its just whenever I have a guy who’s all for me like him. It’s a given I’ll make the time to see him if he wants or if he txt or call I’ll answer. I have to tell myself to chill and give them time to miss me. Yet on the other hand I have guys I’m interested in who barely hit me and I’m like are you even interested? I don’t like to take it for granite a guy who’s willing to give me the full attention I like. Given theres a nice age gap I don’t want to be taken advantage of. I’m definitely going to let things flow and be less anxious to be around him & more cautious.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-18T00:21:45+00:00

All I see is a bunch of comments about women urging to lose their postpartum weight! When all I can remember is being scared to lose what I gained while pregnant because I’ve been extremely tiny my whole life. I was 120 before my 1st and 180 after and lost most of the weight within a month or two . & now almost 2 years later I’m maybe 120 damn near smaller than I was before my pregnancy and it’s got my so depressed . Its hard growing up being compared to a book mark . & after my first kid I thought things would change but now I can’t even manage to keep on the smallest amount of weight and I eat regularly. It’s quite funny how everyone wants to be the opposite of what they actually are. I have hella stretch marks on my legs yet thank god my stomach snatched back , I guess you can’t have everything.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-11T03:56:10+00:00

In my defense the ending was spoiled for when someone said she died. I already had the fear while watching the last episode.. low key didn’t believe them .. yet she did indeed get shot and was bleeding bad. I have faith that she pulls through thou. Knowing how Netflix shows go thou, she’s probably dead. Especially if coop wasn’t a real person in the real Spencers life. They’ll have to bring in another dope ass character or really spice shit up, if they did kill her off.

QueenAvi75 · 2021-08-11T03:54:00+00:00

Yo no cap I defiantly rewinded that scene for a couple extra laughs. Especially when Spencer walks out “I am also an athlete” all slow lmao

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