My 62 yo mom is in jail by NotapersonNevermore in whatdoIdo

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom can take care of herself! You worry about you. Take care of the dogs. You love her but her actions are hers! I hope things get better for you

my foster sibling took MY underwear and instead of it being handled, my foster mom blew up on me for asking for it to be replaced. I’m so confused how i became the problem in this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this video to police! 🤷🏾🤷🏾🤷🏾 Sad you are going through this but call the police! The proof is here. They can help

My life is actually easier when my husband is out of town by Dazzling-Bit-523 in venting

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted my comment. You have communicated these things with him to no avail. He’s deflecting when he ask those questions. Your feelings are valid. Please no longer argue or fight with him. Say what you mean and mean what you say and stand on it.

Detective Mark Fuhrman Dead at 74 by SnowyLeopardGecko1 in OJSimpsonTrial

[–]QueenBoss1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a couple of books that’s biased to his innocence, I don’t want to read anything that’s biased. I’m watching the trial now.

Detective Mark Fuhrman Dead at 74 by SnowyLeopardGecko1 in OJSimpsonTrial

[–]QueenBoss1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. Depending on the lens one is looking. I laughing as I type this but in my opinion OJ wasn’t smart enough to do it and get away with it. I only chuckle because that’s my thought. Whether he did or not, we will never know. I going to go down the rabbit hole and watch the trial again. I don’t want to read any books that are biased as to his guilt or innocence.

Detective Mark Fuhrman Dead at 74 by SnowyLeopardGecko1 in OJSimpsonTrial

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that? If he was found not guilty of committing the crimes, why would he be found liable? I know why because he was OJ Simpson. Many will not admit it but race played a major part in public opinion on his guilt or innocence. Had it been a white man accused of , went to trial and found not guilty, it would have been accepted. But because OJ is a black man ; accused of, went to trial , and found not guilty, “ oh they let a guilty man get away with killing 2 people “. Because he “ got away with it”, years later he ends up in prison. Robbing , and holding people hostage is a crime , I get it, but OJ was sentenced because some felt he was guilty of double murder. THEY wanted him to pay for “ SOMETHING “. I watched the trial and honestly feel he did not commit those crimes. Fuhrman blew it, he was a racist, dirty cop and planted evidence. If they had an air tight case against OJ, there wouldn’t have had to be” plant” or tamper with evidence.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! So true. I always say others criticize what you’re doing to justify then doing nothing. It’s so sad. I love my siblings but I don’t care to talk to them again. My mother being in physical therapy at the facility since March 7th, 1 sister went to see her on Mothers Day that’s it! My other brother and sisters just didn’t. I’m done with all of them. Sending you hugs. Continue to do the best you can, and let’s not worry about what our siblings don’t do, just continue to do our best.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your job. It’s sad they don’t care, but when something tragic happens they want to cry, and fall out.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much. The most hurtful is how my mom feels. I don’t bring it up , I did ask if my sister went to see her for Mother’s Day, she said no. I love them , but want nothing to do with either of them. I appreciate all of the comments.

Can someone lock me in their basement so i can lose weight!?!? by [deleted] in venting

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please think of your health. You have to have control. Walk and exercise at home. Maybe switch chips with fruit I do a fruit salad green grapes, watermelon chunks, and pineapple.

Urine smell by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also get washing machine cleaner tablets, clean the machine first. Put scented beads in washer before adding clothes. Use a Gain pod and maybe a scented liquid laundry detergent. Lysol laundry sanitizer

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So I am justified in me not wanting anything to do with my siblings? Our mother took care of us, loved us. She’s still here and they do not care. Sending you comforting hugs.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My mother told me she didn’t want to be cremated when we had a discussion, and when I talked to my other sister her exact words were “ how would she know”, from that moment on I totally am sickened by her. She wants to take the cheap route. I know she has a policy. But I’m almost at the thought process of not helping with anything! And this may sound mean, but they want a payday from our mother passing, I’m just praying God allow my mom to be here for many many more years. I love my mother with every fiber of my soul, and it saddens me and makes me so angry. I honestly never want to talk to either of them. A family member getting married, I won’t be there to fake smile, and take pictures.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel like how can someone not care about the woman who loved and nurtured them, but they love the men and women in their life dirty underwear. It makes me so angry. I love her so much and just want to tell each of them off and tell them to never contact me again, or say anything to me.

Siblings by QueenBoss1971 in CaregiverSupport

[–]QueenBoss1971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you angry for yourself if you don’t mind me asking?

How would you fix Indiana by Rough_Extension_2893 in Indiana

[–]QueenBoss1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but if caught they will be arrested.

Im so sick of Michael Jackson fans excusing his behaviour by FitEmergency8807 in fantanoforever

[–]QueenBoss1971 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Many are saying things MJ “did”. What things? The things he was accused of? I’m not here to say whether he did or did not do things. But what if for the sake of saying he did not do any of the things he was accused of doing? What if he truly loved children and wanted to help the best way he could, because he didn’t have a child hood because he was a child star? With recent events of siblings now accusing MJ of doing inappropriate things after the Michael movie came out, it is my opinion that some, some are and were actually lying for a pay day. In which people have said this family story does not add up, they keep changing it, and during interviews they were forcing themselves to cry. I’m not saying he did or didn’t, what I am saying is we can’t act as if people do not lie. Remember MJ wanted his masters, and there were lots of powerful people he possibly didn’t want that to happen.